Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

WHAT'S MY NEXT STEP ? WHAT should i do ?
im wit my aunte and everything is as perfect as it could get for me. i live with my dad, don't have no mom. i hate him and living with him. we had uncountable fist fights, police drama just everything. he got full custody of me and will not let me live with anyone else. i want to live with my aunte. im 17 on feb.28,2008 ill be 18 but thats so far away. i can't deal with living their i am unhappy. i don't wanna go back to stay with my dad i truley truley hate him, despite what people may say. they wernt their when i was in to deep * [sad,afaid,scard,sucidal ,etc]



i don't wanna go back my dad thinks it's somthings wrong with me, it's so depressing i don't wanna go back 18 is too far away,

2007-03-26 02:23:02 · 3 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Family

if you have come to the determination that your social scene overall is not what you need and you decide to leave it completely, which would you pursue? A girl i've been crushing on (though i don't think my now over social life would be too impressive); a part time job(to fill the void and increase $); or a move to a new city (dedication to getting the new job/scene)?

2007-03-26 02:22:50 · 2 answers · asked by steveo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Am I wrong? Am I the one who is making the mistake of losing someone over something dumb?
Am I wrong for feeling this way?
My boyfriend smoked pot when I met him. I also smoked awhile ago when I met him(about 3 years ago). I only smoked for about 3 months and then quit completely. It has been 3 years of me and my bf being together and I can't stand him smoking anymore. When I smoked I use to do it for fun. He says he smokes so he is calm and can just chill. He does smoke like 3 times a day. but only alittle at a time just to calm him down. I just feel like he should not have to smoke when I hang out with him. I try to make him feel comfortable and just feel like I don't make him feel good enough and he needs a drug. When I went over his house last night, after a hour of me being there he asked me to drive him to get some weed. I was only staying for 3 hours. We fought about it, He said he just wanted to be relaxed while I was there....wtf, he was not smoking when he was alone.. I came there to make him feel better. we only chill like twice a week.

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9 minutes ago
We ended up breaking up. Am I wrong for flipping out over him smoking? I just can't take the smell..him acting high and stupid...What if we had kids and they saw him smoking.. I don't know..

2007-03-26 02:22:23 · 11 answers · asked by CrazyChic86 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 02:21:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i like this one guy but i dont think he knows but the problem is hes going to move next year half way around the world...plus anlther likes him and shes there all the times and sometimes i feel like he wants to get away from her
i cant tell if he likes me bc before i though he did before cause he would always be looking at me when i look
what should i do??? i want to tell him but i cant tell if he likes me??
help

2007-03-26 02:21:24 · 21 answers · asked by SOPHIE p 1 in Singles & Dating

Why does it seem like it is just a problem to everyone else besides me and my boyfriend, that we are in love. we are young we are still in high school but we love each other and we are planning to be together for a long time. People make such a big deal that we like each other so much, it's not like we are having sex cause we are not.I am tired of all these people trying to break us up and not liking that we are together. What should i do it is stressing me out? Like we were'nt meant to be. Why do people gotta act like that?

2007-03-26 02:21:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 02:19:46 · 16 answers · asked by asif b 1 in Friends

She rarely wants to have sex. After our second child, we had sex 7 times over the next two years. I would love sex twice daily, but I'd settle for twice weekly.

I am 100% sure that she's not having an affair.

I've heard about differing libidos and how they change oer the years. I've heard that women in their 30s want it a lot more than they did in their 20s, but we are both in our mid 30s, and still no change.

Now, my wife has battled depression, so is on anti-depressants. She's also on synthroid, for a thyroid problem, and birth control (for several reasons -- not just birth control). From what I've read, they all can lead to decreased libido).

Yes, we've talked about it, and the makes her feel inadequate as a wife.

We've tried counseling too.

I love my wife sooooo much. Our marriage is great, except this area.

I try all the romance stuff too - flowers etc. I do all the laundry, cooking, shopping, most of the kids stuff too.

Any advice for a sexually frustrated guy?

2007-03-26 02:19:40 · 25 answers · asked by silly m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 02:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by Oaks 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom forgot my birthday, shouldn't i just move on?

2007-03-26 02:18:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-26 02:17:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a giving person. When I care about someone, I give my all. I cared for him and I thought he cared for me. I realize now I was just entertainment for him. The sex was real good for him but soon after a year...i got tired of it but still kept doing it. I left town to get over him and when I returned I never told him I was here. Eventually, I told him. He still asks me am I ok. It seems he cares but then he does things and says things to hurt me. Did he really expect me to want to still sleep with him now? After being broke down through a marriage and dealing with him, I have just had about enough. I refuse to take his calls and I made a choice to let it go COMPLETELY. Even the desire is gone. How do I make sure I don't attract men like this again?

2007-03-26 02:17:19 · 22 answers · asked by tired of being hurt 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I dated for couple of months in the past. We had so much in common, enjoyed what we did together, but he was too passionate to me, and I got tired after 2 months. We haven't slept together.
I knew he was still in love with me, and we were still good friends, now for 2 years.
Now, I'm 27 and he's 37. I've quite settled down, and want to get married and start a familly. This ex has been supporting me for everything, and although we are in distance (UK and US) we started a long distance again, and he was crying with happiness. He said he never stopped loving, caring for me, and I know that for sure.
Now, would it be acceptable for me, as a girl, to say to him that I'm quite ready to settle down, and start a familly? We have known each other for more than 2 years, but started dating again last month as a long distance. He says to come to US, but if I agree, I want to be engaged.
Could I ask for an advice how I can mention? Mail would be fine?

2007-03-26 02:17:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl i'm friends with texted me to see how my vacation was going a couple of days ago, and I replied back saying that it was awesome, and that we should hang out when I get back, and she replied yeah we should. Then I texted her this morning to let her know that I was coming back tonight and was wondering if she wanted to hang out tommorrow. But she hasn't replied back yet, and sometimes she waits until the next day to reply back. She can't be busy all day, so why does she wait until the next day to reply back? Sometimes she dosen't reply back at all? I think she likes me as a friend, but I don't know. I have known her for a couple of months and we have had fun when we do hang out, Should I just continue to play hard to get and maybe she will call me again?

thanks

2007-03-26 02:16:53 · 4 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you know when you are in love? Do you talk a lot about them, cant wait to see them again, dream about them, etc? Give some things that happen when you are in love with someone. PLEASE! And also is a 15 year age gap to much? Keep in mind, im 25. So, im an adult and i can handle an adult relationship.

He's a doctor and he is so sweet and so nice. He has two daughters (ages 13 and 15) who live in Dallas, TX and he goes down there every monday to watch them play basketball. He volunteered to tell me all this information on his own. What does that mean?

And also, every time i go to see him, he always smiles (and omg he's gorgeous) when he talks to me and we always talk about our kids and our life in general. When i go to leave he always touches my leg or takes his hand and rubs my shoulder some or grabs my hand amd squeezes as he is walking out. Oh and when he listens to me breath, he always takes his hand and moves my hair. Its barely past my shoulders. He's 40.

2007-03-26 02:16:47 · 10 answers · asked by Sweetie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to change my first name in my yahoo mail id?

2007-03-26 02:15:57 · 1 answers · asked by jalatkhankarachi 1 in Family

I have been married for three years and have a two year old daughter. I want out of my marriage and dont know how to tell my wife I want a divorce. I have been not happy for about a year now, Its hard to act happy when your not. I just dont know how to even bring this up.

2007-03-26 02:15:39 · 26 answers · asked by itsgino28 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 02:15:15 · 30 answers · asked by Sunny D 1 in Singles & Dating

I got shot a few years ago which left a long scar on my stomach. My new girlfriend saw a picture of me this morning while going thru my cellphone. She didn't mention it but I saw her expression. it was a blank one. I ask her was she ok with it and if we were still good. she said yes. what do u think? should I call it quit and let her go her own way or should I try to do something? I wanna do something, but I don't know? help me I scare she could be gone due to what she saw.

2007-03-26 02:14:55 · 6 answers · asked by teryl2930308 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this sensational woman here in Y/A,and Ive been messaging her many times and shes been replying to me.
And Ive come to realize this woman is not an ordinary woman.

I wake up everyday and scoot to my net just to read what she replied to my messages.

She's a witty,hysterical,ravishing,fascinating angel I have ever met,the problem is she wont IM me,and I really need to talk to her,and she hasn't even told me her name,but Ive been examinating her answers to almost all of the Questions she's answered.

Could you please Manal IM me?

2007-03-26 02:14:44 · 7 answers · asked by $tevex 1 in Singles & Dating

why do guys get mad when a girl asks a friend to tell him she likes him or wants to go out with him? i have read a couple of other peoples questions about this happening, and i went through the same thing. i like a guy at work but was too shy to tell him and got nervous when i talked to him, couldnt think of what to say. so i had a couple friends tell him, thinking maybe he'd start talking to me and i could ask him if he wanted to go out sometime. but he didnt like that and apparently a couple other people had the same thing happen. why is it so bad to have a friend talk to a guy for you? i dont see what the big deal is. people say that its immature but why? im 29 and i just thought it would help break the ice, so that he'd already know i liked him and then i wouldnt have to try to tell him myself and stumble over my words with a bright red face and a bunch of "um, um, uh, i...uh"?? so why do you guys not like a friend letting you know for a girl???

2007-03-26 02:14:43 · 14 answers · asked by Arraya 6 in Singles & Dating

cat's collar last night since I've always wanted to marry him instead, and had a mock ceremony. I fell asleep before I took it off. It was gone this morning. I looked all over the house for it, and I can't find it!

What should I tell my husband? Or should I wait to see if it turns up?

2007-03-26 02:13:08 · 12 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 02:13:08 · 8 answers · asked by Yen 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal to feel jealousy or is it a problem?
If it's a problem can anyone suggest how to deal with it?

2007-03-26 02:12:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner and i have to live apart due to me needing to live closer to work and her and the kids needing to remain close to school. My partner has been through a hell of a lot, and lost a lot of the security she had been used to. Now she is throwing herself into more than one work venture to rebuild her security for the family, which i support and understand. But she is pushing me away. Our love for each other is as strong as it has ever been but she does not feel able to embrace this love and her work commitments together.
My dilemma is that knowing we both have this strong love for each other, am i destined to just wait as long as it takes before we can basically be in each others arms again?
( i don't really expect advice on this as more detail would be required, but any opinions would be appreciated.)

2007-03-26 02:12:19 · 8 answers · asked by literarytony 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

may friend keeps bothering me with her problem i don't no what to do. we have been friends since 7th grade. she like this guy that is very cute? but the guy would not date her becuse she has a small *** and she keeps asking me how to Increase her ***? does any nows

2007-03-26 02:11:48 · 1 answers · asked by sam 1 in Singles & Dating

although i need a partner first, be nice to have goals !

2007-03-26 02:11:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean being boned!!???

2007-03-26 02:08:52 · 10 answers · asked by HOT ARSED KUM S LUT 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend is much younger than I am. We had a wonderful, close sincere love, but something terrible happened to it when we did not really realize that we were both serious about each other. Since, we have both been making various attempts at getting back together, but the distance has been too great and the hurt too profound. After talking again for the first time in a year, many of the old feelings came back, but also, on my end, the insecuirty of not speaking for a year, and on his, a tendancy to overrationalize and not really be open. Because of my maturity, I feel that I have had to really take on more, sometimes, than I am comfortable with, but this last argument has allowed me to come to terms with losing him, which in turn has allowed me to really forgive him for the first time.

I do not know if it is a good idea for me to reach out to him again, but in my heart, I no longer feel anger for him. He can be self-cenetered, but also, he can be very giving. What do you think?

2007-03-26 02:08:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I only found out through the grapevine. Initially said she didn't tell me because she felt it wasn't important. Then said she didn't want to hurt my feelings because she knew I had feelings for her. She seemed to tell me everything else that was going on. Why do you think she did this and can I ever fully trust her again?

2007-03-26 02:08:07 · 12 answers · asked by jimbop111 2 in Friends