i like this person and they are a diffrent race than me and im not shure if it would be ok to go out with this person
Thanks for the input
2007-03-20 11:25:33 · 47 answers · asked by TheWeakLink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is perfectly ok..unless you are racist.
2007-03-27 00:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's present a scenario. Let's say the two of you were walking down the street and someone came up and put a bullet in both of your heads killing you instantly. How different would you be from the other person? Not different at all because both of you would be dead. You started your question out by saying I like this person, not I like this race. You are a person first and foremost. The world would be a much better place once people understand that.
2007-03-27 19:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by Solomon Grundy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be wrong? Just because the person is of a different color or race it does not make the person any different from one of your own race. I say go for it and if anyone tells you something then don't listen to them because you are the one in the relationship not them and if that person makes you happy then who cares what other people say and think.
2007-03-28 11:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't it be okay? It doesn't mater what race a person is. You're a human being and so is she so what does it matter? Go for it. After you get married or whatever you should get some spelling lessons. 'Shure' is actually spelled sure. But seriously, go for it. Nothing is wrong with that!!!
2007-03-20 11:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Bob 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dating a person of a different race doesn't matter, do what your heart feels is right, and don't worry about what other people think. Your heart is the only thing that will let you know whether its right for you, or wrong for you. The heart doesn't lie or judge.
2007-03-28 09:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by BLONDIE67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong at all, color is only skin deep. If someone makes you happy and you enjoy being with them/around them, then why would it matter to you what race they are. Are you worried about what other people or family may say about it? Well, here are some words of wisdom, you can't live your life by trying to satisfy the wants and desires of other people. They don't have to live with your decisions, you do. If you like someone and feel like you should pursue a relationship with them, then by all means...give it a shot, because just as soon as you pass up the opportunity, you will spend the rest of your life wondering..."what if"?
2007-03-20 11:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Ed 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I went through the answers of others..they are mostly women....they are curious about some stereotypes and/or their parents have forbid it. I have no problem with interracial relationships BUT you are setting yourself up for a hard life of ridicule, hate and prejudice,.
The only way everybody will get along tougher is if everbody interbreed..then after, maybe 1000 years, we will all look the same.
2007-03-28 10:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to date any race you want! Just be prepared for the jerks of the world to give you a hard time.
Race doesn't mean goat right?
2007-03-28 09:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by xmanconti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its perfectly fine to go out with people from another race. My parents are both separate races, my mom being white and my dad being black. If it weren't ok for people to date a different race, then i wouldn't be here. The only time you may have a problem with dating someone of a different race is if by culture or religion that the person is not able to be with someone outside of their race. if neither of u have that problem, then its all good. Go for it buddy =)
2007-03-20 11:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't let your family, friends, or the rest of the world tell you it's wrong because it's not. Liking someone has nothing to do with the color of their skin. It is about the kind of person they are and the kind of person you are, what kind of person are you attracted to and if this person meets those standards, then go for it. Good luck
2007-03-28 09:12:36 · answer #10 · answered by spicy_salsa69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they human? From another planet? What is wrong with you? If you really care for this person, it should not matterif they are purple with pink spots. I guess if they lost an arm or leg you would look at them differently. Do not act like a bigot
2007-03-28 07:11:09 · answer #11 · answered by franksr57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋