I'm 14, and he's 15. we kinda came to a realization that we were too young for a serious relationship so we split up.
although it was nice to hear him say that he sucked at being a boyfriend (and he kinda did, read my past questions), i miss him.
He wasn't ready for a girlfriend, and I wasn't exactly ready for a boyfriend. It was hard to admit, but it was true.
How did you get over your first breakup? How did u get over your first boyfriend/girlfriend? =(
2007-03-25 07:50:29 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've liked this boy for 5 years, one of those years I was his girlfriend. Liking him became a part of who I was for all that time. How do I erase that? =/
2007-03-25 12:04:30 · update #1
He's my best friend now =)
And i'm the closest friend he's ever had, he said so himself.
2007-03-26 09:31:20 · update #2
Unfortunately, it just takes time. The first one is the hardest, because you have no frame of reference and you feel like you're just NEVER going to get over it. (After a few breakups, you start to realize that you WILL get over it, so it's a little easier to be patient until you feel better.) The best thing you can probably do is just keep yourself busy so you don't sit around brooding over it. Do stuff with your friends and family that is fun and makes you feel happy. You'll get over it eventually. Hang in there !
BTW....kudos to both you AND your boyfriend for recognizing that you were not ready for an adult relationship. You both sound very smart and mature.
2007-03-25 07:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Schleppy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations to the both of you for realizing you weren't ready...that takes a lot of maturity to figure out and admit âº
it sounds like you two are still friendly though, so that should help the breakup be less painful...beyond that it takes time...I know that sounds cheesy but it's true...time is a great healer...it allows us to think about things and put our heart back together and allow it to heal...while that is happening spend time with friends, focus on school and hobbies and other things until you don't miss having a boyfriend quite so much...
Take care of you
2007-03-25 07:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard baby... but u gotta keep a friendship with him and sooner or later u will only see him as a friend and things wont be so tough.... but u might always have feelings for him.... or.... talk with him and go back out with him becuz ur not too young, love is love if ur 10 or 100.... im 15, my boyfriend is 17 and we love each other, and get this, i think i might be pregnant so ur not too young and i think u 2 should get back together... the best of luck
2007-03-25 07:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I didn't have too much trouble doing that, I dumped him! And the last time I was hung up over someone, well, I'm back with him now but I basically didn't get out of bed for two days, then I woke up and said I'm not gonna let him bother me and went out and met my friends (they are the best, they're always there!) Then I put my mind into studying, reading, playing my guitar and anything that needed enough concentration to divert my attention from him! And it works, do something you need LOTS of concentration for and something you love to do!
2007-03-25 07:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by Freakazoid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I just got over it. You are only 14 there will be more relationships. You are right you are to young for a serious relationship. Dont do anything to hurt yourself it wont make it better. If you need help getting through it turn to your family or friends sometimes that can help.
2007-03-25 07:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you get over your first break-up???
easy. Just hang out with your friends to take your mind off of him. Well...just really do anything that you like that you will have fun doing and not crying over your bf.
thats what I did.....and now Im as happy as ever.
hey!, maybe when yall are ready for a relationship ,yall might be right there waiting 4 each other.
2007-03-25 07:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by k ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no real guide as to what you're supposed to or not supposed to do when coming out of a relationship, especially since everyone reacts to things differently. But anyway, I always try to keep myself busy when I've broken up with someone, be it busy with work or busy looking for a replacement.. anything to keep me from dwelling on the past for too long. Good luck with yours.
2007-03-25 07:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by fickle™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to do depending on how long the relationship lasted. if you two come to an agreement that it won't work you have to move on some way or another. Making new friends and doing something out of the ordinary(smart,fun stuff) always does the trick.
2007-03-25 07:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by LT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't get over my first bf until I started to date someone else. That's when I realized that he wasn't the only great guys out there.
If your ex wasn't the best bf, it really shouldn't take you long to realize that there are guys who do qualify for the title of best bf!
Good Luck!
2007-03-25 07:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by Super Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get over ur bf/gf have one of ur best friend to help cheer u up because it is really aint worth crying for and no offense if one day yall still like each other and ya feel ya can take a serious relationship then go for it
2007-03-25 07:56:06 · answer #10 · answered by Nelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋