Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

A Guy I recently met for coffee told me that he finds me exceptionally cute.. I mean it was nice of him to say that but he hardly knows me. Just wondering if he is trying to impress me .. or perhaps he was trying to get lucky ... So guys whats up with this dude?

2007-03-17 08:44:13 · 5 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Friends

My best friend Marissa has been acting really strange around me lately... She is kind of not likeing to listen to me anymore and doesnt care about what i say. She knows that whenever something is bugging me i go to her and she listens and trys to help me but now she just doesnt care anymore. Now she is kind of telling me I told you so stuff with my problems which also bugs me. But i kind of dont blame her because im a very senceative person and i have many problems. Whenever were around our "friend" (but we dont like her very much " she acts so werid and yesterday she ditched me with Alana the "friend". But we all have been acting a little werid.. Well please help me with what to do. I believe that she is coming over tonight.

2007-03-17 08:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by Twizzlers 3 in Friends

i seem to have a few fall out with friends, as i guess everyone dose, but it can really put you down for the rest of the day what make you feel better after a fall out?

2007-03-17 08:43:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met him 5 yrs ago and we hit it off right off the bat. We have a lot in common and I thought we were a great couple. I went to the grocery store with him and he left his checkbook on the counter, so being behind him, I opened it to make sure it was his before I picked it up, and his checks had his ex name on them. They were divorced x 2 yrs and he said he did not have time to close out the account. Then, he decides to join a volley ball team with her every Saturday nite, no kids, just him and her and the rest of the team. She is still doing his taxes and he says she knows how much he makes anyways, so its ok.
He asked me to marry him and she got mad and cried to he backed out of the proposal. She is re married.
I never tell him anything because he tells her everything about me and my personal business. He told her about a business venture I was on in detail, how much money I made etc. I felt like he overstepped a boundary.
Is it me or is it him. What is the deal?

2007-03-17 08:43:17 · 20 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

only genuine answers please

2007-03-17 08:42:49 · 10 answers · asked by saryadoc 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so this girl I really like went to a movie tonight with me and a friend. A few days ago out of no where we kinda started hugging/cuddling, and there was a bit of making out. I asked her if it ment anything the next day and she said that for the moment no and she wasn't sure if it would and that she didnt want to lead me on. So today when we went I felt like she was totally leading me on... we held hands for about half the movie she had her head on my shoulder a couple times. However there were a few times where she kinda took her hand away when I reached out for it, when she got near my hand. On the way home she asked how long I liked her, I told her, then I thought Id clarify what happened and asked if anythings changed since we last talked about how for the moment she didnt see me like that. She said not really?! But it was a more quiet and mellow and took her a while to answer. So Im totally confused. Her actions say one thing but her words say another...

2007-03-17 08:42:29 · 11 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I go to the same school and we both live in dorms. His roommate for some reason hates my boyfriend. He uses racial slurs and says how he can do a whole lot better than me. He also purposely makes my boyfriend's life hell by blasting music while he is trying to study and watching tv when he is trying to sleep. He recently, however, sent me a comment saying that my boyfriend was gay and how he knows he won't get far in life. I know that my boyfriend is not gay and that he will succeed in life. I'm not sure why he is creating so much hell between my boyfriend and I but people are telling me it's because he is jealous of my boyfriend and because his roommate likes me. Now I'm not sure if this is true but I need some advice. I've already told the Resident Advisors and they agreed to look into the matter. But I want a real official like the police to get involved. And because of the comments he left on my wall, it was considered harrassment. What should I do?

2007-03-17 08:42:22 · 5 answers · asked by molokaigirl 1 in Friends

Before my husband and I got married he told me he wanted to have children with me. Now over 2 years into marriage he came home to tell me "no children" My whole life I have dreamed about being a mother and now I have to choose between my husband and wanting to be a mother. HELP

2007-03-17 08:41:28 · 26 answers · asked by Kerri S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I done this a few nights ago and am now mortified,i can`t even go out tonight as i`d have to see the guy at his work and i just can`t face him.He did give me his number and said he really liked me then never appeared at my house when he asked to drop by,so i thought it would be a good idea to phone him and see what happened.

I then text him and apologised yesterday and told him i`d delete his number so it wouldn`t happen again,he said i didn`t have to do that and it was fine and he`s still interested in me and if i`m not interested in him then just let him know.I am interested and text him back today and he hasn`t replied,i dont know if it`s because i didn`t reply to his text last night but my battery went dead!I explained this to him but he`s still not replied.What do i do now?Just wait and see what happens?help appreciated!!

2007-03-17 08:40:11 · 20 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Singles & Dating

My ex used to be so nice he would compliment me all the time and want to do stuff for me all the time we broke up and now he is going out with my friend who also broke up with him a long time ago when she was going out with him he told me he liked me the other day and then asked this girl out who he never even liked before it got me mad and upset what do you think of him?

2007-03-17 08:39:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

apart from safety & durability? can anyone tell me why they love sexing in hotels?

2007-03-17 08:37:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Were 'best friends'. I see him everyday at school, and were always callling each other. When I started liking him I told him, but he said he didnt feel the same, because he is still in love with his ex girlfriend. Well, I told him things wouldn't be different. I always get over guys by completely losing contact, or hating them. haha! So I dont know how I can get over him, if I have to see him everyday?HELP!

2007-03-17 08:37:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-17 08:37:38 · 6 answers · asked by Benny & the Jets 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy I often meet, who is a s...-friend and nothing more. In the beginning, I did want something more. But I gave that up, when I realised he just wanted the physical. I do have some feelings for him. Lately he's not been treating me with respect. And I've realised that he thinks I'll always meet him anyway. I've decided not to, to stop seeing him. And to be short when he texts me and tell him that I don't have time. That will teach him a lesson, cause we both know it will be hard for him to find someone else, and he knows it won't be hard for me to find someone new. Do you have any other suggestions about what I should do?

2007-03-17 08:37:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am looking for an old school mate that went to King George High School in Vancouver Canada.
If you know him please let me know.
His name is Xavier Guerrero graduated in 1981-1983.

2007-03-17 08:36:35 · 2 answers · asked by Papa Spyk! 1 in Friends

how should i say it.. ok so...
sorry this might be long but please do read it

what would you do if you were living abroad (Wales, Uk) and you are from somewhere like India.

you are about 14, have had your first kiss (parents dont know, if they did they would kill you) your parents dont approve of their little girl dating guys. not even kissing. and they wont ever let you until you get married. also they are totally against inter-racial, but its not like you have choice because u are indian but everyone else is welsh/english. and sex before marriage is a big NO... not even if it is protected sex and you are old enough like maybe 20-25, and when you do get married it will be arranged marriage?

i cant help fancying people... and what would you do if the guy you had a crush on for a while asked you out? knowing that parents can find out because of brother an if they do you would all probably go back to india. and mum has high blood pressure so its hard!

what would you do?

2007-03-17 08:36:03 · 23 answers · asked by ... 4 in Singles & Dating

my father is getting transfered to japan and and I have to go to which is fine because i've always wanted to live in japan and I really find japanese women attractive and I heard that most japanese people look down on interracial relationships is this true

2007-03-17 08:35:23 · 8 answers · asked by chris w 2 in Singles & Dating

I Guy I recently met for coffee told me that he finds me exceptionally cute.. I mean it was nice of him to say that but he hardly knows me. Just wondering if he is trying to impress me .. or perhaps he was just trying his luck... So guys whats up with this dude?

2007-03-17 08:35:23 · 13 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Singles & Dating

I need to make anything but if it is food it must be vegetarian

2007-03-17 08:35:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The last time I fell for a friend I ended up getting hurt very very badly by him. As much as I've tried to avoid it, I've fallen for another friend, I'm terrified to pursue. The thing is this time it's different, because the feelings are mutual. I'm still afraid of getting burned though. Does anyone have any advice on how I should get over this fear and weather I should pursue or avoid it at the cost of possibly loosing a friendship?

It's not that I'm afraid of him, I adore him, it's just that I'm afraid of what might happen if things go sour.

2007-03-17 08:35:02 · 5 answers · asked by Seeing you I loose myself 2 in Singles & Dating

I always heard that was the reason people got tongue rings but what does it do?

2007-03-17 08:34:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i get jealous easily like when my girlfriend goes somewhere witout me she puts on make up and gets all dressed up and looks amazing...am i making too much of this? is she trying to impress other guys or what?

what can i do to stop being so jealous?

2007-03-17 08:34:42 · 8 answers · asked by BoSox 007 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so i am a gay lad, so is the lad i fancy and we talk but not that much, he is ace and i love him to bits but i am not his type, in as much as he is outgoing and i am shy, i need to tell him and make him aware of how strong i feel but dont know how and am scared i will upset him and lose him completly if he knows how i feel about him!! please help! and no silly timewasting answers please

2007-03-17 08:33:57 · 15 answers · asked by me!! 2 in Singles & Dating

She likes Gymnastics, she's in gifted private school, she likes the computer, and she's into what's popular today!

Thanks in advance for your answers!

2007-03-17 08:33:31 · 8 answers · asked by DrPepper 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy and one night we did it in his car. He kept putting it in me and it hurt soooo bad. Is this normal if so sex is over rated. I couldn't get used to it so i just asked him to take it out of me and he never spoke to me again did i do something wrong?

2007-03-17 08:33:20 · 5 answers · asked by Bria C 1 in Singles & Dating

last 2 yrs, ive had no gf. i had 3 sex partners, each a one time thing. during those 2 yrs, ive had no job. im doing okay (better then b4) n im closer to accomplishing my goal of becoming a truck driver. last month or so, ive been sleeping a lot, and hardly ever seeing the day. now, i dont sleep as much and im up during day. ive had injuries, so im in pain a lot, so its a balance of not doing anything n regretting it, or doing a lot and regretting it. neway, my back is stiff from sitting all day. and all i can think about is how i wish i had a gf. im antisocial, hate to drink, hate bars n clubs, have no friends, hate rap. i want to find a girl online but im not attracted to most of them and i cant get anyone to like me or take interest. ive tried every site i can think of. myspace, facebook, hi5, yahoo... no luck. im consumed by my desire. i dont want to watch tv, movies, play games, read, walk, or anything. i just want to find a girl. what is my problem?

2007-03-17 08:33:20 · 4 answers · asked by ISOBESTANSWERS 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this guy...
but around him im like shy and i get those butterflies.
i dont know how to act around him and sometimes i just dont go or talk to him at all. i mostly just talk to other people and my friends tell me he looks at me.
there were some rumors that he kinda liked me but he needed to hang out with me more.
(but he doesnt talk to me either! he talks to other people!! )
ugh,.... help.
i think im just over him

2007-03-17 08:33:13 · 15 answers · asked by AA 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife tells me daily how much she hates me why is this how do i make her stop

2007-03-17 08:32:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

haya! right i have short blonde/brown hair, green eyes, cute smile(well my friends think so ani way), and a nice but curvy figure?
jus wanna no what you think?

2007-03-17 08:32:53 · 15 answers · asked by amz 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my girlfriends birthday is in two dayz.......so i want to no ur ideas about what i should do!oh and i dont mind the comments that have to do with the bed,or lead to it!thanks for ur help!

2007-03-17 08:32:19 · 2 answers · asked by aron........ 1 in Singles & Dating