Why does she do this?......it is really annoying and frustrating.......?

Question

This girl i'm friends with texted me to see how my vacation was going a couple of days ago, and I replied back saying that it was awesome, and that we should hang out when I get back, and she replied yeah we should. Then I texted her this morning to let her know that I was coming back tonight and was wondering if she wanted to hang out tommorrow. But she hasn't replied back yet, and sometimes she waits until the next day to reply back. She can't be busy all day, so why does she wait until the next day to reply back? Sometimes she dosen't reply back at all? I think she likes me as a friend, but I don't know. I have known her for a couple of months and we have had fun when we do hang out, Should I just continue to play hard to get and maybe she will call me again?

thanks

Answer 1

She certainly *can* be busy all day. Or not have computer access, or put her phone down somewhere and go do something else.

She could be playing hard to get slightly, as are you. If so, someone has to make the first move, or nothing is going to get done! :)

Answer 2

Dude,

Stop texting her altogether. I'm not telling you this to be funny or nasty, I am telling you this because I am a girl and it totally works.

See, she relies on the fact that she knows you will do most of the initating of contact. You need to shake things up a bit.

Women don't like predictable men. Its time for you to ignore her just a bit...just enough to pique her curiosity and have her chasing you.

This always works. Make her wonder what's up with you instead of it ALWAYS being the other way around.

Good luck!

Answer 3

You don't get it, do you? She's seeing someone else. She may not be working, but I'll bet she's "busy" on her time off.
This time, playing hard to get, got you nothing. Think about that.

Answer 4

what's with all this texting thing?? JUST CALL HER!