Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

ok so i like Alex, im in 8th grade hes in 7... so i thin he likes me, we talk alot and he seems interested, without actuaallly telling him how do i let him know i like him? and should grade/age matter in 14 hes 12... please let me know ASAP
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2007-03-20 15:07:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been an electronic eng. for 20+ years. With almost all the manufacturing jobs going to China the number of jobs for EEs got smaller and smaller. I asked my wife(at the time) to go out and get a job. She had gotten use to living on my high salary and staying at home with the kids. Instead she borrowed money money from her well to do Uncle at a rate to match my old salary.
Parents and spouses are suppose to make sacrifices for the good of the family not to be selfish. I know that I always made plenty. Then came the better than you attitude from a person who wouldn't support her family.
I had enough and left. I found a job that pays half of what I use to make. I have asked her a number of times to curb her spending when it comes to the kids as I have to pay her 1/2 of all extra curricular activity and sports costs. Since she gets her Uncle to pay for everything she doesn't care and spends money faster than I can make it.
So my question to you women is why are you so vindictive

2007-03-20 15:07:19 · 17 answers · asked by quincyurt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend of 5 years last night decided we needed a break. I am an active person in my church and have a strong faith. Just recently she started going to another church that is somewhat fanatical (and you know what i mean). She went on a trip with some girls from her small group and they asked about me. They asked if I was on the same level religously as she is. She said no. Then the girl proceded to tell her that God told her to leave me because she cant give God her whole heart if i have a big peice of it. We have always been in church, its just recently she has changed drastically. She told me last night that we are unequally yoked and she needs time to further her relationship with God. Doesnt unequally yoked mean a believer with a non-believer? It doesnt add up.I also want to add that every girl in her small group does not have a boyfriend. Her mother and sister think she is taking things way too far.What do i do at this point.Is it a phase?Whats goin on?

2007-03-20 15:07:16 · 7 answers · asked by markspark 1 in Singles & Dating

my little sister ana has been hanging out with this boy named brian for a couple of weeks. he has come over and i have seen the way he acts around her. he is flirty and touchy and yeah--. im worried because i think she really likes him and i think he might not like her. i know that she isnt very "experienced" and i hear that he is. even though she is in 8th grade and he is in 7th, i am still worried. she asked me for advice and i didnt know what to tell her! what should i say?

2007-03-20 15:06:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 15:06:46 · 6 answers · asked by THKE 1 in Singles & Dating

If youre parents keep trying to controll your life what is up with that and why cant they cut the cord? not to sound ungrateful but I keep in touch but they want the 411 of my daily schedule what to do?

2007-03-20 15:06:45 · 4 answers · asked by lizziemoffles 4 in Family

When ive been to Vegas and Frisco they love the London accent,but is that it,just the accent.

2007-03-20 15:06:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 15:06:26 · 10 answers · asked by Mere Mortal 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-20 15:06:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i left my wife of 8yrs and 2 kids for another woman but i still kept cheating on this other woman. i would als be violent towards her because she would ask where i had been and with who. my excuse would be that i have left my kids and wife also my financial things behind for her and that she should allow me to do what i want.. she would leave me and we would make up again and again.. 18 months ago she left me and i moved on.. i got married again and now that same woman is having an affair with me and i cant understand if i was cheating on her and violent towards her, then why does she want me back?if i leave now then i lose this home too and all my money. what shall i do? why does this woman want me back? i dont understand? please help. my new wife i have never touched and i would never touch her as she never winds me up.

2007-03-20 15:06:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I haven't seen this guy in over a week. Usually I see him once a week, but when he didn't show up for class I got really depressed. I always get a hug from him to sort of re-energize myself for the week. I'm not as happy as I usually am. My heart sort of feels like a black hole, no emotions stay there. Does this mean I like him?

2007-03-20 15:05:55 · 6 answers · asked by sailpluto3 1 in Singles & Dating

He had just moved into his new house and called me. He asked me if I would call him back in 30 min to tell him goodnight. I said "yes." "Do you promise?" he said. "Yes" I said "I will talk to you in 30 min." I called him back 30 min later and he didn't answer or call back to see if I called. Why would he insist that I call him and then not answer? Is he trying to turn the tables on me?

2007-03-20 15:04:29 · 10 answers · asked by Cas 4 in Singles & Dating

I am having financial difficulty right now; im low on money and i have been searching for a job since the end of november and still havent found one. I made a comment jokingly to my bf about him moving in with me and he said he could and didnt mind doing it since it would be helping me. We wouldnt be sleeping in the same room or anything since i have a 2 bedroom town house, and it would help me out a lot....should i let him move in with me???

2007-03-20 15:04:16 · 5 answers · asked by pasofinosweety 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do women think if they have a guy child that he gonna be with them and it will change him, but in the end it don't change anything.


This never happen to be but I know it happen to some other people that I know.

2007-03-20 15:03:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-20 15:03:25 · 3 answers · asked by Janst 4 in Friends

Ive just come home from this really lovely date with this Stunning woman brains, beauty, body and a gorgeous personalitiy, Im a little shy so I was not quite 100% me about 90% but we went for dinner I booked and I payed then I suggested a movie and she said ok but she paid even though my money was out, she just said she wanted to pay (felt she had to) so ok
after the movie - (factory girl) I gave her the rose I bought her just as a gift and she smiled and laughed and we snogged for a little bit, I drove her home and as I pulled up at where she lives she said thanks and we will do this again sometime and we snogged again and off she went but I was a little unsure and said I text you first or you me and she said If I hear from you first ok but then "lets just see what happens"

I think I earned another date we met funnly (see previous question) we just talked all the time about anything and everything and it was nice but in general does "lets just see what happens" mean no 2nd date?

2007-03-20 15:02:18 · 19 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Singles & Dating

I read some of her e-mails and they were pretty bad. I think she might go and make the biggest mistake of her life: loose her virginity. I really care for her and I do not want her to make the wrong desion. HELP ME!!! what can i do to help her. without letting her know i was reading her e-mails.

2007-03-20 15:02:16 · 11 answers · asked by Nameless 2 in Singles & Dating

When my girlfriend has her period she is upset... is there anything i can do to help her??

2007-03-20 15:02:00 · 16 answers · asked by David ~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 15:01:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have seen Italian girls its not the same,they are not as sassy.

2007-03-20 15:00:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to beat the crap out of the guy that double booked our wedding and reception at my fiancee's dream location? This news came to us only 6 months before our wedding and we already have our invitations printed out and dates set with our Dj, Flower person, Photographer, Singer, Cake people! Just thought I'd ask.....

2007-03-20 15:00:52 · 16 answers · asked by meh8036 2 in Weddings

with waht else he is doing that I dont know about?

2007-03-20 15:00:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I knew this boy for 7 years and him, my brother, and I have always been friends and we're all the same age. I was ready to start flirting with him today because I really like him and when me and my brother were hanging out on my padeo he comes over saying "Hey, I have a girlfriend!" And now I'm so depressed and mad. Grrrrrr....

What should I do? If I flirt with him he wont take it seriously cause he has a girlfriend. I'm so mad. What could I do to change his mind!!??

2007-03-20 15:00:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hmmm... after achieving the long-term goal of my life, that is being a certified public accountant, now i am working as an auditor but i am confused coz i do not know wer to go now... wats next?

2007-03-20 15:00:06 · 5 answers · asked by ceejay 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so this guy keeps calling me at work and telling me he loves me its been 2 weeks he calls only when im there he says he knows when im there and when im not i told him im gonna call the police if he dont stop but he wont he keeps telling me that he loves me and asks me private questions like if im a virgin and stuff he said he thinks im really hot
WHAT SHOULD I DO?!!

2007-03-20 14:59:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why would a guy not want to be exclusive after going out with a girl for 6 months....we like each other a lot. He doesn't refer to me as a "girlfriend" but says "I'm more than a girl and a friend".....What does that mean? He says he wants to take it slow and see if we can get to know each other better and determine if we could have a longer term relationship. Says I am the best candidate for that so far. I know he is signed up on several dating sites. I want to be exclusive...he does not.
How long does it take a guy to make up his mind??
What the heck is going on with this guy?

2007-03-20 14:58:54 · 16 answers · asked by Patricia 4 in Singles & Dating

I sat beside the guy I like in class today. We spoke once before and he seemed interested in me, talking to be past his friend who was sitting in between us and acting very friendly. Anyway, we exchanged a few pleasantries and said nothing to one another for the rest of the class. He seemed very fridgetly, as was I and I thought I caught him looking at me through the corner of his eye. I know it's, of course, partially my fault for not talking to him again (too nervous, I'm not usually shy at all around guys even if I like them) but what does this all mean? What should I do at next week's class?

2007-03-20 14:57:55 · 5 answers · asked by Cybele 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay...I have this friend that I have supposedly been friends with for like three years. Lately though we haven't seen eachother in like a year now because we have been so busy and stuff. I just don't know if maybe we are to busy to hang out or what. With work, and people, and all sorts of distractions it seems hard for us to connect and talk. I miss her, but I am trying to figure out if we should continue are friendship..she seems to be more distant from me, and like she thinks that I am making up excuses for us not to get together. I tried telling her that I have so much to do, but she just gets silent and acts like I am just making something up.......anyways.....should we continue being friends or our lives just too busy and changed to hang out anymore?

thank you!

2007-03-20 14:57:47 · 5 answers · asked by Daughter of a Coma Guy 7 in Friends

My friend works for a small company and her boss/owner of the company has been cheating her of her overtime hours well really he doesnt even pay her overtime and he owes her more then 20 hours of overtime since last month! Who can she talk to about the situation at hand! Also she recently resigned and now he doesnt want to give her 2 weeks pay what can she do about this guy! I know this is the wrong place to post this sort of question but where i posted it earlier i only got 2 answers. All answer would really help!! Thanks

2007-03-20 14:57:35 · 2 answers · asked by Moms Pretty little Princess 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've heard about this but not sure if it's true...like does she have to not know how to kiss? because i thought all guys like it when girls can kiss good - not necessarily agressive but they just know how to deliver...

2007-03-20 14:57:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating