We have been married for almost 3 years and have a beautiful 4 month old daughter. One of his friends are getting married in June and wants to have his bachelor party in Vegas. We have no trust issues, but I'm hesitant to let him go and I don't know why. Would you let your husband???
2007-03-21 10:47:02 · 31 answers · asked by mom2ava 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Someone asked if he would let me go to a bachelorette party in Vegas and he has already said No Way! This is why it's hard to let him go.
2007-03-21 11:00:04 · update #1
I will say it again There are NO trust issues!!! When we got married we BOTH agreed that we would not go to any overnight trips without each other. We did all the spring break crap in college. A bachelor party for the night no big deal. This is 3 days.
2007-03-21 13:33:40 · update #2
Honestly, I wouldn't want my husband to go. I have the same issues with my husband because he wants to go and leave me home with our daughter. I know that he needs he space and time to be by himself. As far as Las Vegas, that would be something we would have to sit down and have a serious conversation about. People do stupid things especially when they are in Vegas, but I am not saying that your husband would do it. If you truly trust your husband, let him go.
2007-03-21 10:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of Three 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Husband Going To Vegas
2017-01-19 04:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm ... not without you. You can have your mom help with the baby, and go with him. Of course you'll skip the actual party, but he's less likely to be tempted by the Vegas thing (what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas) if you're close by, or in the room when he eventually stumbles back to it. It could be a second honeymoon for you two. And if he says that no other wives/GF are coming, then say bummer for them. I'll bet you there are some going.
It's not that you don't trust him, it's just that you are protecting your marriage. Vegas is sooo known for encouraging bad behavior. It's like it's not only expected, it's like it's required. Let him be baaaaad with YOU!!
2007-03-21 10:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Dino 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 00:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficult question.
Would I let him go? I let my husband make his own decisions.
Would I WANT him to go? No....especially if I was home with our baby.
This is a situation where he needs to decide what is worthwhile and important in his life. He has a family, now.
Going to Vegas would surely be harmless....and he would get to party with his buddies for a couple of days. No harm, right?
For some reason; it does harm. Bachelor parties tend to harm many relationships.
I just remember being home with my children while my ex husband went on golf-ski-guy trips.
Never again.....
My current husband focuses on us as a team/family. I am thankful...and wish you the best.
2007-03-21 10:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by Kendra O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd let him go. Hell, I'd let my wife go if there was a bachelorette party there. Just because you go to Vegas does not mean there are wh0res everywhere. My guess is the worst he'll see are strippers, which can be seen in any city. I would tell him to watch his money, because you can lose your shirt gambling.
Edit: If you claim so vehemently that there are no trust issues, then WHY IS THIS A BIG DEAL TO YOU? So what if it is three days? Are you afraid to let him have time with his buddies? Geez, loosen the apron strings! If the trip was three days in New York City or Chicago, would this be a big deal? If you are worried about gambling, agree to an amount he can take with him. I don't think, though, this is about that.
2007-03-21 12:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Should I let my husband go to Vegas?
2014-12-18 16:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
UGH. Vegas is so dirty. But it depends on your relationship. If your husband is the type to be into strippers and getting drunk and making stupid decisions, then I wouldn't really be comfortable with it. Personally, I wouldnt go to Vegas without my husband cause it's just BUILT for hooking up and gettin crazy, and I know myself. He trusts me completely and wouldn't have any problem letting me go. But hopefully your husband knows himself and the boundaries you have set in your marriage. If he doesn't think he can respect the agreements you guys have made (no strippers, no dancing with other girls - WHATEVER IT IS) then he shouldnt go - and he should be honest with you about that.
P.S. The bride to be is stupid to let her man have his bachelor party in Vegas. Unless she is having her bachelorette there too.
2007-03-21 10:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him, then let him go. If he wants to be unfaithful he can do that right in town. He may come home much more appreciative of the life you two have together. Would he let you go to Vegas for a friend's batchelorette party? Think it over and do what you feel is right.
2007-03-21 10:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by curious74432 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You must have some sort of an issue or you would just say go. I wouldn't want my husband to go on vacation with out me, but that is me. Crazy things happen in Vegas, things you would never know!
2007-03-21 10:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋