Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

Thats what she wants me to believe. Instead of remorse, guilt, or a sincere apology what I get is a lecture on how I brought this upon myself. How I emotionally abandoned her. Thats why she felt she had no choice but to go out more and more often, trying to "escape" from an unhappy home. The way I see it, we may have had problems, but none were unfixable or unforgivable. There was no need to cheat. I was faithful to her. I put up with 7 years and two insanly jealous pregnancies. I gave up chatting, all my friends, my ex'es, and gave her access to my email. She would check my cell phone and pockets all the time. As irony would have it, look who was the one that couldn't be trusted. We had a family with 3 beautiful children. She decided to throw that away for a guy she met 3 weeks ago. It gets better. She's going to move in with him and take my kids with her. This is crazy. I didn't deserve this. Yet, she has the nerve to blame me. Do all unfaithful women use this same excuse?

2007-03-21 10:52:25 · 32 answers · asked by Alex H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel it but I just don't know....

2007-03-21 10:52:20 · 16 answers · asked by Iam_canadian 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 10:51:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want her to leave immediately and not stay in my bed and cuddle. I mean....it's not a serious relationship just somebody I've went out with a few times. I know it's not something that the ladies would like to hear....but I need my own space in my bed but how do I explain that to her without hurting her feelings or sounding like a total jerk. It's nothing against her personally...but I cannot sleep properly with her on my bed. Any ideas Guys?

2007-03-21 10:51:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Quick story- I dated a girl for a year, fell in love, then broke up and were friends for a 3 months.Then lied to her about another girl. She found out and it broke her heart--we worked on our friendship and 2 or 3 months later the same thing happened when she visited me. There we also some problems during our relationship.

I realize I have a problem with lying and I told her this the first time this thing happened. Now she cant even be my friend (i dont blame her) but I really do care about her and love her so deeply. I want to be able to show her this but I despretly need to help my self and the problems I have first.
So she dosnt belive in me anymore and she dosnt belive what I say, of course, so how can I do this? I got her a crazy sex and the city dvd gift set thing to send her (we are long distance), so should I say we should be apart so I can work on things, send it and supriese her with a letter telling her I love her and sorry? How should I work this? What can I do otherwi

2007-03-21 10:51:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if a woman is 18 and her boyfriend is 35 but their completely in love and they both know that and have proven it over and over again to eachother should the age difference really matter?

2007-03-21 10:51:36 · 16 answers · asked by Krystal A 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this boi dat likes me in my skool and I lik him back...but I mite like him mo den he likes me....would that hurt a relationship? Also I wear tight clothes and low cut clothes....could he be hung up on looks even though when he met me I wazn't in real tite clothes?

2007-03-21 10:51:15 · 7 answers · asked by It is what it is 4 in Friends

2007-03-21 10:51:13 · 15 answers · asked by ee2007 2 in Singles & Dating

We live in the US.

2007-03-21 10:50:16 · 2 answers · asked by Sandy F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i got some great answers and this is really allot of help to me.thanks everyone....my girl friend of 3.5 years broke up with me 3 months ago.she started to see someone else right away.now we are talking and would like to get back together.but she don't know how to end the relationship she in now..she said she doesn't want to hurt his feelings.and waiting for the right time...(when he screws up again).....how can she get out of that relationship before more time passes and his feelings will be hurt.she say im in her heart for marriage.
we do talk ,i do see her once a week.everything looks promising .i told her to tell him you still have feelings for me..i have asked her to end it as soon as possible,before to much time goes by and he wont be so hurt...she says its too late for that

2007-03-21 10:50:11 · 13 answers · asked by David 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well I have this boyfriend that i love sooo much it ain't funny. well before i was going out with him i was going out with his distant cuzin, They are really good friends. I have been going out with my current boyfriend for almost a year but now my ex wants back with me. I want to go out with him but I love my current boy alt too. I would hate to break up their brotherlyness because of my stupidity but I don't kno what to do. If you have advice...I'm waiting--THANKS

2007-03-21 10:50:05 · 7 answers · asked by Boff Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

That Frank Sinatra tune keeps humming in my brain....

What say you - Yahoo Community???

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2007-03-21 10:49:07 · 2 answers · asked by YRofTexas 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-21 10:48:55 · 3 answers · asked by lexi_ch888 1 in Singles & Dating

seems like this feeling who wont go away
it seems like i dont have someone who truely cares for me at all
(first i am obviously single)
but it feels like even my freinds are not as close as they should be

help please

2007-03-21 10:48:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 10:48:27 · 4 answers · asked by Steve O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if someone says you are "going out" with a boy but you NEVER see him outside of school and you don't kiss him? How could that be a boyfriend if you never spend time with him outside of school? Some of my friends have had these so called relationships but are they really bf/gf relationships?

2007-03-21 10:48:07 · 17 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

My fella's workin late and i'm gettin really bored waitin 4 him. Any suggestions?

2007-03-21 10:48:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does this boy like me if he hit me with his gym bag w/ a laugh and he aways tries to take my mirrior out of my locker?

2007-03-21 10:47:55 · 11 answers · asked by brit 1 in Singles & Dating

Thin line between love and hate....where is the line? When can you tell when you began to hate rather than love? let me know.
Can't live with em can't live with outh em!

2007-03-21 10:47:54 · 7 answers · asked by pecan 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for almost 3 years and have a beautiful 4 month old daughter. One of his friends are getting married in June and wants to have his bachelor party in Vegas. We have no trust issues, but I'm hesitant to let him go and I don't know why. Would you let your husband???

2007-03-21 10:47:02 · 31 answers · asked by mom2ava 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my friends have been a bit bored lately so can you help us by naming 10 stupid and funny public thing we can do. The best 10 will be chosen as best answer....
Please join in and we'll try to do as many as we can!!!!

2007-03-21 10:46:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have these friends at school that are being complete witches to me! I need to find out how I can deal with them!! Help Please!!!!

2007-03-21 10:46:37 · 2 answers · asked by L 3 in Friends

im kinda worried coz im only about 5'7 an im not sure but i think ive stopped growin ( im 16 )
thanks

2007-03-21 10:46:36 · 6 answers · asked by blink_rulez_1990 2 in Singles & Dating

So I was going out w/a guy for 2 1/2 yrs. and things were good and bad. Ups and downs type of thing. Anywho, I broke it off completely and even started dating someone else because I'm not the type to do the on and off thing and he went and did his own thing cuz he needed space. Then he comes back and says that he can't live without me, blah blah blah and wants to get back. Well, I was dating someone so I didn't but things work out with the other guy and I started seeing my ex again. We've stayed on this "seeing" thing but I've told him that I wanna have a serious relationship (maybe not with him if it's not meant to be) but he tells me he's not ready for a serious relationship. After 2 1/2 yrs our parents still haven't met cuz he's not ready. He's 28 and I'm 23. So I stop calling him and stop seeing him and tell him I'm moving on and he calls me and tells me he misses me and wants to see and what not! What the hell is going on?! Can someone explain to me?

2007-03-21 10:46:11 · 7 answers · asked by batchick5 2 in Singles & Dating

please state if you have, how many times, and the age when you first did it

2007-03-21 10:46:09 · 30 answers · asked by surfing maniac 1 in Singles & Dating

I WOULD PREFER ANSWERS FROM MEN, I DONT MIND IF WOMEN ANSWER THOUGH.

2007-03-21 10:45:56 · 1 answers · asked by JudiM 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been on a serious diet now,comming up to 2 weeks.the first few days i started it i told my boyfriend i would have a take away as a treat at a weekend...first weekend we done it and i felt really **** after i nearly cried..i told him i decided i aint gong to have treats after all.today just now he mentioned a take away at weekend and i told him i didnt want to..i have lost 5kg already i dont intend to stop now!! lol, his reaction??....well he said im bang out of order had a right go at me started slamming doors ect saying i should have one!! i told him to calm down and he can but that obviously aint enough.he is "demanding" i have one.i been gettng alot of attention from men recently and i think (just thinking) he dont want me to be skinny! what do you think.he has hinted enough times he wants me fat so men dont like me but its a bit out of order him stressing like this dont you think???

2007-03-21 10:45:31 · 3 answers · asked by sammydeea 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Also, what have you done about your itch? This question is for both the men and the women.

2007-03-21 10:45:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok..i have been this guys girlfriend SINCE I WAS 5....[im 12]...but just a little while ago i got an e-mail from him saying "ITS OVER"....what should i do................................. [we've been bf/gf for bout 7 years just so ya no]

2007-03-21 10:44:58 · 14 answers · asked by I love when emo boys make out 2 in Singles & Dating

i like a boy but he said no but in a way that he was gonna say yes but he is so hot but wat should i do to make him attractid to me and he is coll but wat should i do

2007-03-21 10:42:26 · 12 answers · asked by nicole b 1 in Singles & Dating