I just got an email with pictures of how girls act in nite clubs and it looks trashy and slutty. Why are some girls like this in the clubs? They dress like sluts, dance with other girls boyfriends, smoke, dance wild with they slutty friends. I mean these are some of the reasons why we decent girls dont let our guys go to clubs...
2007-03-20 01:20:52 · 4 answers · asked by WHATEVER!!` 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason people go to a 'club' is very basic. During the 5th phase of maturational development, called "Identity vs Identity Confusion", a person, most times females, will feel the need to spend a lot of time in social situations. "Clubs', bars, dances, parties, house parties and the like. They do this because they think it's 'fun'; however, they are really doing this to compare how they look, act, and speak in relation to their peers. It is during this phase that they define what they think of as the 'self'. Here, they are getting a good 'picture' of how they fit into society. This can be a frustrating, confusing time and may include significant changes in clothing {costuming}, role models {where they will emulate music or sports stars, called 'modeling'}, and how they behave {called behavioral adaptation}. Eventually, these people grow out of this phase and onto the next. Ironically, it's in this next phase {Intimacy vs Isolation} where they will be heard saying that they are "Sick of the bar scene"; without consideration to the fact that for the past 2-3 years, they WERE the bar scene, and were delighted to be!
I hope this helps you to understand the changes that you see these people going through, and that while frustrating, even annoying, they will eventually evolve from 'social zombies' into normal adults. Be well.
2007-03-20 05:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by annoyed_with_the_other_answers 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They look trashy but will feel and look even worse in the morning. I personally hate the smoke in those places thats what bothers me the most. Um yeh could be a temptation problem if your boyfriend would like to take advantage of the drunk girlys. Can't really control them though if they wana go they probably will, they just have to assess what would be worse: his mates taking the p*** cause his whiped and won't come out with the boys. Or dealing with an extremely angry girlfriend whilst struggling with a hang over. I think i'd go with the safe option.
2007-03-20 01:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by nightdreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I'm afraid your right, it seems that some people change the minute they start to get ready to go to a club, whole personalities alter and all for a few hours of fun, its like unleashing a caged animal. I have no problems with people having fun but some just go to far and leave their morals and principles at home. That goes for both girls and guys.
2007-03-22 04:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used togo to club very often and i just love the music
Music make me going wild.Dint you get it.
2007-03-20 01:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by castle girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋