I finally got to talk to the guy I have a crush on and I had not spoken to him in a couple of months or 7 weeks. I spoke to him today, but it did not feel the same as it did before?
Whats wrong?
2007-03-21 10:28:28 · 18 answers · asked by Hello K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You haven't seen him in a while... maybe your interests have shifted else where... maybe you're bored with him now and are ready to move on.
2007-03-21 10:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem this year. I liked a boy for 3 whole years and he really didn't show any interest in me until this year, he asked me out n i said no. I would've said yes but i just didn't like him anymore i thought that all my feelings for him would come rushing back but they didn't, so i gave it a week n still nothing. Then i realized that i was over him. So u'r probably over u'r crush 2, if u didnt feel the same when u talked 2 him.
2007-03-21 10:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by jazzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The crush has probably faded. That's why it's a crush and not love. Maybe now you can get to know him better without being nervous talking to him.
2007-03-21 10:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called fantasy crashing into reality. He's just a guy, a plain old mortal human being, hardly different from any other guy on the street. Sorry, you were going to discover that sooner or later.
2007-03-21 10:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its probably of the lengthy distance you had have and because of this you arent really interested in him anymore. Mabey you found another guy that you would hand out with. Or it is just that instinct of your telling you to stay away from him!
2007-03-21 10:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by ~•PandaBearHug•~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the window closed, most people only have an ideal for a short time, where nothing happen, you mind moved on.
2007-03-21 10:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Thelma C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
Every girl does that.
I go through like 5 crushes a month.
They just eventually annoy you, or you are tired of waiting for them.
2007-03-21 10:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing is wrong with you. You just moved on. You obviously did not feel very strongly about him. The feeling has just faded away.
2007-03-21 10:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by gorgeous_kati 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actualy I never had a crush I am 11 years old and I don't have a crush and I really don't want one because all the boys in my class are weird and they are really annoying.
2007-03-21 10:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by ana maria T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you got over him. Luckilly you guys aren't going out. But maybe talk to him like he's a friend.
2007-03-21 10:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by wbrs93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋