Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

there this guy named jeff i am going out with him but all he does is work and me and my x-boyfriend is still friends but he still loves me and he is movieing near me and he said that is going to ask me a very importent qustion i know what it is he ended up tell me he is going to ask to marry him i am think of saying yes and going with if because i still love him and jeff is just not trying at all and i dont like that i want someone that well be there for not always about work what should i do about that?

help me what person should it be ken or jeff?

2007-03-28 04:05:17 · 8 answers · asked by alisha bessette 2 in Singles & Dating

here i thought i was the one that was the depress, loney, and thought noone loved me, but then i found out that my bf was stressed out from everything thats been happening to him buy a renting a new apartments his tickets and the damge on his car his money has been going down, and we have been fighting like crazy, if i would have known this sooner i would have given him time helped him through this how can i take away his stress and help him? And why didn't he tell me this sooner!!?

2007-03-28 04:05:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What advice can you give me to earn a woman's heart?

2007-03-28 04:04:28 · 20 answers · asked by Bombora Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been kinda seeing a gal , we have alot in common, she's pretty, smart, sweet. Then last night a gal I have been emailing called, she floored me, just her voice, her first hello, took my breathe away, literally.

We talked for an hour, and my heart was racing. Now I have been in alot of relationships over the years, good and bad. But one phone call and I feel like I was/have been struck by lighting. Last time this happened I was 19, now again at 37.

Please help me, I am torn, I have usually gone with my heart instinct through life and it almost always works out for me, my brain , well usually I fall on my face..what should I do?

Ps, no smart a### responses please, sensitive, honest answers only, thanks.

Billy

2007-03-28 04:04:21 · 6 answers · asked by blythkd 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are expecting our 3rd child. He says that he wants to experience the bond that I share with out kids in full capacity. My husband has been looking into getting breast implants so that he will know what it feels like to breast feed a baby. He says that he wants to feel the same bond that I do so that the kids will love him with all of their heart.
I thought that it was a little unusual for him to be interested in doing that but his doctor says that it is quite common for fathers to get implants. His doctor says that he has given about 100 men breast implants over the past 3 years. Should my husband really get breast implants so that he can breast feed our unborn baby??

2007-03-28 04:03:21 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My young boyfriend does not like to use protection and he thinks that I cannot get pregnant at 55. I am having a hard time convincing him that I can.

Have any of you been in this situation where you do not wish to get pregnant and your boyfriend, lover or hubby does not want to wear a condom? If so, how did you convince him that he needed to wear protection?

2007-03-28 04:03:17 · 23 answers · asked by Momma K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

kay theres this guy that i like and he loves to play paintball. So i was talking to him the other night and i mention that me and my friends were gonna go play paintball and he sounded like he wanted to come, so i invited him and told he could bring some of his friends.so when i asked him he said maybe??? What is he doing. my friends say he likes me and he acts weird around me, i cant tell if hes being nice or if its somethng more?????

2007-03-28 04:02:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Men would you be willing to work things out with your wife if during a leagal seperation that lasted a year she got pregnant with another mans baby?Been married 4 yrs and before my seperation with my hubby we were trying to get pregnant for almost 2 yrs. This put a lot of strain on our relationship causing a lot of fights he wanted us to have a baby to complete our family.He started accusing me of trying to prevent pregnancy which was not the case.Then it became that i was working to much he accused me off having an affair not true at all.He moved out saying he needed space. He has been living in california but called me to say he is moving back to N.J because he wants to work things out?

2007-03-28 04:01:41 · 15 answers · asked by Megan C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 04:01:06 · 8 answers · asked by Mike B 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to get a quick pedicure at a local shop yesterday. I brought my son who sat quietly in his stroller and ate crackers. One of the employees had her 2 daughters there, approximate ages 12 and 6-7. The older girl was a MONSTER. She was walking around belching in the faces of her sister and the other employees, hitting her sister, yelling racial and gay slurs at someone walking past the shop and so much more. Her mother completely ignored her, while some of the other employees tried to get the girl to sit down. The final straw was when she got into a shoving match with her little sister, kicked over my purse and screamed the word "*****" at her 7 year old sister. I told her she needed to find someplace to sit down and to be nicer to her sister. She replied, "I don't feel like sitting down and I like being mean to my sister. She's a *****." She then commanded her sister to finish off what was left of the older girl's chips, telling her if she didn't she was going to punch her in the face. It was sick. The younger girl just stood there and took it, never once crying or even asking her sister to stop. She barely even looked up. I feel so bad for her. It's a good salon, one of the few good ones within a quick driving distance to me, but I really don't want to go back if this woman is going to let her child be abusive and rude. All the employees were aware of what was going on, and tried to intervene, it just wasn't working. What should I have done?

2007-03-28 04:01:04 · 6 answers · asked by Miss Informed 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just Freind not fall in love, PLEASE!

2007-03-28 04:01:01 · 9 answers · asked by weston_23_16 1 in Friends

Hey, My girlfriend and I have been dating now for a year and a half straight. We fell in love with one another back in junior high school. We were friends for about 4 years before we actually started dating. She really wants to get in ingaged and then wait a year then get married but im affraid of getting married to young and early. FYI - im turning 19 in a month and shes turning 18 in 2 months do you think that is to young to get married and/or if we do, do yall think we can make it.

2007-03-28 04:00:55 · 6 answers · asked by JAY 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm very grateful that some friends from church are throwing me a baby shower. They have been talking about throwing this shower for about 3 months now. A few weeks ago one of them calls and says that the shower will be March 31, she sent the invites out in a few days and hardly no one is able to make it because of this short notice. I feel hurt because I've always envisioned my baby shower gaving over 10 people at it! My mom works night and needs to sleep and probably cant make it herself, and these are her friends. The party is being thrown in another city 30-45 minutes away and I have family coming in from out of town. Only my husbands sister is going to be able to make it, no one else from his family. This isnt like them to do something on a whim like this. Ugh! What should I do?

2007-03-28 04:00:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Full, thin, or tight lips. Just curious. lol

2007-03-28 04:00:25 · 19 answers · asked by Sasha 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok. I feel like I do more than I receive. He gets off way more than I get to. Sometimes he acts like he doesn't even want to try. I get frustrated with it and don't even want to do it anymore because I feel like I'm not going to get much out of it anyway. I know that it's not all about me, but I feel like here recently none of its about me. He wants us to communicate, but when I tell him how I feel he gets upset and turns to the other side of the bed. But when I get upset and turn away, its all of a sudden a big freakin deal. He's not a very affectionate person and I feel that this is my only loophole. Help.

2007-03-28 03:59:33 · 26 answers · asked by Amanda 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 03:59:09 · 13 answers · asked by hello world 7 in Family

she is my colleague, we are working same place, we have very good friendship, often i told her i love her so much but she is always silence n the relation is going on but few days ago we have argue between us, she told me i m not inside what is outside, mean i m different n i told her i did mistake only i luv u, thenafter she doesn't talk me, even look me, she had tell me our friendship is end and i killed her from our relation, pls advice me wht shuld i do, i beg her many time n say sorry many many time from my side but she hasn't change...is she love me or hate

2007-03-28 03:58:32 · 22 answers · asked by NEPAL 1 in Friends

2007-03-28 03:58:21 · 17 answers · asked by Siddhartha S 1 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday I did a post about my boyfriend & his ex, I didn't include in my post that they have 2 children. It always seems like his children are dropped off unannounced & he tells me at the last minute they are coming over when he has to work. So I am the one who ends up watching them. If I have plans&have to go somewhere & they have to go back home, his ex gets upset. For instance, one weekend, his children came over and my boyfriend had to go to work. He didn't let me know in advance that they were coming. I had already had made my plans for the weekend. So he took them back to their mother's house just until he got off work. His ex had a fit!! She got mad and called me. And started questioning me about what I was doing that day. She also made a statement to me that as a mother, I should understand the importance of a father spending time with his children. I told her that I did, however, she & my boyfriend needed to handle the situation with their children. It is unfair to the kids.

2007-03-28 03:57:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you talk to someone? Who?
I've tried talking to my boyfriend, writing in a journal, etc. and I still don't understand the emotions I am going through. I dont know what to do!

2007-03-28 03:56:52 · 16 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Were you trying to extend helping hand and give someone a chance they would never really have for it only to backfire?
No offense and No Pun's... just curiousity.

2007-03-28 03:56:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's hot!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-28 03:56:19 · 23 answers · asked by baby_the_bunny 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 03:56:16 · 26 answers · asked by Professional Daddy 1 in Family

We have one child, a five year old.

2007-03-28 03:56:10 · 11 answers · asked by denise s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy in my class, and I have a crush on him. I want to let him know that I care about him, but he called my friend a wh*re. My friend calls him my "boyfriend", just because we walk to the lunch room together and talk a lot together. How can I show my feelings?

2007-03-28 03:56:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Were you trying to extend helping hand and give someone a chance for i only to backfire?

2007-03-28 03:55:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey all where can i buy prenatal vitamins for the hair, does Boots Pharmacy do it , or can i jus get it over the counter at any chemist?

2007-03-28 03:55:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in a role reversal marriage where I am the sole breadwinner and my husband stays home and does all the homemaking (cooking and cleaning).

I don't cook. We agreed my husband would do this - and he is doing better than I would (except for too much Hamburger Helper). However, many people assume that I cook and it is my responsibility. What are everyone else's thoughts?

2007-03-28 03:55:15 · 17 answers · asked by Claudia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everytime I plan to get together with family and one of my step-siblings is involved, he always insists on changing the plans to suit his needs at the last minute. He is more of a partier than the rest of us, so maybe he thinks nothing of insisting that a whole bunch of his friends tag along, or insisting that we go out to a bar when someone has planned a party at home. This has happened with him several times now. He acts like he has no concern for other people's plans, and if other people do not want to go out, he calls them "boring." I like going out to bars, and have several times with him, but I don't like doing it if I'm planning a party and it's supposed to be at home. I'm having a birthday party this weekend and setting it up is costing me a lot of money. I only invited my closest friends and fam. Once again, he's asking if we can go out to a bar with his friends instead. Is this just rude or oblivious? How do I deal with this? (I yelled at him about it on New Year's)

2007-03-28 03:55:01 · 8 answers · asked by sylvia62002 1 in Family

My fiance and I have sent out invitations to all our family and friends for our 5/5 wedding. I'm a little nervous that we've only recieved seven or eight RSVP cards out of the 146 people we invited and the wedding is five weeks away. I asked people to RSVP by 4/5 but the invitations were sent out a little late and now I'm not sure what to do? Should I set the cut off a little later? The caterer will need an accurate headcount a week or two before the wedding...suggestions?

2007-03-28 03:55:00 · 18 answers · asked by Kitten 4 in Weddings