If youre parents keep trying to controll your life what is up with that and why cant they cut the cord? not to sound ungrateful but I keep in touch but they want the 411 of my daily schedule what to do?
2007-03-20 15:06:45 · 4 answers · asked by lizziemoffles 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
To make yours and their lives easier do what they say. They are just trying to protect you, and make sure your safe.
2007-03-20 15:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by Desert Punk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... it does sound as if they are over exagerating... but maybe they love you that much that they are afraid to let you go... to let you do things on your own... and no, it's not being ungrateful.. I know it can get you a bit frustrated.. but try to understand them a little... as hard as it can be.. but you gotta keep in mind that you only have parents once... and when they're gone... they're gone... and once they're gone... i know you'll rather have them bugging you about your daily stuff then see them feet underground... (let's hope that don't happen)
...I'm 21 and I have realized how much I love my parents... and instead of them bugging me.. i'm bugging them all the time.. making sure they are allright...
cause i'm afraid to wake up one day and not have them...
so think about it for a little :)
...i'm sure you rather have them sticking around bugging you for a bit lol as much as they can annoy you... they love you.. and i'm sure you love them as well
luck.
2007-03-20 22:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzeth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My answer would depend on a number of factors. But, if you're still living under their roof, then you should live by their rules. If, however, you're older, out on your own, doing well for yourself (self sustaining), have your own family, etc, then certainly keep close with your family but draw a line an tell them your expectations.
2007-03-20 22:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by pleaserallday 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh.... one day you will be a parent and you will understand all about it.
2007-03-20 23:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by butterflies_are_free_03 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋