I am having financial difficulty right now; im low on money and i have been searching for a job since the end of november and still havent found one. I made a comment jokingly to my bf about him moving in with me and he said he could and didnt mind doing it since it would be helping me. We wouldnt be sleeping in the same room or anything since i have a 2 bedroom town house, and it would help me out a lot....should i let him move in with me???
2007-03-20 15:04:16 · 5 answers · asked by pasofinosweety 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that depends on how commited a relationship you guys are in. if you guys are in a close relationship, then sure. Let him move in.
2007-03-20 15:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by st_gurl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever lived with one of your boyfriends before?
If not, you really get to know the guy when you two are living together. You'll most likely find lots of small things about him that piss you off like crazy! For example, my ex that used to live with me never put the seat down, always moved things around my room, and never put things back where they go!
It sounds like you have a lot of stress going on right now. Could letting him move in with you cause problems in your relationship? If so, it will only make things worse on you.
EDIT::
Have you two slept together yet? If not, I'm sure he'll expect it. And, since you should be out looking for a job would you be okay with leaving him behind? Would you feel like you constantly have to be with him, constantly entertaining him?
2007-03-20 22:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the alternative? You have no money or job. Just how much of a boyfriend is it if he's not going to share your bed. sounds like more a friend than a b/f.
Anyway if he is a b/f then it's good you're going to live together as you really don't know someone until you live with them. Help you decide if he's for you or not in the long term and vice versa.
2007-03-20 22:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your expectations of the relationship seem very clear - TO YOU !! However, I expect his ideas of what you mean by moving in are much different from yours. Even if you both have the best intentions, realizing there is only one door separating you will make the temptations all the greater.
Don't complicate your situation by shacking up.
Good Luck
2007-03-20 22:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um let me think, NO!
2007-03-20 22:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by The Animal Psychiatrist♬♪ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋