ok so heres the deal this guy flirts with me like crazy and i think he likes me.... i see him once a week cuz we have a class together and he asked for my number and he would call me like three times a week (we dont go to the same school) and i think i like him now and i decided to ask him to my prom and of course he said yes but then hes like ok ill call you and he hasnt yet so sunday i tried calling him and his phone was off i texted him today and he never finishes a text convo!! so i tried calling again and he didnt answer. i know for a fact or at least i think so that there is another girl but everytime i talk to him he would always ask if i had a bf or not....... now since hes not calling me i am scared hes gonna baill on him not going to prom with me....... and i think i am being played but i dont know am i wasting my time?? or does he really like me???
2007-03-20 15:08:03 · 5 answers · asked by mkay0590 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would start looking for another prom date. the worse thing you could have is an unreliable prom date. once you find someone who might want to go with you, give him an ultimatium - ask him straight up if he really wants to go to prom with you or not, because you don't want to be stood up. tell him you are getting mixed messages and you just want to know where all of this is going.
2007-03-20 15:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are being played. When a guy likes a girl there is nothing in this world to stop him from calling. When a guy likes a girl, he will call her so many times just to hear her voice or see what she is doing. He wants her every moment that he can be with her. Don't wait for him. Take somebody else to the prom. You will never regret it. If you wait for him, I assure you that he will show up with another girl.
2007-03-20 22:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys hate talking on the phone. There's an emptyness to it, something false that guys just don't go for - I know I'm one of them. Try text messaging, or talking to him in real life.
2007-03-20 22:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mitch F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sunshine hit it on the nail, love is a desire to be with someone, so I would ask him one more time, face to face, and then get busy to find someone else should he not be wanting....
2007-03-20 22:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by dlspeed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him screw your self hes a player they love to tell you what you wanna hear and every other girl too
don't depend on him if he really cared he would have not dissed you like that don't play your self you deserve better you worth it good luck to you in whatever choice you make
2007-03-20 22:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by lil one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋