i left my wife of 8yrs and 2 kids for another woman but i still kept cheating on this other woman. i would als be violent towards her because she would ask where i had been and with who. my excuse would be that i have left my kids and wife also my financial things behind for her and that she should allow me to do what i want.. she would leave me and we would make up again and again.. 18 months ago she left me and i moved on.. i got married again and now that same woman is having an affair with me and i cant understand if i was cheating on her and violent towards her, then why does she want me back?if i leave now then i lose this home too and all my money. what shall i do? why does this woman want me back? i dont understand? please help. my new wife i have never touched and i would never touch her as she never winds me up.
2007-03-20 15:06:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this sounds very strange. I should not move from one woman to the next then back again. I should apologise to her then do her a favour and leave her alone. You are married - surely you want to be married still?!
Also get some counselling for your anger, I do not agree with the first answer. The ONLY thing we can do anything about is our own actions.
2007-03-20 15:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its probably a case of the grass is always greener.Now ur not with this woman she seems interesting again.There must of been strong feelings 4 u 2 leave ur wife originaly but then u found it was a bad relationship & moved on.Ur with sum1 now who u seem 2 b making it work with,dont mess this 1 up aswell by making old mistakes again & having an affair.Mayb the attraction is forbidden fruit & if u werent with sum1 u wouldnt b interested.U lost interest b4 once u were free 2 hav her.Sort urself out & b faithful 2 ur marriage otherwise ur headed 4 the same mistakes again.It didnt work b4 so its unlikely 2 work now 4 the same reasons.If it was going 2 work it would of after u left ur 1st wife.Take ur brains out of ur trousers & start thinking with ur head.
2007-03-20 15:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Poppypunto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah ok, I only read to where you left your wife and kids for this other woman, I'm pretty sure that's your problem. Selfishness you should just stay by yourself, don't hurt anyone else.
2007-03-20 15:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking that question is a good start. You're mature enough to know what's right from wrong. Try to become a responsible person, pretty soon you'll be fine. Good luck.
2007-03-20 15:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by botanreyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you are aware there is a problem and asking questions and that is the start to recovery.
Onlyyou can provide the answers ultimately!
2007-03-20 16:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know WHAT is wrong with you but obviously it's A LOT of things!
Try to get help ASAP before you continue causing pain and trouble to those who get near to you.
2007-03-24 14:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a pity that your brain pattern is of the type that does things like that. We can't do a lot about our own actions, but we can try.
2007-03-20 15:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by R.E.M.E. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
men like you give the decent men a bad name!...pity on you!
2007-03-22 01:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋