can someone help?

Question

i have been on a serious diet now,comming up to 2 weeks.the first few days i started it i told my boyfriend i would have a take away as a treat at a weekend...first weekend we done it and i felt really **** after i nearly cried..i told him i decided i aint gong to have treats after all.today just now he mentioned a take away at weekend and i told him i didnt want to..i have lost 5kg already i dont intend to stop now!! lol, his reaction??....well he said im bang out of order had a right go at me started slamming doors ect saying i should have one!! i told him to calm down and he can but that obviously aint enough.he is "demanding" i have one.i been gettng alot of attention from men recently and i think (just thinking) he dont want me to be skinny! what do you think.he has hinted enough times he wants me fat so men dont like me but its a bit out of order him stressing like this dont you think???

Answer 1

you have a right to want to lose weight, and he should respect your decision, he is the one who is insecure within himself and has some issues with attention you get from other men, he should know that no matter how much weight you lose that you are in a relationship with him and not those other guys and wouldn't do anything to harm the relationship, he is just insecure because other people are now noticing you and he feels threatened that he is no longer the only person who will be attracted to you....

Answer 2

He should respect your decision to loose weight and if he is so insecure about you getting "skinny" because other guys may want you then its his problem not yours..tell him to kick rocks

Answer 3

baby girl, he obviously feel threaten by your new look. like a little boy who throw tantrum. you have to assure him that you still with him no matter how your appearance has changed. let him feel comfortable.