Okay...I have this friend that I have supposedly been friends with for like three years. Lately though we haven't seen eachother in like a year now because we have been so busy and stuff. I just don't know if maybe we are to busy to hang out or what. With work, and people, and all sorts of distractions it seems hard for us to connect and talk. I miss her, but I am trying to figure out if we should continue are friendship..she seems to be more distant from me, and like she thinks that I am making up excuses for us not to get together. I tried telling her that I have so much to do, but she just gets silent and acts like I am just making something up.......anyways.....should we continue being friends or our lives just too busy and changed to hang out anymore?
thank you!
2007-03-20 14:57:47 · 5 answers · asked by Daughter of a Coma Guy 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think that you should try keep being friends.
Ask her what her hobbies are or things that she likes doing and then one day that you have free do that with her I'm sure that she will be very appreciative about it.
good luck!!
2007-03-20 15:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by ::penguins:: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real friend would understand when you are busy. As long as you make an effort and make sure to call and see how she's doing as often as you can and make sure you let her know you value her firndship everything should be ok. If not then she's not the friend for you.
2007-03-20 15:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is move on. I have a couple of college roommates that are my best friends, but sometimes, because of Real Life, we don't get to talk for years! But guess what...when we do, it's SO wonderful, like we never missed a minute away. THAT'S what's awesome about real friends, they understand. This girl sounds pretty high maintenance. As if you'll have to keep track on your calendar how often to talk so she doesn't get angry.
2007-03-20 15:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by momof2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, set aside a time for the two of you to hang out...I had the same problem.
2007-03-20 15:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by EmoGeminiDrama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she truly is your friend you need to make time for her......
2007-03-20 15:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋