Nude Modelling?

Question

Ok, here it goes, I hope this gets better responses than last time.

My Girlfriend of 8 years recently told me she used to do some nude modelling whilst we were at University. This came as a shock, and i have looked into it on the internet, and found some of her pictures, totally nude, legs open, fingers inside the lot!

She doesnt look like the sort of girl to do this (shes more cute than sexy), but she told me she enjoyed it, but wouldnt do it anymore.

She is not an exhibityionist at all with me, the complete opposite in fact, but i love her body, and would love to see more of the pictures she did, and would love her to do the same with me from time to time, but she refused. If it was me id prefer to do this in front of her than infront of a stranger.

Anyone know of any photographers in London particularly around barbican or old street?

Any girls or photographs involved in this type of work who can give let m eknow what goes on at these shoots?

any advice welcome

Has anyone done this themselves? Photographers or models
Care to share experiences?

Answer 1

FIrst off, I'm sorry but I'm not from your area so cannot help with setting anything up.

Next, I think i can help explain to you why it is that she wont do any of those things around you...
When it comes to doing such acts as nude pictures, poses, and the sort, it can be a potentially embarassing ordeal. If the girl really likes it and enjoys the little high it gives her that's great. The problem is that given the nature of what she used to do mate, it's easier for her to do it with or infront of people she does not know. Infront of a camera and people she does not know, it's relatively harmless and what happens there stays there. If she were to do the same thing infront of you though, it would probobly be embarassing for her since she'd then have to talk about it later or know that you know about it. It's like one of her little dark secrets or "passions" which she'd prefer nobody to know about, in a way.

Answer 2

Its her past life why don't you just leave it in the past. What she did then is really non or your business and she might very well look at it the same way. I think your jealous of what she has done, but prying in her past affairs might just put a wedge into your relationship. Leave it alone.

Answer 3

i know how u feel. i feel sorry for u and all. i would hate to be in ur shoes. but from my point of view, from a girl, give her some time. girls don't like to be rushed. if she doesn't want to do anything right this minute, be patient. when its the right time, then she'll let u know.

Good Luck!!!!

Answer 4

she is not afraid to show off her body is she?
where is the net for the pictures? i can better judge after seeing them

Answer 5

You need to leave it alone. That was her past and she has left it behind.

Answer 6

Be a man and forget the voyeurism's..