Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

My husband had an affair for four months. After I found out about it, my heart was broken. I had to go through therapy and medication to be okay. I still resent what he did to me. However, I also found someone who cares deeply for me especially when I was so depressed. I have always been attracted to him but the feeling only intestifies as we share with each other's feelings and everything. We finally did it even though we both said many times we would never cross the line. I know we're both deeply attracted to each other but I'm married. My husband is trying very hard to regain my trust and I can feel it. But I feel my passion for him is waning. Rather, I've been thinking about the other man.

Should I feel guilty? What should I do?

2007-03-25 08:01:37 · 20 answers · asked by W P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-25 08:00:38 · 18 answers · asked by glamourlady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want more passion in my life more romance and my husband lacks all the romances and needs more passion please technics and adviced so i can improve my relationship

2007-03-25 08:00:31 · 7 answers · asked by user 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel stupid for asking this, cause its kind of a thing you just go along with, but if i could get some tips on maybe the best thing i could tell wonderful girl whom ive been an aquaintance with for about a year, just recently started talking to her, you know, just making her laugh, me being a very humerous outgoing person, what would i say to her to, you know, kind of catch her attention, let her know that im into her.. So what would i say, where would i say it, (Im still in Highschool) how should i say it, I REALLY dont want to mess this up, shes beautiful!

2007-03-25 08:00:07 · 6 answers · asked by broken_paladin15 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have a bf and all the sudden he never calls me anymore (he never really called before maybe once or twice) and now whenever I call his parents say he's not home or gone. Where could he really be? I miss him alot! I called him today and nobody answered...I know there home I saw his dad at church today. Im starting to wonder if he is trying to tell me he dosnt wanta go on with me. His friends say that "OH are you kiding me he really likes you, don't breakup with him" and others say "I think you should break up with him, move on" but I have alot of feelings for him, havnt seen or talked to him for like EVER! I miss him. Any hints or ideas? He had a sn and ever since I don't go on mine anymore he dosnt go on either. HELP!

2007-03-25 07:59:48 · 8 answers · asked by Holly S 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked this question previously but I feel I did not put in enough details about my situation. I am a nervous male and I have not had any girlfriends yet. There is a girl at school I want to ask out. I have one half an hour class with her, we know each others names, but I am not a close friend with her. My biggest problem is I want to ask her out, but she is already asking another of my close friends out. As far as I know, he has not decided if he wants to go out with her or not. Should I talk to him and see if he actually wants her or should I talk to her first?
What should I do?

2007-03-25 07:59:18 · 2 answers · asked by booglefoppingboy 1 in Friends

I don't know what size she wears, she doesn't like bath and body stuff...HELP!!Her b-day is today!

2007-03-25 07:59:12 · 4 answers · asked by Racheal B 2 in Family

ok so i took some of ur adivces and well i was gonna tell them next week but my bro got so mad at me last nite, he told my parents, well they did yell at me and said i was stupid and dumb and that i ****** up my whole life. so today both of my parents r disowning me, they dont want me at all, they r not gonna help me iwth my the baby and dont want to be in my babys life, thats their choice.....im moving out in april with my bf. i wish i can talk to me my parents without them yelling at me, it looks like i lost them forever. i dont regret this baby but why do i feel like i put everyone down cause im pregnate.

2007-03-25 07:58:19 · 2 answers · asked by marta d 2 in Family

Hello. I'm still having problems with my marriage. I feel alone my husband doesn't spend time with me. But he spends time with his friends all the time. They call he goes running.
I have talked about this over and over again. But things don't change. I know you can't change a person, but it's hard living in a state with no family or friends and your p.g.
I'm tried of stressing over this. We have seen help about this before. What else can I do?

2007-03-25 07:58:03 · 11 answers · asked by Brandi T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-25 07:58:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 07:57:06 · 16 answers · asked by Chris W 1 in Singles & Dating

imagine: a room full of your best guy friends standing around playing cards or shooting pool (no female in site for miles to judge) --- so what are yall REALLY saying to each other....don't be shy n' be specific....

2007-03-25 07:56:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he is 16 and im 13

2007-03-25 07:56:27 · 6 answers · asked by kaela 1 in Singles & Dating

ok a fancy this boy whos 15 im 14 but we are in the same year sometimes when i talk or look at him he smiles or turns red a bit but if i frown at him or look blank he would do the same thing, we never talk he knows i fancy him but im too shy to speak to him but all we say really is hi occasionally. anyway how do shy guys act around or show girls that they fancy 'em or if he knows and everyone knows i fancy him and he doesnt talk to me and gets embarrassed or something. can you like someone as a mate and get shy of them. this boy once came to my house wid his parents coz he was invited by my dad but we didnt talk the only thing we said was hi and bye but he looked really nervous when he ws sitting opposite me, sometimes when i look at him he looks back or sometimes he just looks straight but not at me and he only talks to me when necessecary and he helps me sometimes with things i cant do well, we speak on msn and his friends embarrass me in front him he just smiles or doesnt do anythin

2007-03-25 07:55:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfreind is scare to lrt me know how he feels about me.plus he wants me but scare to let them show what can i do to help him

2007-03-25 07:55:09 · 10 answers · asked by Denise M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 07:54:44 · 12 answers · asked by neccy 1 in Singles & Dating

never had a steady boyfriend.
i wasn't bothered by it before but junior year's almost over and it's starting to get to me. i see couples in school all the time and it seems like i'm the only one missing out.
i'm just wondering - is this normal or completely bizarre? what should i do to change it?

btw, not to be conceited but appearance-wise:
been told i'm pretty by a lot of people, 5' 8", 138lb, not a flatboard but no Pamela Anderson - somewhere in between, and long, dark, naturally straight hair, like to dress preppy - usually shop american eagle, hollister, forever21.

personality-wise: shy initially, but will loosen up to friends. like to laugh.

any advice greatly appreciated :]

2007-03-25 07:54:10 · 9 answers · asked by crnluvxoxo89 2 in Singles & Dating

She says its hers and she could do whatever she wants with it. I don't agree. I think she's wrong to hold on to the ring if she doesn't want me anymore, afterall I paid for it.

2007-03-25 07:54:07 · 21 answers · asked by ddman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

somewhere good to take ur special girl other than the movies?

2007-03-25 07:53:01 · 3 answers · asked by wwallito 2 in Singles & Dating

why are black men's johnson's bigger than all the rest?

2007-03-25 07:52:50 · 9 answers · asked by neccy 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother and sister-in-law are part of my wedding party. I would like to present them with a special gift. They lost a child last year after a long struggle (he was a premie), they showed tremendous courage through it all. I would like to honor that somehow. Any suggestions??

2007-03-25 07:52:38 · 9 answers · asked by KCB 2 in Weddings

The only person who thinks enough americans dont stick together as family and friends? and that infidelity is just a part of life, and that it should just be accepted that way. why is thier no women who seem to want romance anymore

2007-03-25 07:52:33 · 5 answers · asked by george d 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

you're going out with a guy - have been for quite a while and it's going really great and he tells you he really cares about you - is it like loving someone or not at all?

2007-03-25 07:52:28 · 2 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

Is is really bad when you have sex alot????? I mean I already have one kid and I am only 16 which I know is to young but I am addicted in a weird sort of way so how do I stop????

2007-03-25 07:51:31 · 13 answers · asked by Have_A_BIG_PROBLEM 1 in Family

Please please help. I love my boyfriend very much but I am loosing him in front of my eyes. He has been stressed out about his job, gettting constantly rejected at his interviews. I have become needy and I blamed him that he does not care and he got upset. He told me that he needs time for himself but i was not able to give it to him properly. I asked him if he is avoiding me and he said he is not sure he wants to continue our relationship, he says he is not happy. he says he needs time but he thinks he will leave. He said he will call me during hte week and now he wants to be left alone. Please help me what should I do? How can I save this? What are the right htings to say to him? I love him more than anything.

2007-03-25 07:50:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is not a sexually active person and I am not either. However, when he wants to have sex, I better do it, otherwise he takes it personal and thinks that I don't love him and he has even mentioned of us needing a break. We have sex I would say 3-5 times a month. He is usually the one who initiates it. Sometimes, if I say no to him, the next morning he acts upset with me. I tell him before I say no to please not to take it personal that it does not have anything to do with him. But it does not work. I would like for him to understand me and not react the way he does. I need help because it bothers me to see his reaction. I love him and he is a great man and a good father but I don't think I will be able continue with this situation.

2007-03-25 07:50:32 · 20 answers · asked by wuanamala 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 14, and he's 15. we kinda came to a realization that we were too young for a serious relationship so we split up.
although it was nice to hear him say that he sucked at being a boyfriend (and he kinda did, read my past questions), i miss him.
He wasn't ready for a girlfriend, and I wasn't exactly ready for a boyfriend. It was hard to admit, but it was true.
How did you get over your first breakup? How did u get over your first boyfriend/girlfriend? =(

2007-03-25 07:50:29 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

a guy was staring at me for like a couple of minutes (flattering...i guess) and smiled at me when i looked at him then he got one of the girls (i think it might have been his mate or someone) to smell him if (i know weird especially in public) and she was sort of sorting out his jumper, he then looked over at me and smiled. i mean what does that mean?

2007-03-25 07:50:14 · 6 answers · asked by bananas! 3 in Singles & Dating

i have three children with my ex. they are 9,7 and 3 yrs old. he doesnt work and has an alcohol and drug problem. my children go every weekend at the moment and in the school holidays. i'm currently with a great man but its long distance. about 100 miles. he is everything their father isnt. he's an ex marine but is going back in and wants me to move to be with him. i'm studying for a degree and the plan was to graduate and move then, but he's worried that the children will suffer being far away from their dad and will cause problems by resenting us both. i'm worried the children will suffer more in the long run by being with their dad. when he does have them he has his mates around drinking and smoking dope, the children basically run riot there and he cant control them, i dont want them to grow up with that as a role model for male behaviour. can i morally move away? it'd be about 300 miles away so contact would be extremely hard.

2007-03-25 07:50:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and I got married very young. I was 18 he was 21. We both know that we married for the wrong reasons, I was going in the Navy and wanted him w/ me and everyone said it wouldn't work so we were determined to prove them wrong. Our 4th anniversary is this June. The problem is I feel like we love each other but that we aren't "in love" anymore. My husband says we are just in a rutt but this has been going on a long time now. We argue all the time about everything. We say very hurtfull things to each other when we fight. I know I resent him because he doesn't help me out at all and never has. (i.e. paying the bills, cleaning house, cooking, grocery shopping, running errands, taxes, any financial decisions) We both work full time jobs so w/ all my other responsibilites I have almost no time for myself. I'm an extremely independent person but I am afraid of being alone. I'm also scared that 5 years from now I will still be in this same situation...completely unhappy.

2007-03-25 07:49:21 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce