Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

I work my *** off. I go to school (Dean's List) I work full time, and I rasie me and fiances' daughter. He never compliments me or EVER does anything nice for me!! I feel SOOOO under appreciated. He always puts me down and makes me feel bad. He always says that I am selfish, and I never do anything for myself, I always do stuff for them. On mother's day of LAST year, that is the last present I got from him and they were flowers that on the card it said, to the only one that will put up with me. What can I do make this guy realized what a good thing he has, before I blow up and freak out on him!!

2007-03-26 02:39:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What you she would always make you it to its side?

2007-03-26 02:39:18 · 9 answers · asked by Falcão da Justiça 4 in Singles & Dating

i got caught at jc peeny with 187 worth of merchandise, my court date is wednesday, what is going to happen to me?

2007-03-26 02:38:35 · 15 answers · asked by mzvirgo19 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't think that my boyfriend is that into me sexually and I would like to know how to get his attention in that way. We are best friends and have lived together for a year and a half but just started dating last month. So its kinda akward and I would just like to fix that. Ideas?

2007-03-26 02:38:11 · 9 answers · asked by I am a girl, damn it. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've liked this guy since i was 13 and i'm 17 now. we've been good friends since i was 2! a few years back i told him i liked him and then he asked if i would ever date him. i said no because i dont want to lose u as a friend. (I was 13 and he was 16). about 2 years later we didnt talk much for almost a year. Now that i'm older i still have feelings for him like we spent seven hours one night hanging out and he kept say i've changed ina good way, he missed me and that me and him are like the same person. we have both been through alot. hes so protective over me its funny cuz i talk about going to collage and he always says hes going with me. but since the last time we hung out i havent seen him much and he never calls. he always asks my friends how i am yet it seems he doesnt make an attempt to see me. i can never find him and he knows where to find me! but my question is one night he said he wants the girl to chase him, but i'm afraid that i may tackle him! What should i do?

2007-03-26 02:37:28 · 12 answers · asked by kaylia j 2 in Singles & Dating

in my school (about 150 kids in my grade)
all the girls are not right for me
and i am not exactly the type who goes out of my house much when not invited
what can i do to get a gf?

2007-03-26 02:37:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with this guy for 2 years. He lives in another country. We have met twice. He came to my country and then I came to his. I am currently in his country now. Immigration rules have changed and I can not stay longer than 6 months. I can't be a citizen unless he marries me. He doesn't want to marry me. He acts like he cares about me alot. He does nice things for me. In the meantime he wants to see other women. I am so in love with him that I can't think of moving on. He knows this. He rarely if ever tells me he loves me. I have told him that I am going home to the USA and starting over after throwing my life away to be with him (gave up my house and car). I don't get it? Why would a man lead a woman on for 2 years? I keep wondering how I can ever trust another man again. I don't know how to get over it. He is the only one I've ever shared 'this' much with. He knows all of my secrets inside. He says he wishes me luck and hopes I do 'good'. I want him to keep me! Am I stupid?

2007-03-26 02:36:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I found out that during his lunch hour my husband sometimes goes to men's magazines online to look at girls he thinks are hot. The girls aren't totally naked or anything - but just terribly pretty etc. It makes me sad as I feel that perhaps I am not enough for him. Do other men in relationships do this or not?
When I asked him if he did this he lied and said 'no'. So I told him that I had looked at the history and that the pictures had come up - well then he had to confess and came to the conclusion that he may need counselling as he has always had a problem with this.

2007-03-26 02:36:03 · 18 answers · asked by Liz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been single now for 6 months and my ex boyfriend has been cheating me like crap we dated for 4 years. I really do want a nice long relationship again but I have no idea where to look? Where do I go to find a guy around my age that would like a long term relationship?

2007-03-26 02:36:01 · 10 answers · asked by skatergirl3722 1 in Singles & Dating

If your married/enagaged, how long did you date before you got engaged? If your single, how long do you think you should date before getting engaged?

2007-03-26 02:35:18 · 31 answers · asked by LaBlueEyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 02:33:37 · 13 answers · asked by vinirshah 1 in Family

A lot of my guy friends drink and they think i'm "corny" for not drinking. I never lost them as friends, though...not for that reason; however is it a turn-on if i drink? I never drank THAT much at all, i'm only fourteen.

2007-03-26 02:33:05 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY boyfriend and I broke up like a month ago we're still really close friends the only reason we broke up was because of my mom. He started dating someone else last week and I am ok with it for the most part the reason I say that is because we talk on the phone every night and he tells me he feels wierd if he doesn't talk to me before he goes to sleep and he still tells me he loves me and I say it back to him what do I do? I love him and I want to be with him but right now we can't be. I don't mind that he has a girlfriend I just don't like hearing about her. I am not jelous because all I want is to see him happy but all I can see right now is him being confused about me and him. Well anyway what would you do? I want stop talking to him because I love talking to him

2007-03-26 02:31:02 · 10 answers · asked by Smile 2 in Singles & Dating

Heres what I know:**I have a very hard time letting people get close to me. I tend to put up a wall once people get to a certain "closeness" and start to push them away.***I love my exboyfriend but every time we get to a certain point, I shut down and push him away. (He and may other people have told me I do this)*** When Im not with him, I miss him so much and want him back in my life. We are happy together until I get nervous and shut down***I just need some advice from people who have had this fear and how to deal with it.

2007-03-26 02:30:35 · 9 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my best friend likes my cousin brother .. and i mean a lot. but he doesn't like HER. but she thinks he does. What am i supposed to do? i know its none of my business but she's upset all the time and she's asking me what to do about it.

2007-03-26 02:30:22 · 16 answers · asked by sacred_90 2 in Singles & Dating

i think im fallin in love with this guy he is my age 15 and we have kissed ect. before but he is my new step brother what can i do i liked him b 4 my dad and his mom got married?

2007-03-26 02:30:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been talking to a fella online chit chatting back and forth for somewhere around 6 months. he djs for an online radio station and Ive listened to his show, sent in requests, and basically just joked back and forth with each other. well, in the past month we've been chatting more and more, and now it seems that we've fallen in love! Here is the problem. He lives 4000 miles away, and he is considerably older than me, 17 years to be exact. we've exchanged phone numbers, and he actually uses it! (the phone I mean) lol. by the way...Im completely of legal age, Im 27. can it work? I mean, as far as I can tell, his feelings are genuine, meaning he calls often...several times a day...sometimes just to say he loves me =). Ive really got it bad for this guy, and I think I want a real future with him....can it work?

2007-03-26 02:28:32 · 15 answers · asked by randella_24 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife said our marriage wasn't going very well so I started doing the dishes every day. After 3 weeks she says things are going much better. Can someone explain why this is?

2007-03-26 02:28:30 · 16 answers · asked by Zefram 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just spoke to him he said i'm being pathetic!! Grrr what should i do?? block him out my life or just say sorry for doing nothing wrong??

2007-03-26 02:28:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My brother is getting married, his fiancee asked me to be a bridesmaid and I accepted. But she went to buy dresses and I live about an hour away so I was not invited to go. They picked out dresses, including mine, and the size they got for me kind of hurt my feelings. I wear a size 7 in jeans, the bride and her maid of honor both wear a 5. Their dress sizes are 10, they bought me a size 16? That made me feel realy overweight, I am only 2 sizes bigger than them so why such a big dress. When she knew I got upset over the size she made the statement, it was easier to take one in than let one out, so they got it bigger. Should I believe that and not let it bother me, I know it is her special time but it realy made me feel bad. Is it ok for me to voice my opinion or should I just keep my mouth shut and act is though it did not bother me?

2007-03-26 02:28:10 · 20 answers · asked by catmomiam 4 in Weddings

Hey all,
i have finally found a girl that i like and we are going on our second date tomorrow, even though we are just meeting in the city and cruising around id like some tips on what we could do and what i should do

2007-03-26 02:27:55 · 2 answers · asked by Chris B 1 in Singles & Dating

I know my husband thought i was gorgeous when i was pregnant-but does this mean he also finds other pregnant women hot?

2007-03-26 02:27:12 · 22 answers · asked by Jane Doe 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was watching the MIss U.S.A. contest on Friday and it seems that all the pretty women on their were white. I am 16 years old and Black. I get teased by older siblings calling me an oreo cookie and and an " uncle tom " because I find white women attractive. Am I wrong in doing so? I mean everywhere I look, all I see is pretty white girls. From my high school, to television (Katie Holmes, Jessica Simpson, Jessica Biel, Lindsay Lohan), to music (Hillary Duff, Britney Spears) and this contest was full of georgeous white women. My brother calls me a sellout and my sister says I am a confused self hater. m I confused? Arent white women real pretty?

What makes it worse is 2 weeks ago, I wrote a sexual fantasy on microsoft word about me and three white chicks (Paris Hilton, Tara Reid, and Britney Spears) and my sister caught it. She says she knows I spank the monkey to white women. She showed the letter to my mom and now I feel ridiculed even more. Is there something wrong with me.

2007-03-26 02:26:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-26 02:26:28 · 11 answers · asked by TESFALEDET N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you think there's any such thing? or does age not matter? i mean it practically. a 12 year old cant fall in love obviously but what do you think?

2007-03-26 02:25:57 · 11 answers · asked by sacred_90 2 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 young kids aged 2 and 4 I have worked full time since they were tiny babies, they have always been cared for by a private day nursery. (Who are great) but I t has taken me some time and a job move but I have now realised they need me more than I need a job. I have never been able to grasp how people cope on only one income, and not a very good one at that. How will I cope without my wage?

2007-03-26 02:25:44 · 23 answers · asked by sair 1 in Family

Any role play ideas? My wife loves role plays, and thought i could come up with something new and exciting.

Any ideas? tips to make it more real? More real in that we are that person? Not ourselves?

Also we are 30 but want to feel like we are 18 again?

2007-03-26 02:25:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love sb , he always busy , i can see him in the class room this is the way we see each other , can any body help me?

2007-03-26 02:24:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi, this is a different person. I'm in the fifth grade and I love to go out and play after school with all my friends from my previous school. There are two second grade girls, sometimes two seventh grade girls, and two fifth grade girls. There are also many many boys...three really like me. But, my favorite one is the tall,dark,and handsome one(literally). Sometimes they bring over other guys to play basketball,too(they take off their shirts). Their all nice guys but I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. Since I haven't been back at the school for three years, my best friend back there(boy) doesn't even remember me! I hate it! I've got everyone else crushing on me but I want my best friend from second grade! What should I do? Get the pick of the litter? Find my old friend? Please help Me! For the sake of a heart-broken fifth grade girl?

2007-03-26 02:23:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-26 02:23:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating