Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

My boyfriend has caused me some pain because of his actions and his friends actions but I really like him (like love him) but my best friend says that I should just forget him. What should I do?

2007-03-21 10:33:18 · 7 answers · asked by Mickey James 1 in Singles & Dating

If the government made a law that you could not own a car where you lived, and your spouse needed to stay because of their job and to keep the kids in a good school, - would you move out in order to live where you could own a car, or sell it and stay as a family?

2007-03-21 10:32:43 · 19 answers · asked by Happy Camper 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've seen her use the children to justify her manipulative and controlling behavior. What can I do to keep the peace without contributing to her dysfunctional habits?

2007-03-21 10:32:28 · 21 answers · asked by Kaybee 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my girlfriend have been dating about a year and 5 months. Well, its been 6 months since we last had sex, after 8-10 months of sex every day sometimes 3 times a day. We had fights before because I wanted sex and she said that thats all I wanted from her, and to her, ive made the sex a big issue in our relationship. Although I reasurred her and I told her, if she thinks thats all I want then why am I still with her even after 6 months of no sex. I love this girl to death She claims to love me, although shes not a very affectionate person. Can there be a good relationship without sex? Is she still attracted to me even tho she is not having sex with me? Can this be because I was a virgin when I had sex with her that I crave sex so much? I am willing to try to work with it, but i am afraid that she might be cheating on me, which she never has given me a reason to think that. Could she still be interested in me? Can she really love me as much as I love her even without the sex?

2007-03-21 10:32:26 · 13 answers · asked by bad2bone2212 2 in Singles & Dating

And still thinks theres "HOPE" when its been over for more than 8 months.

I'm tring to be happy with him, but his Crazy ex wont leave our lives alone.

Shes nuts and sometime I find her in her car out side his house at random hours of the night and day.
Or once she broke in to his house and and went nuts in it.

Mind you the were only together for 6 months and havent been together for 8 months. They have no kids nothing together.

Shes not a little girl either shes 26 years old with 2 kids.
Hes 24 years old and I'm 21 with no kids.

2007-03-21 10:32:19 · 5 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

cause u jus dont randomly go and ask, so how do u ask, and wut signs do girls give to show that they like u.

2007-03-21 10:32:07 · 4 answers · asked by ben 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 10:32:06 · 3 answers · asked by Hello! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I be friends with her?
Or should i give the 1millionth chance?

I want to know this because i don't know what to do?

2007-03-21 10:31:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfriend and i have been together for about 2 1/2 months.....i told him i loved him and he seemed serious when he asked me if was joking, i said no but now that i think about it i reallly dont love him but i dont know how to tell him what i said was a mistake...the reason i told him that was because i had a burning desire to tell him what should i do? how should i tell him? should i even tell him how i really feel? or let him think what i said was true?

thankyou in advance for your advice

2007-03-21 10:30:30 · 12 answers · asked by jasmin 2 in Singles & Dating

When we next meet, he is going to give me a good spanking, but he wants me to wear at least one item of clothing that was fashionable before he was born in 1956. Do you have any ideas on what I should wear? Any suggestions as to how I acquire it (forgetting e-bay and the like) would be appreciated.

2007-03-21 10:30:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Thirty six year old female.Packing line teamleader 5 yrs.Dependable,personable,responsible.

2007-03-21 10:30:12 · 1 answers · asked by Honest Injun 4 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy that likes me (and its definitely starting to get annoying!!!) but i dont feel the same way about him...should i just tell him straight out that i dont like him or should i just let him eventually get the hint??

2007-03-21 10:29:26 · 16 answers · asked by rvl 3 in Singles & Dating

My father bought land from my grandmother (his mother) back in the late 1970's and has a deed to it. My grandmother has a life estate to this land. He married and before he passed away we had a Last Will and Testiment where I am appointed executrix . In the will it only has me and my siblings listed and she is no where listed on this Will. I am in desperate need to find out if she can get any of this land that my father had. They say that since my grandmother has a life estate to it that it went back to her when my father passed. She is still alive. I am wanting to know since he was still married to this woman if she can get any of this before and/or after my grandmother passes since it was before they met or was married. Me and my other siblings are wanting to go ahead with the surveying and so i can have a house built on it but i need to know this first so i wont have wasted my time on building and her be able to get the land where my house it at.

2007-03-21 10:29:15 · 11 answers · asked by arcowgirl80 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like, what if someone you're not really attracted to asks you out, but you don't want to turn them down because you know it takes a lot of courage to go up to someone you like and take a chance on getting rejected and you don't want to crush their heart...

2007-03-21 10:29:14 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I finally got to talk to the guy I have a crush on and I had not spoken to him in a couple of months or 7 weeks. I spoke to him today, but it did not feel the same as it did before?
Whats wrong?

2007-03-21 10:28:28 · 18 answers · asked by Hello K 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm half japanese/half spanish (look asian but with sorta darker skin)
i really don't do asian stuff that much, nor american stuff, more like in between.
i'm around 5'8", very lean (i think im about 135 llbs)
i just got my degree in mech. engineering
very athletic (mostly land sports though... bball, vball, skate/snowboard, tennis, and yes golf)
people say i'm funny ...but i tell them i had my funny bone taken out a couple years ago
only had 1 serious grilfriend (mutually broke up due to distance...damn u med school!)
people say i'm nice (i try to be nice. i still think its bothersome being nice)
very competive when it comes to having "in the name of fun" competitions. (not so much when my life depended on it)
i think i have ADD (it's not that i need attention, i just get bored easily)
i stop caring about how i look years ago (have only 2 pair of jeans )
and the good still prevails in me (even if it cost me my reputation or embarrassment.)

2007-03-21 10:28:22 · 10 answers · asked by fondleberrywinks 1 in Singles & Dating

the girl i like well she had a bf and the first date he tried to get in her pants and i said i would kick his *** for her were all 14 so do you think i should i mean im gonna anyway but i want your oppinion plz

2007-03-21 10:28:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy really, really liked me and he would tell me all the time. I liked him too but I wasn't sure if I could date him yet (parental rules) and I didn't want to lead him on in case I couldn't so whenever he dropped incredibly obvious hints about how I should say I liked him too, I would change the subject. This happened multiple times even though he knew about my parental rules. Then one day he told me that he told me how much I liked him (which he said was 'a lot' and told me to tell him how much I liked him - I responded with 'a lot as well). Then one day we kissed (just a 2-second, see you later type) and then after that he was totally all over me and talking about the kiss like 1,000 times. Then about two days ago, out of the blue (after he'd been 100% sweet only 30min before) he told me that he just wants to be best friends with me and he's felt that way ever since the kiss.

I know that before me, like in November, he liked this other girl, they hooked up and then she said..

2007-03-21 10:27:25 · 4 answers · asked by Madeline B. 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee (boyfriend) has been going on about us getting married at the end of this year which i am happy with but theres one problem he doesn't seem interested in looking at prices or even giving me an idea of what sorta thing he wants, I feel like i am the only one interested. So last night i told him how i felt and he said he will in his own time but he has a habit of of leving everything to the last minute and i end up arrangeing it or buying prsents cards etc. If he really wants us wed by the end of this year why is he not willing to help as i will be the bride i want it to be the happiest day i have ever had and something we can do together for once. I know the brides parents are supposed to help but my parents wont as my mum died my dad abandoned me and my brother and sister dont even like us being engaged. When i say it wont happen this year if he dont help he just said i shattered his hope? I dont understand this as i think like i am gonna be left to arrange it.

2007-03-21 10:27:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

For S's & G's.

What personality trait do you most admire in a potential or current bf/gf?

I like my gf b/c she's sort of a girlie-girl, but she is not shy, pretty open about what she wants and likes.

2007-03-21 10:27:04 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Tomorrow, I want to ask her is the school work due today, how was ur day? Then after she answers the questions, I say Its almost Friday, do u want to hang out sometime? If she says yes then I ask can I call you sometime? Smooth?

2007-03-21 10:26:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently found out that my boyfriend of 5 and a half years has been cheating on my for nearly two years with one of our coworkers. He and I have been together since we were 16, and I've always felt that we had a stronger bond than any couple I knew. We were each other's best friends. But then last week the other girl called me and told me that he'd been cheating on me with her, and he didn't deny it. I want to work this out but don't know if I could ever trust him to keep it in pants from now on. What do you think?

2007-03-21 10:26:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 10:26:49 · 9 answers · asked by Just A Newbie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf r bout to do IT.....i need some positions to make it the best hes ever had...........

2007-03-21 10:26:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a 21 year old step-daughter living at home. She has a baby from a marriage that never should have occurred. She tries to tell us how to set up our own home to "baby" proof it. A lot of things have been put up, so the baby can not reach them, but she really does not set boundries for him. He is 10 months old. She also baby sits for her cousin and those kids ae neglected/ignored by their parents, yet she still has no boundries. I am tired of having to put things up due to her not wanting to be attentive parent/babysitter she should be. She also is horrible at picking up after herself and the children. It really is getting on my nerves.
Our relationship in the past was very rocky due to her wanting to able to run our home when she was child and have no boundries set on herself.
How do I approach this with her and not break the fragile relationship we have now? Our relationship is so-so! I tolerate a lot and do not push myself or ideas on her very often.

2007-03-21 10:26:12 · 4 answers · asked by hey_there_heathe 2 in Family

My girlfriend cheated and I asked her about the other guy. She said she didn't remember much. I asked if she performed oral and she said yes but didn't remember much. I asked how she performed oral and couldn't remember any details. I asked if she could even tell if he was circumsized or not and she said know. Sounds like she doesn't want to admit that there was alot more going on, so she is playing stupid.

Ladies is it possible to have it in your mouth and not know the difference?

2007-03-21 10:25:35 · 25 answers · asked by you know who 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im going to the mall, and i was thinking about inviting everyone i know which is probably 75 people(i know they'll come because there always there. but i have no idea what a bunch of 15-18 year old guys and girls would do at the mall? any idea hurry i only have to days left!

2007-03-21 10:25:26 · 6 answers · asked by Britanie 3 in Friends

She is in her mid thirties and i am in my fifties. I really like what I know of her, and she is so beautifull ,she takes my breath away. She has asked for nothing from me. I wonder if we could be a good couple even with the age difference?

2007-03-21 10:25:01 · 7 answers · asked by zanzabarr 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 24, boyfriend is the same age. We spend most of our time together, at least 6 out of 7 days a week we stay together at either one of our apts. We have our off time, he has his weekend days where he's out playing paintball with buddies and video game time with friends. I have time with my girls as well. So seemingly, things are pretty stable and we enjoy the time together that we have and still make time for our friends. Issue: Occasionally and randomly -he will request a day/night that he spend alone. It throws me off because I know that he enjoys our time together, no doubts about it. And I feel that we have ample time apart where we can enjoy ourselves without the other. So when he requests more time away from me and to be "alone" it hurts my feelings. He acts strangely when I express my disappointment in not seeing him; he becomes defensive. Does anyone have this issue or possibly have insight? What is with this "alone time" business? And I'm not a clingy chick so don't assume.

2007-03-21 10:23:43 · 4 answers · asked by Kellie 1 in Singles & Dating

my ma is in a pool league... MVP actually won 12 of 13 matches... go her i know.

well, in august her team is going to vegas and she wants to take me for my bday... which is may but i'll be 21 then so august is fine.

she wants to pay and whatnot but i don't know if i want her to... she's been in and out of my life forever and i don't feel she should have to support me on a trip... should i let her pay or pay myself??

2007-03-21 10:22:55 · 6 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Family