Ok well I have this boyfriend that i love sooo much it ain't funny. well before i was going out with him i was going out with his distant cuzin, They are really good friends. I have been going out with my current boyfriend for almost a year but now my ex wants back with me. I want to go out with him but I love my current boy alt too. I would hate to break up their brotherlyness because of my stupidity but I don't kno what to do. If you have advice...I'm waiting--THANKS
2007-03-21 10:50:05 · 7 answers · asked by Boff Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really loved your boyfriend this wouldn't even be a problem. Rethink what you really mean when you say you love him cause if you're having second thoughts about other people it probably isn't love for your boyfriend. Goodluck anyways and don't break up their brotherlyness
2007-03-21 10:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ashley B, since you love your current boyfriend, then why risk offending him by going out with your ex? Seems to me that whatever you do, whether to stay or go with your ex, you're still bound to cause some stress in their brotherly relationship. So I would say stay with your current BF. In this kind of situation, you just can't have the cake and eat it too.
2007-03-21 17:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by Dowland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should take a big step back. Take out a piece of paper then write down a list of pros and cons base on both of the relationships. When you are done with that then go for the guy that you really care about.
2007-03-21 17:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by Frost D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking about your ex-boyfriend too, its probably because one of them has something of their's they have, that your current boyfriend doesnt. It might be something that you think is missing in your current relationship.Think it over. do you really love your current boyfriend right now? but for the right reasons? good luck girl ^^
2007-03-21 17:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by rawr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's tough, but, i say you should stay with your current boy friend, cause if you break up with him to go out with the other, there is a high possibility that you could rune two relationships. yours and his, and between the two boys.that subject could tear them apart and then you will end up loosing both guys....so just stay with the current one. besides if he does love you (the former) then he will not/ should not interfere with your current one.
i hope that made sense.
2007-03-21 18:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by emren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay with the one you have. If you do break up with him, do not go out with his cousin! That will cause problems between them and you & them.
2007-03-21 17:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by Breinn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with the one your with. not only will you cause family trouble by getting back with your ex, you will damage your reputation and maybe end up alone.
2007-03-21 17:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋