last 2 yrs, ive had no gf. i had 3 sex partners, each a one time thing. during those 2 yrs, ive had no job. im doing okay (better then b4) n im closer to accomplishing my goal of becoming a truck driver. last month or so, ive been sleeping a lot, and hardly ever seeing the day. now, i dont sleep as much and im up during day. ive had injuries, so im in pain a lot, so its a balance of not doing anything n regretting it, or doing a lot and regretting it. neway, my back is stiff from sitting all day. and all i can think about is how i wish i had a gf. im antisocial, hate to drink, hate bars n clubs, have no friends, hate rap. i want to find a girl online but im not attracted to most of them and i cant get anyone to like me or take interest. ive tried every site i can think of. myspace, facebook, hi5, yahoo... no luck. im consumed by my desire. i dont want to watch tv, movies, play games, read, walk, or anything. i just want to find a girl. what is my problem?
2007-03-17 08:33:20 · 4 answers · asked by ISOBESTANSWERS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not an expert so don't take this really seriousley, but maybe you're just a little too concerend about finding a girl. if you focused on on other things in your life you might get more done. you can't be too picky on your girls either.
2007-03-17 08:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by croutonn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the bulk of your problem is your attitude and your negativity.....what you have been doing so far just isn't working for you...so you need to change it up.....stop belly aching about how lousy life is and figure out how to get yourself out there and find some friends...most people like to be around happy people with a positive outlook on life..so it's really no surprise that you don't have any friends and can't find a gf...perhaps you need to talk to your doctor and get some help through counseling...also some help dealing with the pain issues...good luck
2007-03-17 15:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to be funny or anything but you might be better of finding you a prostitute or something. You have nothing interest going on in your life. Show more interst in things and you might get a girlfriend.
2007-03-17 15:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by dg27576 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you might be depressed.
all of it..your injuries etc..are making things harder.
you are also being too hard on yourself.
perhaps you should speak to your doctor..& get things sorted out.
you need to find happiness within..before you want to share with someone else. good luck.
2007-03-17 15:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by maryanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋