Not someone you just went out with for a week and never went outside of school together. When did you have your first real kiss too? Am I weird that I have never had a boyfriend before or been kissed, I am 14?
2007-03-21 10:39:18 · 49 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 36 and still haven't had one. Sad, I know.
2007-03-21 10:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jebbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first kiss was at 15, and my first boyfriend was at 18. It's not weird at all to have not been kissed or had a boyfriend at your age. It may seem like everyone else has a bf, or has been kissed, but believe me, it's not true. I'm in college now, and some of my best friends still haven't been kissed (and they're 21). Most people don't end up with whoever they date in HS anyways, so it's not a big deal. Don't worry about it. If you're always looking for romance, you'll never find it. That was my problem. Seriously, as soon as I stopped searching for a guy, one came along. It's better that way too. Unexpected = fun.
2007-03-21 10:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by female020050310 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14
2007-03-21 10:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen right now! Im 19 nearly 20 and never had a serious relationship. I am not ashamed of that. Before i get into anything serious i wanna do things i want to do like travel the world etc Theres nothing wrong with doing things for you, not what everyone else does. You have the rest of your life ahead of you and when you find the right one you'll know whether its tomorrow or twenty years down the line. If you don't think about what other people are doing, having a boyfriend will not bother you, Live your life first, theres plenty of boys to meet later in life!
2007-03-21 10:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont worry about this stuff at your age. ive been married and separated...had about a million boyfriends and at 29, i now have an actual "REAL" boyfriend. He was a virgin and never been with a girl before me and he was 25. Am I ever thankful that I found him at last. I had to go through so many losers to find this one gem. He treats me like I want to be treated and our relationship is full of respect. Don't put yourself into a situation that you aren't comfortable with just to get a boyfriend or your first kiss. That's the best advice I can give you. It means more when you know the person really likes you. Trust me, it will be worth it if you wait awhile!
2007-03-21 10:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by kiss_me_cold_007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is wonderful that you are 14 and never been kissed. If I could do it all over again, I would have waited longer before getting into a relationship that included that. I was 14 when I had my first real boyfriend, and 14 when I received my first kiss. Him and I dated for 2 years, and we were "going to get married" according to him. I was too young to see through him. Wait my dear one, wait!
2007-03-21 10:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! That's not weird at all!
I came close to dating once in highschool, but I didn't meet my first (and only) boyfriend until I was 18 and in college. He was also my first kiss-- and let me tell you, waiting all those years to meet the right guy and have just the right moment for a beautiful first kiss was so worth it :)
Just because the media and everyone around you is telling you that having a boyfriend is cool doesn't mean you should lower your standards. Besides, the large majority of guys your age are definately not ready for a serious relationship. Save that first kiss (and your heart) for someone who truly deserves it! ;)
2007-03-21 10:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by janeowyn180 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not wierd. I'm not really sure where kids today get this idea that if they haven't had a boyfriend by a certain age there's something wrong with them. You're 14! Enjoy it! Live! Don't worry about the other stuff - it'll all be there when you're ready!
Btw, I was 15 (just a week from my Sweet 16) when I had my first kiss - we started dating shortly after my 16th birthday.
2007-03-21 10:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 19 before I had my first serious boyfriend (going out more than a month, etc.).
Don't worry about it. You're only 14. Wait for someone special before you give away your first kiss (or your first anything). I rushed my first kiss and it was awful, with a guy I didn't even like. That's one of the few things I regret.
2007-03-21 10:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First real boyfriend at 16. First kiss at 11.
2007-03-21 10:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by Vix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16
2007-03-21 10:40:52 · answer #11 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋