Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

I have a gf who i can only talk to on IM, how do I make her happy?

2007-03-20 15:18:07 · 3 answers · asked by ooh-taay 2 in Singles & Dating

He called around noon and left a message on my cell saying he'll look into finding a restaurant for the 2nd date and we'll meet for dinner at 7pm. I called around 1pm to say I'll be at work from 1-5pm and said I'll call him later or he could call me to let me know the location. At 6pm, I callled him to ask for the location. He returns my call at 6:30pm to say he's already at downtown and ask if he could pick me up. I said no, I'll just drive myself there since it's only half an hour away. (I don't know the guy that well. If the date goes sour, I could always leave.) I try to give him the benefit of a doubt, but on my drive to the restaurant I found his behavior to be very much inconsiderate. 30 minutes notice is just not thoughtful. The whole thing set the tone for the rest of the night. Also, he asked about what dba's in MD make? He basically wanted to know my salary. What kind of guy would ask that on a 2nd date? I told him he can google it. Anyway, that is it for him.

2007-03-20 15:18:06 · 7 answers · asked by Hanna S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 15:17:22 · 2 answers · asked by Larry M 1 in Family

2007-03-20 15:17:15 · 4 answers · asked by ahaha 1 in Singles & Dating

Here is the situation. I posted an ad on Craig's List for a casual encounter. I plan to practice safe sex, of course. A girl of 19 came on my messenger and began flirting with me. She sent me a tastefully clothed photo and she was quite beautiful. Yes, I am 45, but why not? It's not a relationship I am looking for. Then a couple of guys at work I told about it said to be careful, that the cops could be waiting for me when I go to meet up with her. Why? I asked. She's 19. If the cops are out to nab someone, why would they use the front of being 19? Of course I am not doing anything illegal, but these two co-workers are all freaked out about it. I just don't get it. Does someone know if there has ever been a case of someone going to meet a girl who was of age getting stung? Ther police would have to lie and say I was going to meet someone younger and i don't see why they would want to do that... if they want to catch REAL predators.

2007-03-20 15:17:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she just leaves the room without a word, even if I'm in the middle of a sentence. Also, when the TV is on, she never hears a word I say. It's very obnoxious, and I tell her all the time, but it never changes. Will it ever change, or should I find someone who actually cares what I have to say?

2007-03-20 15:16:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom has tried evey thing to help her.Does anybody know how i can help my younger sis before it is too late.

2007-03-20 15:16:49 · 5 answers · asked by SingerTooHot 1 in Family

I'm not looking to have sex with anyone, I just want to be more flirty and cute. I feel kind of stupid asking this question because I am 16, but I dont know who in particular to ask so I'll just ask random people. I am a pretty girl, so I've been told, and many people said I should be a model (just to let you know I'm not ugly). What are some ways I can be flirty (in a kissing, touching way, not sex)?

2007-03-20 15:16:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked this girl to prom a month ago and she said yes. She was talking to this guy but they stopped talking after I asked her to the prom. well yesterday she told me that her and that guy plan on going out but it would be strange to not go to prom with her so she said she couldnt go with me. I admit I liked the girl and was dissappointed. She called me today and apologized and said she realized she was wrong. I said its alright and I'll talk to you later. She calls me later telling me that her and that guy arent going to go out because he was still interested in his ex girl friend. She said she could go with me only if I wanted to, and she would understand if I said no. I did take it pretty hard when she said we couldn't and I still like her. Should I find someone else or forgive her and go to prom with her?

2007-03-20 15:16:16 · 12 answers · asked by Michael G 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a very complicated marriage ending & am in desperate need of an Excellent divorce lawyer (knowing criminal law, INS info & domestic abuse would be wonderful also). I have asked friends - no help. Called Legal aid - referred to Missouri Bar & got a name. Duh?? This is a matter that affects my entire future - any suggestions!

2007-03-20 15:15:31 · 7 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so ive known this girl since grade one.. and right now she is in a long term relationship.. but in the last couple of months.. she has become more flirtatious with me... always hanging during school (lunch, breaks, ect), and always says hi in the morning with a hug and talk before class, so im wondering, if mabe she likes me a little even with her boyfriend, or all of a sudden we became great friends.. either way im happy, just confused.

2007-03-20 15:15:20 · 4 answers · asked by chad 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok this guy my current boyfriend dumped his ex to ask me out is that ok?

2007-03-20 15:14:44 · 9 answers · asked by whitney p 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for a lil over 1/2 a yr.
(he's 17)

2007-03-20 15:14:24 · 9 answers · asked by Luvin' life! 1 in Singles & Dating

hey.., this may be weird.., but i want to say sorry to my friend even though I'm not sure where did i go wrong..., how will i apologize to him if i dont even know the reason why he's mad at me..!! help me please...!!

2007-03-20 15:14:04 · 5 answers · asked by bob_qt027 1 in Friends

My wedding is in less than four months and my fiance' and I are getting along better than ever! Both of us have been having weird dreams...Mine are of him leaving me for someone else and his are of me going missing. Neither one of these are of any relevance to our relationship...

Any ideas about what this means??? Is it just normal wedding jitters.

I know I want to be with him, and only him.. just curious about the meaning..

2007-03-20 15:13:51 · 13 answers · asked by boringgirl07 2 in Weddings

Whenever I see a cute person walking down my way, I either look at him or look away depending on how i'm feeling at the moment. Is this nature. Do you girls do this and what other things do you girls do when there's a hottie walking opposite from you?

2007-03-20 15:13:29 · 3 answers · asked by Giant Donut 2 in Singles & Dating

Their's this guy I met in frasno at the club I was getting alot of attention and every thing from alot of men, but not realy in to them. But this guy that I met was all into me and I was feeling him too . It's been three weeks and from the begining hes been telling me he wants to be with me and ringing my phone off the hook. After one night that seems crazy to me it like hes try to plan a life for us all ready . I would say it's game but I don't live close to him at all.I live six hours away form him. he offerd to buy a ticket for me to come live with him .I would never do something like that,but I was thinking about why I was out their in the first place .I was visiting my bestfriend cause she wants me to move with her that was the plan. I was thinking about dating him when I got out their. Is that such a good Idea what do you guys think. Is something wrong with him for acting the why hes been. could he be serious

2007-03-20 15:13:06 · 3 answers · asked by miss african 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 15:12:49 · 25 answers · asked by SugaLova 2 in Singles & Dating

okay well shes really werid sometimes she acts like she likes me and sometimes she doesntt want to look at me i dont get it :S
and she never returns my myspace message i dont get her
PLZ HELP

2007-03-20 15:12:47 · 11 answers · asked by missmusic g 1 in Friends

2007-03-20 15:11:58 · 10 answers · asked by k??? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 15:10:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-20 15:10:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have liked this guy for quite a while.. and I know for a fact that he's liked me at least twice before.. HOwever im starting to get somewhat over him because he doesnt at least make the effort to talk to me or leave me comments on myspace.. or anything like that [b/c we dont go to the same school] and im always having to talk to him first.. and i absolutely hate it..
i mean i really miss talking to him but i dont always want to be the first to initiate it..
what should i do?
should i talk to him first..
or wait forever?
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2007-03-20 15:09:30 · 14 answers · asked by Chellebelle 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and half and things have been amazing for most of that time.He's the sweetest,most thoughtful,caring,lovable,affe... and protective guy I know.He treats me like a queen.He was also physically and emotionally abused as a child by his dad.He's never shown any abusive traits whatsoever and would pretty much die before he'd ever lay a hand on me.

Last Friday we went clubbing and some guy started flirting with me.Out of no where my boyfriend showed up and decked him.I though he was just acting jealous and got incredibly pissed off at him.When we got back to my place he was trying to explain to me that he saw the guy spike my drink,the same guy that was trying to flirt with me but I wouldn't let him.I accused him of being just like his dad and that just about killed him.He's never told anyone about the abuse but me.He told me why he did it,walked out and hasn't spoken to me since.What can I do to fix this?Have I done the unforgiveable?

2007-03-20 15:08:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have basically combined our assets and i sort of feel stuck, do you think he is leading me on????

2007-03-20 15:08:38 · 23 answers · asked by debbie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex husband was a great provider and husband until I found out I was pregnant. ( We were trying , and I stress the WE.) After I found out I was pregnant he left me. Within weeks he was acting like a 16 year old.... now almost 3 years later he still is. All he thinks about are Honda's... the parts and body kits that go along with them. He see's his daughter about three hours every Sunday (If she is lucky) and then off he goes to work on cars or go hang with his buddies. He has gotten about 20 tickets for speeding and such in the last year. Now he has a warrant (Felony) out on him for having switching the old body on his car with one that has no VIN numbers. All the while.... now he is calling me whineing about having the charge on him. He left his job... so, now I am recieving no child support on top of this. I know that I cannot make him grow up.... but what can I do to help him see what a great gift being a father is? I feel so bad for my little girl.

2007-03-20 15:08:36 · 22 answers · asked by SchGrl79 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I hate being at home an I want to move out which i have made money to do, but am I aloud to move out by myself or do I have to have a guardian or adult with me ? and if I can anyone know any good sites for cheap apartments that are pretty safe. ??

2007-03-20 15:08:16 · 13 answers · asked by abyss_nightly 1 in Family

2007-03-20 15:08:10 · 5 answers · asked by SaInT69 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So that I can hookup a 3some with my wife and another hot lady? Or should I wait after the deed is done to go into counseling?

And what do they do in counseling anyway? Does the lady counselor pin you down with her thighs and force you to take a big whiff or something?

2007-03-20 15:08:08 · 11 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so heres the deal this guy flirts with me like crazy and i think he likes me.... i see him once a week cuz we have a class together and he asked for my number and he would call me like three times a week (we dont go to the same school) and i think i like him now and i decided to ask him to my prom and of course he said yes but then hes like ok ill call you and he hasnt yet so sunday i tried calling him and his phone was off i texted him today and he never finishes a text convo!! so i tried calling again and he didnt answer. i know for a fact or at least i think so that there is another girl but everytime i talk to him he would always ask if i had a bf or not....... now since hes not calling me i am scared hes gonna baill on him not going to prom with me....... and i think i am being played but i dont know am i wasting my time?? or does he really like me???

2007-03-20 15:08:03 · 5 answers · asked by mkay0590 1 in Singles & Dating