Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

My best friend is getting married next year and is planning on a punk-inspired ceremony and reception.
She has decided that the colors she wants to focus on are black and white.
I have promised to help locate decoration, favors, and such that fit with this theme. I need help! Where can I find things like this?????

2007-03-26 02:58:57 · 13 answers · asked by Little_Femme 3 in Weddings

I am still friendly with my ex but do have a boyfriend. I waited for my ex for 4 years to make a commitment and he just wouldnt. i met someone else and am now trying to hook my ex up with someone. Since i met someone he seems to be trying to find a GF now. When he told me that i know what he likes, i commented with "if i didnt make the cut, who could" and his response was " beceause im a retard". Do you think he regrets it? losing me that is.

2007-03-26 02:58:54 · 9 answers · asked by coco 2 in Singles & Dating

One of my ex boyfriends sisters is popping pills and cutting blood off in her arm i worry about her and the doc. told her that she could die and i will b mad @ myself 4 letting her do it.
and she offered my a cig. but i said i don't wanna die of lung cancer. SHE NEEDS MAGER HELP...

2007-03-26 02:58:28 · 7 answers · asked by katydann1994 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-26 02:58:19 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 02:58:13 · 25 answers · asked by antitesiz 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 02:57:54 · 5 answers · asked by antitesiz 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-26 02:56:58 · 6 answers · asked by shaan 1 in Friends

I was burgled a few months back. My friend Sue, bless her, just turned up to my home and helped me hoover and clean up. My other friend Diane, when I told her how good Sue had been said, "She sounds like a good friend" and that was it. I just wonder why Diane wouldn't want to also be a good friend?

2007-03-26 02:56:51 · 13 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Friends

i never get to spend time with him anymore because his mom is to protective and he has to work on saturdays please help! oh yeah and im fourteen so please appropriate answers

2007-03-26 02:56:49 · 4 answers · asked by deep@thought 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

First off, this relationship was serious. We decided to meet and chat on a specific day. He did not show, but keep in mind his job is very demanding. So, I waited for him without sending any offline messages/e-mails to him, actually, I fell alseep waiting. The next day, same thing. No show. He did send me a message when I was offline and it was like his reg self(sweet& caring) After that, I have not heard from him for 5 days. The thing is, is he was signing on to 2 different sites but still not messaging me. He was the one who came on strong which caused feelings to develope on both sides. Now he is gone, just like that. This cause me to send a nasty e-mail(I said I was done, etc) also, I did send 2 other e-mails where I was more assertive of my feelings (i.e., nasty things were NOT said). Still no response but he was online, meaning he could have responded. I am desperately trying to forget him but I can't when I don't know what went wrong when everything was so right. Thanks~

2007-03-26 02:56:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're getting married last weekend in July but we planned to leave for our honeymoon 2 weeks later.we jsut didn't want to be rushed around,we are having an outside wedding and we will have to do all the cleanup the nextday. has anyone heard of people doing this before.

2007-03-26 02:56:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-26 02:56:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Sista & I were really close at one time. We use to work together, go out together & our kids always played together. Two and a half years ago she moved away to the next town and was in what I call a bad relationship because she and her man were physically abusive towards each other. She got really thin and wouldn’t let her mother see her or her granddaughter. When we called she would never return our calls or always made excuses for us not to go over there to see them. We suspected something was wrong to which Sista said it wasn’t like that but then it got her daughter taken away by the State. Anyways the court made her get out of that relationship and for a year & ½ she been doing whatever the courts asked her too to get her daughter back and while she was doing that the State gave custody to her mother who has been nothing but supportive to her. Giving her $$ when she says she needs it and just all out taking advantage of her. So Sista got her daughter back and the case got closed. All fine and dandy right? Wrong. Sista is now in a new relationship in which she says that they are nothing but friends with benefits but like the last man had no job and there’s been rumors that he’s a drug dealer. Anyways, ever since she got her daughter back slowly but surely we noticed that she starting to act like she did before. Not returning phone calls, she gotten thin again, not allowing her Moms to see her daughter, and putting up excuses again. So this past weekend, her Mom when directly to her apartment to see what was going on because she hasn’t seen her granddaughter in almost a month. When she got there, Sista wouldn’t allow her Moms to enter the apartment because she had company over and she came out to greet her Moms wearing oversized sunglasses at 9pm in the night. We suspect that she either on something which we know she smokes pot but we think she might be doing something else even though she denying it or the dude she’s with did something to her. Sista’s mom is heartbroken, after all she did for her to get her daughter back and Sista disrespects her by yelling at her and telling her to mind her own business. Me being a mother myself, am very concern not only for her but for her child. Moms is thinking of contacting the social worker who was assigned to her case previously if her daughter doesn’t come clean about what’s going on. Her older brother has tried to talk to her but she doesn’t want to hear it. What can we do to help her? We can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped. Do you think Moms is right to have the State get involved? She just wants to be able to see her granddaughter. What can she do. Does she have rights? What do you think?

2007-03-26 02:56:03 · 5 answers · asked by Baby J 1 in Family

Ok i have an idea to approach this girl i want to toalk to. I always have problems trying to approach a girl so i always try to come up with a way to. Plus im nervous because she's younger and younger girls tend to be a little meaner towards feelings. Ok soim going to go over to her with my Ipod and im going to put it on hold. And im going to go up to her tell her its not working and ask her if she could help me out. And sooner or later we'll figure out its on hold and i'll say i dont know and then i start small talk with her after that. It sounds a little dumb but im just seeing what will work or not. So what do you guys think? Is it good, bad, ok.

2007-03-26 02:55:47 · 6 answers · asked by robinson_cj 2 in Singles & Dating

My Future Mother-In-Law has given me a list of people that she only wants me to send an announcement and not an invitation. She doesn't want the recipients to think we are asking for presents only to send a notice that we are getting married. Where can I get information on either where to buy an announcement card or what to put on the announcement?

2007-03-26 02:55:14 · 6 answers · asked by Cricket 2 in Weddings

Just asking for opinions, everyone has their own opinions right? For me it would probably be eye-to-eye, and say it right in front of her that she loves her, any more suggestions?

2007-03-26 02:55:09 · 8 answers · asked by julia p 1 in Singles & Dating

My Wedding dress is very big and bridal. I am trying to decided on how to have my hair for the wedding. I have big crystal earrings and no necklace. I want to go very soft with the hair and plan to take the veil off for the reception. Which do u think is better. I have medium lengh blonde hair and both styles will suit me perfectly.

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2007-03-26 02:55:02 · 15 answers · asked by jenifajen 3 in Weddings

2007-03-26 02:54:28 · 32 answers · asked by asif b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 02:54:11 · 35 answers · asked by tony t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay im in choir class and we have a guy teacher in his late 40's and im in eighth grade. well he grades us everyday on our singing. everyone else in the class sings but not as good as me. i can tell that im the teachers pet because he told me that im a good singer in class and that i have a good voice. when he is grading us, he always looks at me like 70% of the time and the others 30% of the time. and TRUST me i know. i sing with good posture, i drop my jaw, move my lips and hold my music up high. he seems to notice it because i get all A's every grading period and he is always looking at me and complimenting me. so why does he look at me so much? do you really think he notices me? why or why not?

2007-03-26 02:54:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't have a hard time talking, it just i get all luvv dubby on the phone. How do i stop doing that on the phone all the time, n just talk regular like with my friends. I guess because in all my 20 years i never really talked on the phone, but now i be going out with this girl for 5 months. We chatted for the first three months, then started talking on the phone n she loves talking to me she say, but sometimes she wish i can just be regular on the phone, like talking to a friend

2007-03-26 02:53:46 · 4 answers · asked by Brandon O 1 in Singles & Dating

What is Friendship ?

Is Friendship wants anything always from his/her Friends ?

Is friendship wants age limit between two friends ?

Is friendship makes any circumstances ?

If two persons are far away from each other then can they friends ?

2007-03-26 02:52:31 · 6 answers · asked by shaan 1 in Friends

I'm from India. I was shocked when someone told me that extramarital affairs are more common in USA. I have always believed that extramarital affairs is logically much more possible only in societies such as India where loveless arranged marriages happen more than normal marriages springing from dating and relationships.

2007-03-26 02:52:26 · 10 answers · asked by Kannan J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 2 years, I met him when I came to the UK for a holiday from Oz. We fell into love when we were together for 2 months. However, my feelings seem to have deminished in the last few months, I dont feel the same way about him. I also feel he's overprotective of me! He wont let me go out anywhere on my own, and we always are together. He's a very sensitive guy and has said he would literally die if i ever broke up with him. I feel under pressure, should I risk a break up? I dont know whether im with him just because of what he said!!!

2007-03-26 02:52:20 · 13 answers · asked by missyemma02 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

see my bf cheated on me with a girl who was 14 2 yrs ago and got her pregnant and now she has had the baby and is 16. see i have always been there for him and took up for him alot. But i don't understand why he would do that to me. I mean he said that the reason why he did was b/c we were having problems but when he did that my grandpa just died and my bro had just gotten shot. I was really upset and needed him to be there for me and instead he goes off with this 14 yr old girl. Now i'm 20 and his 20 and shes 16 and she wants to be with him but he doesn't want her. Would u do this to a girl who has always been there for u? why do u think he did this?

2007-03-26 02:51:54 · 28 answers · asked by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 in Singles & Dating

Can you find her pictures

2007-03-26 02:51:45 · 3 answers · asked by lakrystal l poohpooh 1 in Singles & Dating

I spent a weekend with a close friend and her children were just rude and ill mannered. When their mother did not admonish them, I tried to let them know that I was their mother's friend and not their friend, so they needed to treat me like an older person. It didn't help and it got to a point where I had to tell the kids that their behaviour was hurtful at which point they cliamed they were joking. When I was finally leaving, my friend apologized for their behaviour but also added 'You know how kids are'. I want to continue my 15 year old friendship but I simply can't tolerate the kids.

2007-03-26 02:51:30 · 8 answers · asked by almondice 1 in Friends

i have been with my boyfriend for 6. we are madly inlove and soon will be married, but one thing is children. I don't want kids and he maybe does. I have been honest with him since day one, now I have pressure of his friends and family. What do i do break up.

2007-03-26 02:50:45 · 40 answers · asked by WHITNEY H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend called me today after two months with no contact.

Two months ago, he told me he needed to work out his feelings so I gave him enough time before I tried to contact him, but he gave me the slient treatment and totally ignored me for 2 months.

I thought it was over and was trying my best to move on. But today he called and asked me if I was doing ok. He said he had been missing me and is still in love with me. He just took the time and did a lot of thinking.

I know people need their time and space but 2 months is way too long.

Should I try to work things out with him or should I leave him considering how he treated me in the past 2 months? I was absolutely distressed.

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2007-03-26 02:50:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Parents, do you believe in spanking your child/children or do you not believe in spanking your child/children? What are your reasons for or against?

I am wondering about this topic because when it comes to my kids I believe I will spank because I was spanked by my parents (also paddled in school without parent supervision) when I was young and it worked out well for me. Do not think I don’t realize that every child is different and different approaches work better with different children.

Furthermore, I believe when kids are younger you cannot reason with them because they are not old or wise enough to understand logic. They do however understand pain!

Have you ever been out and seen a child acting outrageous and thought, what is that parent thinking, why don’t they put a stop to this? Sometimes the parent tries to publicly reason with the child with minimal success (ie they continue the behavior). Do you think a paddling would be appropriate or has our government tied parents hands too much for doing anything in that type of situation?

2007-03-26 02:49:51 · 16 answers · asked by Derrick 3 in Family