I got shot a few years ago which left a long scar on my stomach. My new girlfriend saw a picture of me this morning while going thru my cellphone. She didn't mention it but I saw her expression. it was a blank one. I ask her was she ok with it and if we were still good. she said yes. what do u think? should I call it quit and let her go her own way or should I try to do something? I wanna do something, but I don't know? help me I scare she could be gone due to what she saw.
2007-03-26 02:14:55 · 6 answers · asked by teryl2930308 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are being paranoid and reading too much into it.
Did it ever occur to you that her expression was NORMAL, considering you didn't tell her, and she found out by seeing a picture?
She already said it was all good, why are you not dropping the subject already?
2007-03-26 02:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by elidet_reyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she shouldn't leave u b/c she saw a pic of where u got shot. If she does then she wasnt' in to u anyway and u are better off w/o her. Tell her the story behind it. My bro got shot 2 years ago and he has a long scare on his left arm and leg. but his gf doesn't care about it though. She learned to accept it. So should ur girl. Don't worry about it though b/c if she leaves u b/c of that then she wasn't worth ur time in the 1st place and u should find u someone else. Remember there is plenty of fish in the sea just waiting to be catched.
2007-03-26 09:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication
2007-03-26 09:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has a problem with a scar then let her go bc shes not worth it. Something like that should not be a big deal if she cares about you. Big Deal my fiance broke her arm in high school and has a hugeee scar on her left arm but I dont care bc it is not a BIG DEAL at all!!!
2007-03-26 09:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by Rick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she upset about the scar, or is she upset about how you got it? You're not very clear on how much discussion there actually was about the entire thing.
Maybe bring the subject back up if you're not sure, but if you find out then that she's honestly not upset, just drop it.
2007-03-26 09:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she will stay. dont feel bad. hey some girls are turned on by scars. leave her be with that subject. hey mayber sho her it, sounds nasty but in most ways its letting her see u. well yeah duh. but what i mean is by showing her your scar its like showing her your past, allowing her to connect with u, because by showing her its telling her ur honest with urself and also u want to open up to her and let her in. its probably never going to leave, and if she wants to stay neither will she. the expression maybe of worry! shes afraid because she may think if it was worse u would have never met. explain it to her, let her understand. if she leaves its shallow its her not u. but i think she'll stay
2007-03-26 09:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by kaylia j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋