with waht else he is doing that I dont know about?
2007-03-20 15:00:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well... let's see... It all depends on what websites your husband is in.... if it's porn stuff... let him be,.. he is a man... I don't even have a boyfriend and I know that men should be able to see those stuff... for us it might seem negative... but that is NOT cheating....
Now... if he is on myspace.. or online dating websites... you should be concerned... I know that many people go and meet and have a one night thing... and it's not to worry you... maybe your husband doesn't even visit those sites... but yes,.. you should be careful for your health... cause let's say he does go on with some random girl... and he don't use protection... and then you both have sexual relationships... he don't know what the other person might of had... STD's etc.
It is NOT TO SCARE YOU! ...but try to see if you can find out what websites he is on...
don't make it seem like you are being paranoid...
If he is looking at porn... trust me,.. it's better than online dates...!!
good luck... and try not to destroy what you two have... talk it out if he is actually doing something wrong...
luck.
2007-03-20 15:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lizzeth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends what kinds of things. If you mean looking at porn sites, no. All men do. Some more than others. If he is meeting women on line or having cyber sex, he is cheating on you emotionally and mentally and yes, you should be concerned. Many men use the internet to have masturabatory affairs thinking it's not cheating because it's not done in person but the bottom line is they are using another human being-which says there is something askew with their character. If he is e-mailing women and you did not know about it, it's time for a talk. Best of luck.
2007-03-20 22:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Wildfire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You never do say exactly what your husband is doing on the internet. This leaves a lot to be interpreted by me.
If he's doing something illegal, then yes, you should be concerned about what else he's doing behind your back. People who lead two lives seldom connect either one of them.
2007-03-20 22:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would help if we knew what he was doing on the Internet, since you didn't say.. I will think he was watching porn on the Internet. Hey, nothing wrong with porn, its when they are having cyber sex, getting women's phone numbers and having phone sex, seeing their cams when they are nude.
I'm not saying that IS what he is doing, just saying what he could be doing. The internet can be a nasty nasty thing!
2007-03-20 22:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kinds of things? If he's looking at porn on-line, or talking with other women looking for sex, or flirting with them on-line, then yes you should be worried, because if that's what he's doing he's basically saying that your not good enough for him. That he needs to look for someone or something else.
2007-03-20 22:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be concerned because depending on what he's doing, it could become a habit, so talk to him about. It might come between your marriage if the problem gets too big.
2007-03-20 22:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by st_gurl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is a man so I think I have an idea of what he is doing. Is he keeping a secret from you? If so then it should be a problem. If he is telling you everything and being honest boys will be boys ( men will be men)!!!!!
2007-03-20 22:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is he doing on the internet, u should b concerned if they r illegal, if he is cheatin on u, or if it makes him a prevert haha
try giving more info if u want a serious answer to ur question
2007-03-20 22:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what is he doing????
after all now that you know you can keep an eye on him
well you ask him what else is he doing that you dont know about - simple mathematics
2007-03-20 22:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by boonoora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my husband did to i confronted him and told him how disgusted i was and ashamed and hurt by it! I asked him to tell me everything that had happened and he was really sorry we prayed about it and we are going to go to counseling i forgave him but i told him it didn't mean it was OK what he did to me! he agreed!
2007-03-20 22:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋