2007-03-26 02:13:08 · 8 answers · asked by Yen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's no way to confront him without hurting the relationship. It's either one of two things. He is cheating and, well, that hurts the relationship, or he's not cheating and now he feels like you don't trust him, which also hurts the relationship. I would make sure you have undeniable proof before you confront him. Or save yourself all the trouble and end it now.
2007-03-26 02:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no easy way to do it, at all. The best way I can think of is to sit him down and have a talk in a very non-confrontational way. If you confront him angrily, things will blow up and the relationship will be seriously hurt. Or he'll just lie. Tell him you need to talk to him, because you've been noticing some things recently that have been bothering you. Calmly bring up the things you've seen or noticed, and tell him you can't help but think he may be seeing another girl. Use your gut instinct more than anything...a lot of times it'll tell you the truth even if he doesn't.
2007-03-26 02:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by misguidedrose18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you be more specific??? if he has another girl what are you so concerned about not hurting you relationship,?? doesnt seem like hes too concerned about you! confront that cheater with a hot cup of coffee and a slap in the face!
2007-03-26 02:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't! You might give him an easy let go if he takes it as an excuse and break up with you since you do not trust him.
Just make sure first before you throw false accusations and if what you're thinking is right, just break up with him without giving him a reason and let him go crazy trying to figure out what could it be.
2007-03-26 02:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by rinah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is cheating then the relationship is already hurt and even when you only suspecting
2007-03-26 02:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well instead of "suspecting" you need to be SURE. Once you are sure, then hurting the relationship won't matter.
2007-03-26 02:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its fine for him to look at others but if he likes them in a norther way just ask but say just asking do you like some else
2007-03-26 02:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by kehera w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you accuse have solid proof; then confront him with it.
2007-03-26 02:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by dƒ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋