2007-03-25 08:00:38 · 18 answers · asked by glamourlady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop. Right now. Today. end it. He has vowed to love this other person forever, and here he is with you. Do you honetsly think he wont eventually tire of you and move on to someone else, just like he has his wife? He is a cheater, and you are helping him hurt his wife and family. You are better than that and deserve better. Sure its gonna hurt, your gonna miss him madly for a while, but trust me girl, you will be so better off. Get out now!
2007-03-25 08:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by Pam W 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it Olivia, don't fall in the trap that millions of women have fallen into for centuries. Take stock of your situation. Ask yourself some questions. Can this man give you all that you need in a relationship? Are you willing to be the other woman and be second in a relationship? Are you willing to possibly break up his marriage? Do want a life of lonliness and disappointment? If you can say yes to all of these questions, then fall in love with him and you will be hooked. If you have doubts, then run don't walk out of this relationship as soon as possible. You are in for heartache, disappointments, and lonliness all through your relationship with this guy and if you are single, you will never have children, you will never get married, and never have that house with the picket fence. I say end it and tell him why you are ending it, and don't let him manipulate you into staying with the empty promises that most married men use. When the kids get bigger is one, or it is not the right time right now. Just get out of it. Find a nice single guy looking for a nice girl and fall in love with him, because he can offer you a future that this clown can't. I rest my case. Good Luck
2007-03-25 15:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is married and better start falling out of love, he is already taken. Did he say he loves you and will leave his wife for you, I bet he hasn't he is playing a game with you. Married man are the nicest men in the world they already have what they love and will treat like a queen because they don't owe you nothing and that is what you are going to get nothing. Stay clear of him because a married can reel you in and you get hooked but they throw back in just like they found you. Married men will tell you anything to get you in that sack a little piece on the side that is all he is looking for, no steady companion, he already has that at home.
2007-03-25 15:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by Nicki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think you are really falling in love with him, than I'd suggest you end everything until he gets divorced. Do not get involved with a married man. It's a waste of time. If his marriage is an unhappy one, than he should re-evaluate his situation and either get divorced or leave you alone. If he does get divorced, you will be happy (and relieved) to know it wasn't because of you.
2007-03-25 15:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by louis3046 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of innocent people have already been hurt by your actions. Do you really want to continue to do this? Two wrongs don't make a right. You should walk away. Or better yet - tell the dude about your feelings. He'll probably run and your problem will be solved.
2007-03-25 15:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater.. get away... do not get involved with married men... If he cheats on his wife, what makes you think he will not cheat on you??? Cheaters are no good.. whether man or woman. No one can truly fall in love with cheaters and deceit..
2007-03-25 15:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by tootsie38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to not get involved with a married man it breaks up a marriage and some times a person will kill over their spouse you need to move on find a single man
2007-03-25 15:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's great! Why would you go out with a married man in the first place?!
2007-03-25 15:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by Freakazoid 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think you are in love don't go for him why he is married. see someone else. But if he ever slits up with the girl see how he feels about you.
2007-03-25 15:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by Paris 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i used to be that man. i am now back with my wife. for some reason the woman on the side never lasts for too long, except for those unordinary exceptions. listen if you really want help.
2007-03-25 15:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by chad r 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋