I am a very outgonig person. I do not consider myself scary outgoing and neither do my firends.
I'm gonig out with a guy whos rather shy but hes sweet shy. If its liek a bunch of us hanging out he will talk to my friends but not as much to me unless i start talknig to him. Which I dont mind becuase I dont want him to be obsessed with me but it really bothers me that hes that shy.
I have talked to his friends and they say hes just dosnt like screwing up and is really nervous that he will. They tell me not to be concered because he realy likes me but it still bothers me.
I do nto know how to talk to him about it becuase I really like him and dont want him to think I'm mad at him. Also if hes naturally shy (which he is how do I get use ot it)
2007-03-20 11:31:09 · 10 answers · asked by Micro spice 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its about time for you to talk with him...You had anpother question about him as well.You need to talk about it on the phone so it is less awkward.Just say that you were wondering why you guys dont talk much...and tell him your concerns.He is your boyfriend isnt he? you should be able to tell him everything right? Dont break up with him yet.Unless thins goes on for a while.If this continues to go on then maybe he is just an all-around shy kid.You need to accept this and realize that maybe you arent right for him and he isnt right for you.An outgoing and a shy person may just not match!
2007-03-21 10:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well maybe you should talk to you bf. Communication is the key in a relationship. Tell him that it is okay for him to talk a little more in your relationship. Actually tell him he can be a little more open w/you. Also tell him how you feel about him and he wouldn't screw things up.
2007-03-20 18:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by DANCER_CHiCK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to think about it much. think about how he makes you happy. and if he is naturally shy then maybe he isnt used to the surroundings so he might take a while to get used to everything
2007-03-20 18:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Pleasure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph have no ideal and sorry to hear your current situaion but he kind of sounds like me being honest
2007-03-20 18:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd go on the date and then decide
but it doesn't sound to hopeful if you're already bothered by his shyness now
2007-03-20 18:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by biggiesmartypants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe has not been with to many girls.go slow.it could be natural. i was the same way for awhile.tell him how you feel.when he talks to you, listen.find somthing to talk about.just to get him to talk to you.
2007-03-20 18:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will get over his shyness as he gets to know you better.
2007-03-20 18:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out his interests, and ask about that! like if he likes a band or something.
2007-03-20 18:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by Pedro Sanchez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's worming up to u i'm that away but when i get comfterball then i got loud
2007-03-20 18:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by mathew l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you using deodorant
2007-03-20 18:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by defy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋