A lot of my guy friends drink and they think i'm "corny" for not drinking. I never lost them as friends, though...not for that reason; however is it a turn-on if i drink? I never drank THAT much at all, i'm only fourteen.
2007-03-26 02:33:05 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Big no no ma cherie! Enjoy your life darling, I'm fourteen too you know but drinking alcohol won't give you anything good! You got a big life ahead of you, I even think it's better to see girls not drinking at all! If you want to turn on guys, http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061225195056AAMAcj2
For me? I think it's a big turn on when girls dress correctly, not too flashy, not too sexy, not too innocent, but very appealing and cute! And most especially if they're open (or maturity), humorous, and friendly. But most of all, be yourself. Unless you want to burn your liver alive, better stay away from them, alcohol destroys lives.
2007-03-26 02:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by julia p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At your age, you shouldn't be drinking no matter what your friends think. Uncool, corny or whatever some guys may even be turned on by this but I don't think that's the kind of guys you should associate with. They'll take advantage of you when you're too drunk to defend yourself. I know you said you don't drink much, but it doesn't make it right.
2007-03-26 02:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 14, theres lots of time. And the only reason I can see them thinking its a turn on if you drink is so they can take advantage of you.
I am with a man who loves to have a good time, he drinks at every party. And I dont even have a glass of wine with dinner when we are out. And we both think eachother is great. Drinking isnt a turn on or off (unless is acoholism) its just what you like to do when your out.
Personally I dont handle my acohol well, and dont care for the taste, i much rather have cola. But maybe thats my old age talking... wait I am only 25.
2007-03-26 02:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats right baby, you are JUST 14! So chill, wait....until you are 18. Even at 18, you dont have to drink....its not good...you can choose not to drink- ever!!
...and no, drinking is not a turn on...they probably want you to get drunk, so they can have sex with you or something. You probably dont even need those friends, they arent good for you if they want you to drink! Take care
2007-03-26 02:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by Venus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I will tell you something , it is NOT a turn on it is that they like when girls drink so they can take advantage over them ! Tell them you are happy to be corny then to be used up like a rag doll ! Do not let them talk you into this ! You need to talk with a teen chat line in your area and listen to the stories of these young girls who had this and more happen to them because they wanted to fit in with everyone ! Do me that favor and look into a teen chat line in your area . Good Luck and remember these boys are not going to be in your future ! Use your head and think WISELY !!!!
2007-03-26 02:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by Me777 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats because most 14 year old guys are imbeciles who think drinking alcohol actually makes you cool. These are also the idiots that will get drunk and sleep with a drunk girl. Get her pregnant because they are too drunk to wear a condom. So in the end your going to be 14 pregnant with a dead beat 14 year old guy who is going to useless when it comes to take care of a child. Remember that every action has its consequences. Some consequences you can live with, others end up ruining your life.
2007-03-26 02:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fourteen...and you even think about drinking....Sop right now and think about what you asked....Stick to your decision not to drink and don't budge on that...Never be afraid to take a stand for what you think is right....You are still a young teen and should be having the time of your life but not doing stupid thing that comes from bad decisions...Our entire life is based on the decisions we make...Start now making the right ones...and lastly if your friends don't like you because you don't drink...Find new FRIENDS.....
2007-03-26 02:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by foxygirl29303 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's a turn on. It's a turn on because if you're drunk it's much easier for them to have their way with you. Don't drink just to turn someone on or to be accepted. It usually ends badly in the end, especially for women. You could end up pregnant or with a STD. Make sure you also don't drink anything that you didn't open yourself. They may be your friends, but horny young boys have been known to go against their better judgement to get sex. They may slip something in your drink to kncok you unconscious and then have their way with you. I know a couple of people that happened to.
2007-03-26 02:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by big_dog832001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only that in my opinion it's not a turn on at all, but it's really bad for your body and your face skin.
Maybe when you are older,drinking a glass of good wine or champagne and playing with the rim of the glass in a flirty way is a turn on, but I think just drinking beer with the guy is not.
luck :-)
2007-03-26 02:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by yafit k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At fourteen, you shouldn't be drinking at all....and if a guy thinks its cool for you to drink, or is turned by it, that is a guy that is not interested in the real you....don't throw you life away on alcohol, its not worth it.
2007-03-26 02:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by Kat B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋