Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

Okay I've been dating off and on with this guy for the past two year. The sex is great but we never get along outside the sex most of the time. He was sent to jail for a one year sentence before he went in we wasn't on good terms but ever since he been in there, he's a total sweetheart. He told me he loved many timesm when he was out, before he was sentenced but when I hear him say it now I keep thinking its just jail house love. How would I be able to find out if he really does love me or not? Please help me i'm so lost. P.S I really do love this guy alot I just need to know is it the same way with him or is it the jail house talking.

2007-03-21 10:42:23 · 3 answers · asked by Baby C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

HELP PLZ

2007-03-21 10:42:00 · 11 answers · asked by Yulia V 1 in Friends

I like my best guy friend. he knows i like him..but when i told him he had a GF but now he dosent and i dont want to ask him again because this another girl asked him out a couple of times and he got really mad at her. i am his top 1 on myspace and he is mine....i fell like he likes

2007-03-21 10:41:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my husband and i live in japan and our parents in oklahoma... my father in law and i get along but then there is his mom... everytime we need to talk to her she says "OH GOD SHES PREGNANT..thank god you had me scared.". and shes always on my butt about gettin a job or goin to shcool....she REFUSES to talk to me.... this only seems to be since we got married but we dated 2 years before and she never seemed tohave a problem with me untill now... how do i deal with it without causing HUGE problems...

2007-03-21 10:41:01 · 14 answers · asked by Lindsey richardson 2 in Family

I have a little girl who is 2 and a half right now. She has been living with her mother for all of her life mainly because I have been stationed in Japan. Well I am due to come back to the U.S. in September, and I would like to start setting up a case to get some custody of my little angel. Her mother currently lives with HER mother, she owes money to the courts for traffic stuff, and she has been using my child support money to pay that off, she pulled my daughter out of day-care because she cannot afford it anymore, and she blames me for her problems everytime we talk to each other. Basically I am tired of hearing it, and I don't think now is the best time for her to be trying to raise our daughter. I have tried to talk to her about willingly letting our daughter live with me for a time, but now it seems I'll have to go the road I don't want to go down. So what do I do to make sure I can get some sort of custody?

2007-03-21 10:40:34 · 8 answers · asked by Allan R 1 in Family

My daughter is almost 19 and doesn't live at home. This past week, she took my debit card out of my purse and spent almost $200. I was out of town, so it took me almost 2 days to realize it was gone. I contacted the bank, cancelled the card and transferred all of my remaining money into another account. I left her a message (she wasn't answering my calls) that the bank had said I would have to press charges before they could re-imburse my account due to her making withdrawals from the ATM. She never responded.

This isn't the first time she has taken money from me. Over the past couple of years, she has written herself checks from both my account and my oldest daughter's account. I've learned that it's not safe to leave cash ANYWHERE in my home. She's not working at the moment and I help out when I can while maintaining my own household.

Other than this problem, she's a great kid with a good heart. What would you do if it were your daughter?

2007-03-21 10:39:57 · 13 answers · asked by justaquestion4u 1 in Family

My girlfriend went out one night with her guy friend, they got really drunk and she claims she got taken advantage of. Apparently they slept together. She said they went back to his place in order for him to grab his keys so he can drive her to her car which was parked far away. They were taking shots at his friends house nearby. She ended up in his room because he wanted to show her pictures from a vacation. Next she says he came onto her and took advantage of her. She says she was drunk and dizzy, and did not consent. Should trust her? She is a good person, smart girl, but I tend to catch her lying at times. At first she denied anything happened when I first found out but has since confessed. Her first explanation was that she messed up but is now claiming she was taken advantage of. She lied because she was ashamed and afraid I would leave her. She is really flirty when she's drunk, but it's nothing much to be concerned about. I need help from serious users. Thoughts?

2007-03-21 10:39:40 · 21 answers · asked by Fab M 1 in Singles & Dating

Not someone you just went out with for a week and never went outside of school together. When did you have your first real kiss too? Am I weird that I have never had a boyfriend before or been kissed, I am 14?

2007-03-21 10:39:18 · 49 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

But now hes with another girl and he likes her. But i still like him. Also he doesnt want to go back out with me. What should i do??

2007-03-21 10:39:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 10:39:03 · 10 answers · asked by Points whore 6 in Singles & Dating

is this ok?

2007-03-21 10:38:56 · 3 answers · asked by Emo_Gurl™ 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend you once thought you liked but know that you really just like as a friend, IMs you at midnight and says he stranded 500 miles away from you but 2500 from his home, there are no flights out for 36 hours. You know that if you go there your boyfriend who you really love very much will be pissed and probably think the worst. If you don't that friend is stranded far from home alone,
What should you do?

2007-03-21 10:38:52 · 5 answers · asked by Nauoe 1 in Friends

one that everybody knows it and the other known only by you and the other person

2007-03-21 10:37:56 · 7 answers · asked by misterious 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-21 10:37:54 · 11 answers · asked by Colorado 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when they say stuff like whats up with me and you and just use overly used pick up lines

2007-03-21 10:37:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like a guy, and i think he returns the feeling, but we are both pretty shy and we have no classes together so we dont get to talk to each other very often, usually only after school. are there any smaller, subtle things i can do to show him i'm intrested or get to know him better and just gradually work up to telling him how i feel?

2007-03-21 10:37:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 10:37:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't know if i should call someone about my friend whose mother may be mentally ill, and the daughter denies it, but i know shes just lying, who do i call

2007-03-21 10:37:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I find myself on the floor, in the fetal position, with a million things running through my head, unable to get up and do the simpilest things. I feel very overwhelmed, my friends and family call me and I feel like they are just bothering me and won't leave me alone. I have been to therapists and started taking medication but I just feel like the world is against me. My gf does not understand and yells at me for not doing thinkgs exactly how she would like. I am supposed to mve in with her next week, I tired a few weeks a go to back out of moving in but she coerced me into going through with it. ANd now I feel my back is against the wall and I am going in circles. I appreciate your resonses but please do not post sarcastic remarks. Thank you

2007-03-21 10:36:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 10:36:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it looks? Or personality? Material things? Or a combination of all of it?

Describe to me your dream woman / man. What do they look like? How do they dress? What do they do?

I am just bored at work. Thanks for your answers :)

2007-03-21 10:36:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am very deeply in love with my (soon to be) ex husband. The problem with this is a little over 2 months ago (Jan 20), he hit me worse than he had ever before. He threw me on the ground and starting throwing punches, and when I screamed for help, he tried to strangle me. He had been hitting me for a year. Whenever I pissed him off, he would hit things or me, yell at me, degrade me in every way possible. On my birthday, he punched me in the stomach and spit on my face, calling me a worthless whore. But, despite all this, I loved him. That night (Jan 20) I called the cops, and he was arrested and taken to jail. I thought it would be the end of it, but I was wrong. After a while, we started talking again and I realized that he had changed. He had turned into something better than I ever thought he could be, and my love for him grew deeper. Over the last couple of weeks, we've been talking about getting back together, but I always seemed to back out at the last minute ...

2007-03-21 10:36:14 · 2 answers · asked by end_4706 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy asks me for a smoke today and I told him I dont smoke, because I dont, he then proceeds to ask me for some change, so I gave him a dollar. He says " Yeah like thats all you got". I told him that maybe he should use the hands God gave him and get a job then he will have more. He tried to spit on me. So I proceeded to punch his smelly face in. Why are they so rude like I owe them something?. Have a bath get a job and lay off the booze you bums.

2007-03-21 10:36:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Went on a first date with a girl at the weekend which went well until I was too drunk to anything when we got back to my flat (which was a bit of a mess). I texted her Sunday night and she responded but didn't contact her again until earlier this eve, about 3 hours ago, asking if she was up to anything at the weekend but so far no response. Do you think she's not interested and what should I do, call her?

2007-03-21 10:35:55 · 6 answers · asked by micktravis 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi all,
Well...I am looking for some reasonable way to find a girlfriend...not the Internet since after several months of searching here I ended up only with people trying to waste their time here... And since I have no experience in relationships please don't tell me to go to Wallmart and talk to some girl :). I need something that requieres a little self confidence. Besides that, I am not an American...so in my country people are not that communicative like in USA.

Talking about me. I am 21...I love to travel all around the world, I like Rome at most...and a lot more things
Here are several pics of me:
http://s174.photobucket.com/albums/w119/bacarddi/Ego/

P.S.
I was posting similar questions already, but still I can't find the answer. Probably now I will get it.

Thanks alot!!!

2007-03-21 10:35:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

boyfriend-cheated
kissed friend behind back
need revenge.
how?
give me good answers not
"just forget it" cuz i hate those answers

2007-03-21 10:35:10 · 9 answers · asked by -♥invisable ninja-♥- 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think someone needs help if they were doing drugs for 4 years, and they've been mostly sober for the past year. And if they started when they were nine? Especially if its inhalents and GHB?

2007-03-21 10:34:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

boyfriend-cheated
kissed friend behind back
need revenge.
how?
give me good answers not
"just forget it" cuz i hate those answers

2007-03-21 10:34:29 · 2 answers · asked by -♥invisable ninja-♥- 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother seems to handling everything but is hoping for power of attorney I never got along with my Mom but he always did. Am I missing something?

2007-03-21 10:34:19 · 1 answers · asked by hobo 7 in Friends

I thought this guy was showing interest in me - he'd do favors for me, talk to me all soft and sweet and did double takes when he saw me - so I asked him out, and he agreed to go (he even blushd and had a grin from ear to ear) but I should've known I wasnt ready to date yet. (Selling the house, drama with the ex, etc.)

I see him two months later and remind him of that date. He stands real close to me, softly tells me "To be honest...."
he's in a relationship now, it's not "official" and so on, and so on. I nodded my head and was about to walk away, the strange thing is he kept going on about it "I'm out of the game, I'm not in the market anymore" then he says "Thanks for the offer though, I appreciate it"

I GOT IT DUDE!! I understand.

Why'd he feel the need to go on and on with the explanations?

2007-03-21 10:33:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating