I want her to leave immediately and not stay in my bed and cuddle. I mean....it's not a serious relationship just somebody I've went out with a few times. I know it's not something that the ladies would like to hear....but I need my own space in my bed but how do I explain that to her without hurting her feelings or sounding like a total jerk. It's nothing against her personally...but I cannot sleep properly with her on my bed. Any ideas Guys?
2007-03-21 10:51:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude, i had that problem with a woman that was over 20 yrs my senior.... she was gross but tolerable until i did my thang... then i had to kick her out afterwards...
.. funny thing is i ahd 2 incidents of this, then i gave up and decide to stick with chicks that i wouldnt throw out of bed.
2007-03-21 10:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by Pedro Sanchez 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Heck I have never had any problems with leaving and so I would not take it personal. BUT leaving immediately, come on now ain't that a bit harsh. How would you feel if a girl wanted you to leave 10 min. ago. That would tell you something, You are not good enough. Be on your way. Your day is coming when you want to be and stay with someone and she wants you to leave asap and then you will know what it means.
2007-03-21 17:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are asking the guys but as a girl I want to give you my opinion...are you being 100% honest with her...does she know what is going on? You don't cuddle with someone you are just fu(king...You do the act and leave...If I sleep with someone it is very clear what is going on and usually done at a motel or something (never at our own place)...so you went out with her a few times...does she know she is just a fu(k buddy to you? You're not gonna hurt her feelings if you are 100% honest with her exactly what is going on...otherwise you will be a jerk...
2007-03-21 17:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by poker_fan_in_nyc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't about sleep. This is about you being with a girl you care absolutely nothing about. Find one you want to spend the night with and cuddle with. Till then, no more intimacy!
2007-03-21 17:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kyle 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Im not a guy but watch that one episode of Seinfeld when Kramer has the same problem----hilarious!!
2007-03-21 18:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl...but my suggestion is to not be in your space...take her to her place, then it is you that needs to leave.
2007-03-21 17:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by AdoptiveMama 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sleep at her place .. then you leave after getting what you went for ..
2007-03-21 17:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by Beth1957 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just pay her, and she should leave
2007-03-21 17:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by lovesyourdiamond 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋