Ok, I have a bf and all the sudden he never calls me anymore (he never really called before maybe once or twice) and now whenever I call his parents say he's not home or gone. Where could he really be? I miss him alot! I called him today and nobody answered...I know there home I saw his dad at church today. Im starting to wonder if he is trying to tell me he dosnt wanta go on with me. His friends say that "OH are you kiding me he really likes you, don't breakup with him" and others say "I think you should break up with him, move on" but I have alot of feelings for him, havnt seen or talked to him for like EVER! I miss him. Any hints or ideas? He had a sn and ever since I don't go on mine anymore he dosnt go on either. HELP!
2007-03-25 07:59:48 · 8 answers · asked by Holly S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is obviously avoiding you for some reason. How come you get to speak to his friends and not him? Sounds wrong to me. Don't trust them anyway.. they're just doing their job to keep you happy and keep him out of trouble. Find a way to contact him and break up with him, as it doesn't make sense staying in a relationship that brings you down just for the sake of being with someone.
2007-03-25 08:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by fickle™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll I had the same problem with my ex BF, everyone told me to break up with him and so after much debate I figured out he wasn't treating me very fairly because my ex never called me anymore (he used to call me all hours of the day) and so eventually I was tired of being dissapointed so I broke up with and sure I thought I regretted it but now I don't. The best advice is to do what you think is right.
Good Luck! =]
2007-03-25 15:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by pebblespunk2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has cheated and trying to clear up the disease he contacted and feels bad. I hope u are alright. Get a life and stop calling him and talking about him to his so called friends. Your relationship should be between the 2 of u not the friends. Wait he will call u. Do other things. Because he is showing u he does not miss u.
2007-03-25 15:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont let other ppl influence ur relationship wit him. maybe hes kinda afraid cuz hes never been wit a girl this long or somthin. try 2 find a way 2 meet him and ask him wuts been happenin and stuff.
2007-03-25 15:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
got o his house ring the coor bell call him till his phone blows out if u realli like this guy. then once u get hold of him talk to him. if u can talk to one of his friends then tell them that u reali need to talk to him and tell them to tell him that u relali need to talk to him or else u 2 wont last very much longer. i dont realli think its a sign of him not likeing u but it could be idk i cant read his mind and neither can u but if u find a way to talk to him about it dont hold bac and say everything how it is. bestz luck
2007-03-25 15:05:24 · answer #5 · answered by krissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont ever hear from him, he must not really like u (sorry)
i wouldnt go out wwith a guy like that so if i were u id dump him
2007-03-25 15:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he's shutting you out. Try to remember if you did something that he didn't like. or someone told him lies about you cheating or something, then maybe you can straighten things out.
2007-03-25 15:07:55 · answer #7 · answered by psst..its me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is sick of ur preppy accent.....merf u prep!!
2007-03-25 15:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by Tati 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋