ok so i like this guy...
but around him im like shy and i get those butterflies.
i dont know how to act around him and sometimes i just dont go or talk to him at all. i mostly just talk to other people and my friends tell me he looks at me.
there were some rumors that he kinda liked me but he needed to hang out with me more.
(but he doesnt talk to me either! he talks to other people!! )
ugh,.... help.
i think im just over him
2007-03-17 08:33:13 · 15 answers · asked by AA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. That's the best advice anyone can give. But remember guys like a chase, they like you much more when you give them something to work for.
2007-03-17 08:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, then I'm pretty sure you won't just be "over" him. Love lives in strange places. You'll never know what you could be or could have been if you just give up. Be yourself, no one likes a fake girl(or boy in that case). I know you don't want to live your life wondering if he was the one, so just get it a shot! It'll be ahrd at first, but trust him it'll pay off in the end whether you like the results or not.
2007-03-17 15:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by Ki-Ki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
if you're old enough, take 2 shots of any hard alcohol, wait ten minutes and go say hi. that's should take the edge off enough for you to strike up a conversation with him.
And if you like him, don't worry about how you're acting around him. If he doesn't like you for you, then why would you want him anyway? If you have to try to be someone else to get along with ihim or to get him to like you, then he's not worth it and the relationship will be exhausting for you.
Best of luck to you!
2007-03-17 15:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by Love Answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probly is shy 2 and he probly has the same thing happening 2 him. u and him dont really know each other dat well, so u should get 2 know him better first. talk 2 him, make eye contact, say hi and smile when u see him. if he likes u, he'll respond. at least find out how he feels bout u.
2007-03-17 15:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may try to get more acquainted to his presence before you do anything more about him.
You may try to do something together with him that is not emotional.
You may even exercise with others acting as if they were him, and so see what may happen, and so see if you may more safely approach him.
You may decide to be patient and to wait until your shiness becomes less and so butterflies kind of fly away.
Good luck!
2007-03-17 15:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by pasquale garonfolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As was said just be yourself. You want him to like you for you, if the relationship goes anywhere you can't put on an act for him forever. If he doesn't like you for you then it's not meant to be. If ever you find someone you're attracted to, but they don't like you for you, then don't change yourself, it's not worth it.
2007-03-17 15:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by Seeing you I loose myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must get over your fear of rejection and act like yourself
2007-03-17 15:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by HopelessOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's shy too. Just look at him "In the eyes" smile, and say hi, how are you ?
2007-03-17 15:36:44 · answer #8 · answered by dad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like yourself
2007-03-17 15:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by kitty45342 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Yourself!
2007-03-17 15:35:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋