Hey, my ex dumped me like more than 3 months ago, he met someoneelse and he decided that he liked that girl more(but he said that he wouldn´t be her bf ´cause he wasn´t ready), he said we had to talk in person (he dumped me by phone) and he never called again so we could meet and talked about what happened. Like a month ago (after not hearing from him in a long time) he sent me a forward in this forward he wrote that he had a new gf and that she´s the first thing that he thinks about every morning, I was so angry at him that I blocked him from my contact list so he woudln´t IM me, then thought about it and decided not to block him, I saw him online a week ago and all he talked about was law (we´re studying to be lawyers), he said that we could study together, and after saying bye he said we could meet next week to keep studying. what´s wrong with this guy?
2007-03-20 11:31:03 · 9 answers · asked by smiley_girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not whats wrong with him but whats wrong with you? You deserve better than to be broken up with over the phone . . . so he has a new gf which sounds like he likes a lot and you still unblocked him and talked to him . . . I say stay away . . . you never got closure as so when you see him again all these feelings are going to come back . . . . value yourself!
2007-03-20 11:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by sparkle_612 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just doesn't like you romantically. Although his little e-mail stunt was rude, it's still your choice to study with him or not. My advise, especially if you'de like to get some studying done - choose a more neutral partner so you can actually learn the material your studying. If you really want to get even, send him a grainy cell-phone pic of you and another guy kissing.
2007-03-20 18:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by ninjitsumeiyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention whether he said that he was still with that girl he left you for. If he is still with that girl, and wants to study with you, maybe he knows that you could really help him with school, and wants to be platonic with you. However, if he is not with the girl, and he is trying to get back with you, than I wouldn't give him the time of day. You are not just some girl that can be picked up and dropped off when ever it is convenient for him.
2007-03-20 18:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by src8784 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want you, but he wants to know what you're up to.. hence the "studying" together... tell him you already have a study partner.. and stay away from him, he sounds like a real jacka** !!! anyone who would throw their new relationship in your face by saying "she's the first thing he thinks about" is rude, and unneeded... but be the bigger person, and keep your chin up !
2007-03-20 18:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by Miss B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like the guy honestly likes his new girlfriend. im sorry to say that, but that is the impression im getting here. if he just wants to study with you, i think that he figures that after 3 months of being apart and him moving on that you guys are just friends. and maby can study as friends. but dont wait for him and keep part of you waiting, because it will then just lead to your heart being hurt by him and getting jealous. if you cannot be with him just yet as friends i advise not studying with him. and really if you want more closer on the situation just ask him what he wants. its better to be straightforward and end the wondering, it feels so much better.
2007-03-20 18:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by pinkgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I know of a girl who had her bf break up with her, then become friends with her saying he couldn't hook up with any one else for now, 2 weeks later he was hooking up with a bimbo RIGHT IN FRONT OF HER, and he can't understand why she was angry at him? Why bother with him?? Study with someone else and tell him to buzz off!!As to what's wrong - he wants to have his pie and eat it too! Tell him to get a life -and you do the same. You don't need his crap!
2007-03-20 19:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has moved on as far as your bf gf relationship. Don't expect him to change his mind if you decide to study together.
He has moved on. Read what you wrote as if a friend had written it - what do you think?
2007-03-20 18:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha, guys like to keep many hands in the pot so to speak...
.... he's setting up his harem... u know what to do.
2007-03-20 18:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by Pedro Sanchez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with him? He's a coward.
2007-03-20 18:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋