Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

i cannot have anymore kids.....he took it very hard.....hes 21 now and has been asking around about me and trying to get intouch......should i just leave it alone?

2007-03-20 01:30:37 · 3 answers · asked by forbidnfruit_420 2 in Singles & Dating

i cannnot understand why would someone do such a thing to their love one like cheating or stuff.. like when you already have a girlfriend or boyfriend and you loved your love one so much but still you starting having feeling for other person though.. we cant blame them?? or we are just human and cannot control those feeling? why is that??

2007-03-20 01:30:05 · 12 answers · asked by hate the sand ~ love the castle 3 in Singles & Dating

all of a sudden..
how do you handle it?
he's being honest,and telling you, so you can't be mad..
but he continues to talk to her... several times a day..
what do you do now?
why also, don't men understand that some women are relentless, and try to cause trouble.. why do you think that they think it's ok for ex to do this?

this is all about opinions.. just so that we are clear..

2007-03-20 01:29:05 · 10 answers · asked by lil' angel 6 in Singles & Dating

My fiance seems to bend to his mother's every wish. He's been overseas for nearly seven months, and when he comes home in a few weeks, his mom is planning on picking him up from the airport (even though he and I will have our own place to live by then.) Even though she says his education and study-abroad cost her a ton of money, she spent huge amount to go to see him over the holidays, rather than putting him on a plane to come see everyone who misses him. I felt that this was a selfish act, considering its not just been her who hasn't gotten to see him. Especially since bringing him home would have been a lot less costly. I feel like as his future wife, she should at least spend the first days home with me, not his mother. He says that I am trying to isolate him from his family, but that is simply not the case. It's been a huge personal sacrifice to have him away so long. Is it me or him??

2007-03-20 01:28:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just turned 19 and am not the typical college guy... i come from a really rich family and i have my own penthouse, credit card, cars and food paid for already. I dont hang out like most college kids do, but yesterday a friend invited to smoke weed (nothing new for me) and there was this blonde girl that was there. I would catch her looking at me and she was really nice. she didnt make any moves on me but i'd date her. If she remembers me the next time i see her should i ask her out?

2007-03-20 01:26:53 · 12 answers · asked by teddyk k 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, here it goes, I hope this gets better responses than last time.

My Girlfriend of 8 years recently told me she used to do some nude modelling whilst we were at University. This came as a shock, and i have looked into it on the internet, and found some of her pictures, totally nude, legs open, fingers inside the lot!

She doesnt look like the sort of girl to do this (shes more cute than sexy), but she told me she enjoyed it, but wouldnt do it anymore.

She is not an exhibityionist at all with me, the complete opposite in fact, but i love her body, and would love to see more of the pictures she did, and would love her to do the same with me from time to time, but she refused. If it was me id prefer to do this in front of her than infront of a stranger.

Anyone know of any photographers in London particularly around barbican or old street?

Any girls or photographs involved in this type of work who can give let m eknow what goes on at these shoots?

any advice welcome

2007-03-20 01:26:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy around 9 months ago. We gelled and clicked right from the start we were like best friends as well as lovers while seeing each other. But i discovered over time that this guy was a classic commitment phobic. Even when he spoke about his ex's saying that they were all too needy etc but I actually think it was him with the problem, as he is very immature and erratic for his age 28!!. during the space of time we were together he wasn't sure if he wanted any proper commitments right now, so we decided to leave it at that & just be friends. I am movin on as we are on 2 different levels right? I don't ever call him! He still calls me after 2 months. He called me a few days ago telling me that he does miss me & my company, someone to liase & laugh with, but still isn't saying anything about a proper relationship! I'm sorry but he doesn't know what he wants right now with me & alot of other things in his life. Am I RIGHT TO CUT HIM OFF I HAVE CHANGED MY NUMBER?

2007-03-20 01:26:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 01:26:23 · 3 answers · asked by Madhupreetha V 1 in Friends

2007-03-20 01:25:32 · 11 answers · asked by \" moOnLighT "/ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a friend who knows the ins and outs of mental health because he is working in this field and is depressed...How can I help him past through this difficult time or even make him realize that he needs help:(

2007-03-20 01:25:15 · 13 answers · asked by HopeH 4 in Friends

you do? do you tell your girlfriend? do you talk to her ( the ex)? do you tell her that you can't or don't want to talk to her because it's over?

and what do you, as the male species think that it means when an ex does this to you?
i have my opinion, and i'm gonna ask the girls this same question.. so if you are a female, please refrain from answering this one.. i have one for you all...

2007-03-20 01:24:51 · 3 answers · asked by lil' angel 6 in Singles & Dating

Is it ok to go out alone i travel alot with work and get bored in motels by myself. If i do go out alone how do i meet girls with out seeming like i have no friends

2007-03-20 01:24:38 · 3 answers · asked by nashmelb 1 in Singles & Dating

I just got an email with pictures of how girls act in nite clubs and it looks trashy and slutty. Why are some girls like this in the clubs? They dress like sluts, dance with other girls boyfriends, smoke, dance wild with they slutty friends. I mean these are some of the reasons why we decent girls dont let our guys go to clubs...

2007-03-20 01:20:52 · 4 answers · asked by WHATEVER!!` 2 in Singles & Dating

i have an a mazing girl friend, i have money will my dad dose and i have all of his money its under my name and my grand father is a very powerful man but im just not happy what is it that is making me unhappy and feeling dead?

2007-03-20 01:18:50 · 32 answers · asked by lee77dt 1 in Family

why do single women have affairs with married men- do you not feel guilty???... do you want to hurt the woman?

2007-03-20 01:18:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...after he has a shower?

2007-03-20 01:17:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have lost trust from my friend because i mad her mad...how can i win it back?

2007-03-20 01:16:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

HaHa

2007-03-20 01:16:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi, the other day me and my girlfriend went out in the day for a few drinks but she said she was feeling ill so we went home, the problem was that i wanted to stay out and let her know this, cos i thought she was making it up so we had to go home, so when we got home we had an arguement about the fact. anyway this resulted in her hitting me in face. we'd had a few but neither was drunk so that is no excuse, she apologised immediatley but i don't know why she felt the need to hit me. so i guess what im looking for is answers as to what i should do next as the issue is bugging me, i do love her by the way. thanks

2007-03-20 01:15:57 · 50 answers · asked by Liam 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 01:15:37 · 10 answers · asked by j.lo 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a woman at the end of December, got hooked straight away. On Valentines day she tells me there is somebody else, she met just before me and he's coming back, from where I don't know, she said she had to see him and resolve things.

I said ok I'm out. Since then she has got back to me suggesting she doesn't want our "thing", whatever it is, to end.
So I didn't see her for a month, the whole time I was thinking about her going to see this man. I did email her again to say I'm out, she emailed me back saying she missed me.

A couple of weeks ago I did call her up to ask her what the situation was, I felt like I was almost begging, she suggested it was none of my business, this greatly angered me. So the following week I wrote, maybe immaturely, to say what a waste of time it's been and what a fool I've been caring for her when she's been at her lowest ebb. She responded, very hurt, I apologised. We met for a drink, I'm still none the wiser, she seems very confused, what to do???

2007-03-20 01:15:02 · 5 answers · asked by crazy fool 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a woman at the end of December, got hooked straight away. On Valentines day she tells me there is somebody else, she met just before me and he's coming back, from where I don't know, she said she had to see him and resolve things.

I said ok I'm out. Since then she has got back to me suggesting she doesn't want our "thing", whatever it is, to end.
So I didn't see her for a month, the whole time I was thinking about her going to see this man. I did email her again to say I'm out, she emailed me back saying she missed me.

A couple of weeks ago I did call her up to ask her what the situation was, I felt like I was almost begging, she suggested it was none of my business, this greatly angered me. So the following week I wrote, maybe immaturely, to say what a waste of time it's been and what a fool I've been caring for her when she's been at her lowest ebb. She responded, very hurt, I apologised. We met for a drink, I'm still none the wiser, she seems very confused, what to do???

2007-03-20 01:14:42 · 13 answers · asked by crazy fool 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a relationship that started beautifully, love and all. Now the boyfriend has moved in with me and I am covering most of the household expenses. I make a lot more money than he does, however I work less and have a lot of debt I am trying to pay off. Well, the boyfriend is not doing what he can to contribute more. He is happy with a meager job and spends a lot of time with video games. I feel he should study books that will elevate his career. He justifies contributing to less than1/3 of the rent because he says that apartment is still mine and I make all the decisions at home. This does not feel right to me. I at least think things should be 50/50 regardless if I make more money or if I have my way around the house. When I rented bedrooms in the past from others, I would have to conform to the house rules and still be expected to pay may share of the rent even if I did not like the house rules. Well my question is: Should I be more considerate of his financial situatio

2007-03-20 01:14:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just recently got married and now im questioning if I did the right thing. Before she was respectful and loving with so much understanding and class. Now it seems like she doesnt want to do anything, she spends all my money, she doesnt clean after herself nor will she take care of the house not to mention that she has been unemployed for going on 4 mos. Yet she has the nerve to complain about my dedication to her, I work 2 jobs and im a part time student to support her and maybe an eventual family. Now she wants a baby but were not financially stable, when I ttoldher this she threw a fit and left. Did I make a mistake?

2007-03-20 01:13:35 · 14 answers · asked by madfly2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

dear (her name) : you're such an amazing person, and im really really sorry about what happened before, but i love you and im here for you
i dont know if u can trust me again but i promise i wont hurt you =). im just crazy about you, you're all i can think about, i cant wait till we meet :). you're just such a wonderful person, im crazy about you, i love you


good or not ?
please and thanks

2007-03-20 01:13:30 · 6 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

i started going out with this guy about 2 weeks ago and i am happy when i am with him his x-girlfriend well not leave me alone for some reason and she is a ***** i told her to go away but it's just not happen i relly like jeff but i am not going to fight over him

what should i do should i dump him and go out with some one diffent plzz help

thanks love you if you help ...

2007-03-20 01:13:03 · 7 answers · asked by alisha bessette 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 01:12:52 · 9 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 01:12:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some people say one you split up its over, if u get back together the same or similar stuff will happen again and its just prolonging breaking up. However some people say it can make a relationship stronger. which is true?

2007-03-20 01:11:35 · 13 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 01:11:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating