2007-03-26 02:54:11 · 35 answers · asked by tony t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They're all bitches
2007-03-26 02:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Believe it or not, the affair has nothing to do with their behavior. While it may appear that many women turn into money-grubbing whores during their divorces, more likely than not, these women have always been that way...always been takers, always been drama queens. They learned early on how to get what they want through manipulation and other covert means.
What surprises me is that the soon-to-be-ex husbands often act surprised and they allow themselves to get sucked into the name calling, bitter divorce. Deep down they know they've been taken for a ride, but just can't stand to admit it.
2007-03-26 03:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by I_hope_I_know 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I personally never had an affair nor been divorced.. but thinking its a way of defending their wrong.. making it out to be ur fault... not hers...why she did what she did... im a woman and I know how women can be total B's... women do fight nasty... im just one of those women that isnt perfect but know when im wrong and when im right... well good luck on the divorce and hope u find happiness again.
2007-03-26 03:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by gina B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you want a Divorce,nasty people like her, that do this stuff are selfish git's and cannot believe that the cheated on, take control to get rid.
She thinks she is irreplaceable and if not, she wants to ensure her future will be as bright for her as she can.
Good Luck and enjoy your future cause it will be a whole lot better without her.
2007-03-26 07:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by live life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I even tend to think of issues like... if he might purely circulate to left purely a hair i might blow...oh God it is physically powerful...if I try this he's gonna... if i'm thinking approximately the place are my keys, then i ought to discover a clean playmate. I ought to assert I even have in no way fantasized approximately yet another guy whilst i'm with a guy. I do in spite of if whilst i'm playing via myself... i'm a single female via the way. ought to believe the function playing comments from the different women people... in case you're no longer completely there, don't be there in any respect.
2016-12-15 09:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all people turn nasty during divorces, the idea that divorces are supposed to go easy and amicably is just plain stupid to begin with, ITS A DIVORCE for crying out loud
people are going to get territorial over their stuff, their kids and their own emotions
any expectation otherwise is just plain dumb
YOU are probably refusing to compromise on something
if she had an affair, she is probably unconcerned with your feelings so its all about saving herself
why would someone ask a question with such an obvious answer?
2007-03-26 02:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
They had the affair in the first place because they were no longer invested in your relationship and they were not big enough to break it off with you.
You're probably all loving and forgiving, and she acts nasty because she knows she's guilty, and also to keep you at distance.
You need someone who cares for you back.
2007-03-26 02:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they blame you for everything, which is why they had the affair in the first place. It is an emotionally charged situation, and neither party is thinking very rationally.
2007-03-26 02:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by Random Precision 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its because they want their ex husband to be available so when they turn their feelings back to wanting them back they cant have it the way it was. and they never exspected a divorce. and they turn nasty only because nothing will remain the same after you found out about the affair. and they are mad at themselves. for ruining their marriage. woman usually want the man to be the one that ruins the marriage but when it finds that the girl is the one to blame they turn nasty to hide their regrets.
2007-03-26 03:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jewelz 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Its a way of diverting your attention from the real issue (the fact that she cheated.) Don't fall for it or become intimidated by her behavior. Remain calm and keep your focus. Keep returning to the real issue at hand no matter how much noise she makes.
2007-03-26 03:00:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When some women are guilty of something like that they go on a major defensive and act like b.i.t.c.h.es.
Perfectly natural.
Just keep reminding her you have done nothing wrong so she should drop the attitude and grow up.
2007-03-26 04:04:34 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋