When my girlfriend has her period she is upset... is there anything i can do to help her??
2007-03-20 15:02:00 · 16 answers · asked by David ~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be there.
2007-03-20 15:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by The Animal Psychiatrist♬♪ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I suggest staying out of her way unless she's crying. Then maybe you ought to cuddle her. Do something sweet for her, like take her out to dinner and go for a walk afterwards. Food will help keep her energy up and exercise can help with cramping. If she's in a hostile mood, just stay away.
2007-03-20 22:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything, ask her where it's hurting and where she feels the worst. You can do the most good by either getting her some aspirin for pain, getting her a heating pad for a bloated tummy or just leaving her alone if this is what SHE WISHES.
2007-03-20 22:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...just be there for her..rub her tummy for her...try not to take offence if she takes some of her emotions out on you...but..for the most part...girls will be upset and overemotional while they're on their period and there's just not much you can do about it..
2007-03-20 22:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jaden's Mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give her space and understand that it is just hormones so dont take anything personally and dont try and pick a fight during this time it would not be good
I think it is great that u care about helping her out..u seem very nice
2007-03-20 22:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
bring her chocolate or something sweet like a tub of Ben & Jerrys...
dont try 2 understand, just be there for her and be nice to her a lot. but not sickeningly sweet (it'll get on her nerves)
2007-03-20 22:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by ♥sunkissed♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have alot of good tips here. i just wanted to add "agree with everything she says" yes, alot of mm hmm, yes, isee. okay. i understand. even if you don't, just save it to discuss later..
but don't let yourself be abused, either. if she is really rude and dispespectful, you could always say "sweetheart, i understand you aren't feeling well, and i'm trying to be here for you as much as i can, but you really hurt my feelings (NOT "pissed me off") when you said/did xyz...
2007-03-20 22:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by snapper 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone so u wont do anything stupid and make her even more upset...it only lasts a week
2007-03-20 22:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be there to comfort and console her, buy chocolate and just if she want's space give it to her, but at the same time let her know that your around if she want's to talk.....
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stacy
2007-03-20 22:07:35 · answer #9 · answered by Stacy ` B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha..
-Try not to be too rude to her
-Don't you dare say "You're only mad cause you're PMSing" (that pisses us off)
-Try rubbing her stomach or buying her chocolate!
-Just be nice and understanding
Good luck, pal! That's a toughie!
2007-03-20 22:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
EEK i feel bad for her! maybe you should just tell her u will be there for her and she'll be ok
2007-03-20 22:09:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋