Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

ok heres the deal.i know a guy from an old friend.this guy is now my close friend.me and him have become good friends overtime but we hardly see each other, which is weird.its like we're pen palls dat live in the same area. ive bumped in to him around 5times before but suddenly he asked me to meet him 1 day.i did and he handed over 2me a present worth £90 which i must have mentioned to him to buy me but as a joke and he knew that too.hes got a girlfriend which hes reeeeally serious with.hes told me all about her and even sent me pictures of her.I dont understand why hes spending so much on me.i dont like him in that way.he recently asked me if i wanted a real silver ring.i dont get it.hes even told me once that he likes me more than a friend and when i asked him what about his 'serious' realtionship he answered 'what has my relationshipt got to do with me givin a damn about my friends?' i dont get it.is it me or is it him.he calls me at late hours aswell.

2007-03-20 11:32:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean, is it a good or a bad thing? I like the girl but not sure if it's mutual.

2007-03-20 11:32:06 · 21 answers · asked by monkblues 1 in Singles & Dating

1.sex without love
2.love without sex

2007-03-20 11:31:54 · 14 answers · asked by lilsaumei002 1 in Singles & Dating

A little while ago I read an article about these balls that some people have where daughters pledge their virginity to their fathers. There is a ceremony and the daughter wears a ring that her father gives her. I find this a little strange. I don't think your father owns your virginity. What are your thoughts?

2007-03-20 11:31:52 · 6 answers · asked by meeko6811 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a very outgonig person. I do not consider myself scary outgoing and neither do my firends.
I'm gonig out with a guy whos rather shy but hes sweet shy. If its liek a bunch of us hanging out he will talk to my friends but not as much to me unless i start talknig to him. Which I dont mind becuase I dont want him to be obsessed with me but it really bothers me that hes that shy.
I have talked to his friends and they say hes just dosnt like screwing up and is really nervous that he will. They tell me not to be concered because he realy likes me but it still bothers me.
I do nto know how to talk to him about it becuase I really like him and dont want him to think I'm mad at him. Also if hes naturally shy (which he is how do I get use ot it)

2007-03-20 11:31:09 · 10 answers · asked by Micro spice 3 in Singles & Dating

he talks to me all the time about breaking up with her, but he hasnt yet.

2007-03-20 11:31:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey, my ex dumped me like more than 3 months ago, he met someoneelse and he decided that he liked that girl more(but he said that he wouldn´t be her bf ´cause he wasn´t ready), he said we had to talk in person (he dumped me by phone) and he never called again so we could meet and talked about what happened. Like a month ago (after not hearing from him in a long time) he sent me a forward in this forward he wrote that he had a new gf and that she´s the first thing that he thinks about every morning, I was so angry at him that I blocked him from my contact list so he woudln´t IM me, then thought about it and decided not to block him, I saw him online a week ago and all he talked about was law (we´re studying to be lawyers), he said that we could study together, and after saying bye he said we could meet next week to keep studying. what´s wrong with this guy?

2007-03-20 11:31:03 · 9 answers · asked by smiley_girl 2 in Singles & Dating

if you were to decide between the two types of guys which one would you pick???

2007-03-20 11:30:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How would it make you feel if an old girlfriend contacted you after 20 or 30 years? Not to be romantic but just to say hello and see how you are doing. Would it upset you or would you be glad to hear from them?

2007-03-20 11:29:32 · 7 answers · asked by curious 5 in Friends

How often do people get pregnant/disease because of it?

2007-03-20 11:29:20 · 18 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Singles & Dating

We've been together awhile; around a year. She does little things that kind of bother me. She won't write on my wall for face book even if i write on hers because "she doesnt know what to say" or "I can just call you" ...but she doesnt call. Yet she writes back to guys who send her pointless msgs. On msn we barly talk because it takes her forever to answer. Whenever i try to talk to her about something she says we'll talk later, and everythings always on her schedual..and then she asks why i get mad=S. She won't let me write on her hand unless its small but another guy wrote ALL over her hand. I always do nice things for her like write her a letter or send her an email...but she never returns the gesture. I know she would NEVER EVER cheat on me so don't bring that up, and she says its because she doesnt think about this stuff and that she shows her love when were alone.

2007-03-20 11:29:20 · 12 answers · asked by Hurt 1 in Singles & Dating

To me, the most important quality in a SO (significant other) is that they do not cheat. Well, let's say your SO is a reasonably attractive person, who has never cheated, and will probably never cheat. But, that person does not share life goals with you (like, you want to marry, and the other person doesn't believe in marriage). Should you stay together? In my experience, people who are truly faithful are very rare indeed. What do you think?

2007-03-20 11:28:58 · 2 answers · asked by bonnechancepetitchat 3 in Singles & Dating

that sometimes intelligence is a curse
and sometimes physical beauty is a curse

i've seen so many intelligent people think too much, causing them to become depressed and sometimes self-destruct
and i know a girl who is as pretty as a model but a lot of people don't see pass that

2007-03-20 11:28:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just meet this guy and hes really cute and nice . idk if i like him though i cant tell. oh yea and im not totally over my ex btw. anyway i dont get butterflies around him and i mean i just dont act obsessive around him i actually feel just really comforatable around him even though i just meet him. we talked on the phone and got along really well i mean i didnt feel anything but it was nice you know. but i would sometimes think of my ex 1 or 2 times when talking to him. however i heard he may ask me out like should i say yes and do you think it will bloom into me liking him alot or what ?? and do you think it will help me fully get over my ex. i mean i dont want that to be the purpose of dating this new guy but any way give me your opinion thankyou :]

2007-03-20 11:27:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was blessed to have a close childhood friend whose a professional cake decorator who did our cake. It served 200 people, 3 square tiers, raspberry filling and white chocolate buttercream icing. It had a row of lilies and orchids cascading down and around from the top to bottom. I remember there were lots of details like small silver beads (edible), swirls, swags in the icing. How much would I have paid for something like this?

2007-03-20 11:27:34 · 16 answers · asked by Suz E. Home BAKER 6 in Weddings

2007-03-20 11:27:26 · 21 answers · asked by cled29 1 in Singles & Dating

but when the time comes they back out and ground u?!?!?

this is a question 4 my friend.................

2007-03-20 11:27:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my uncle is in a bad relationship. he is a union electrician so he makes pretty good money. he is with a str8 gold digger. she has cheated on him and her two kids(not his) are very disrespectful to him. he pays all her bills and does any and everything for her and her kids. he doesn't have kids of his own. they are supposed to get married next month. the whole family knows its a bad idea but no one wants to say anything. he is very misereable and really doesn't want to be with her, but we just found out she has been putting afrodisiacs in his food and maybe thats why he cant leave. HELP SHOULD I LET HIM KNOW THIS IS A BAD RELATIONSHIP AND GET OUT QUICK? OR SHOULD I LET HIM MAKE HIS OWN CHOICES??????????????

2007-03-20 11:26:52 · 17 answers · asked by cluelessly_n_love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this friend and she is just such a LOSER i mean she thinks shes a dinasour sometimes and i love her to death but its embarrassing sometimes and i never want to take her in public but its hard because i don't want to be mean to her....what should i do?

2007-03-20 11:26:38 · 14 answers · asked by Leannedrufy 2 in Friends

Say someone ask a question like "Does he like me?"And all the details are pretty obvious that the person likes them, do you tell them things like, "No, he just being nice".

2007-03-20 11:26:33 · 7 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6 in Singles & Dating

My ex has been charge for having sex with a 13 years old girl.
But he think it ok to sleep with any girl that is still a teenager that are under 20 . The last girl he been with is 16 .
I report him to the police and it fell on deaf ears he got a profile on myspace where he is picking up these girls.
Now the sick thing he tell his son that if a girl who is 13 or whatever goes and sluty herself in front of him he will go and sleep with them.

2007-03-20 11:26:00 · 1 answers · asked by MOONBEAM7699 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it bad that my husband and I both want to have our own bedroom. I mean we love eachother but we both like our comfort while we sleep and we both want to watch our own channel on tv as we fall asleep...plus his snoring keeps me awake. Is it so bad? Do other couples here sleep in separate bedrooms?

2007-03-20 11:25:34 · 27 answers · asked by Melina A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this person and they are a diffrent race than me and im not shure if it would be ok to go out with this person
Thanks for the input

2007-03-20 11:25:33 · 47 answers · asked by TheWeakLink 2 in Singles & Dating