My best friend Marissa has been acting really strange around me lately... She is kind of not likeing to listen to me anymore and doesnt care about what i say. She knows that whenever something is bugging me i go to her and she listens and trys to help me but now she just doesnt care anymore. Now she is kind of telling me I told you so stuff with my problems which also bugs me. But i kind of dont blame her because im a very senceative person and i have many problems. Whenever were around our "friend" (but we dont like her very much " she acts so werid and yesterday she ditched me with Alana the "friend". But we all have been acting a little werid.. Well please help me with what to do. I believe that she is coming over tonight.
2007-03-17 08:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by Twizzlers 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Also Alana was my friend and she is my locker partner.. thats the only reason why im still friends with her is because i cant change locker partners
2007-03-17 08:55:15 · update #1
Twizzler, sometimes when we are sensitive and have many issues, our best friends are the first ones that we go to. Maybe, just consider this, even our "best friends" get to a point where they can only listen to so much negativity. Your friend Marissa, might need a breather from always hearing your problems. Marissa might even be going through some of her own personal issues, and would like to voice" her" problems for a change. I am not saying you should not be friends, however, give Marissa a break from your problems for a while. Try to think things through for yourself, be more positive around Marissa, and try not to make a big deal out of small things. Being sensitive is not a bad way to be, but, you may consider being more sensitive to Marissa's need? As for Alana, try getting to know her. Maybe Marissa just needs a change of pace.Try that for awhile and if you have a good solid friendship, it will survive. Remember, friendship is a two way street!
2007-03-25 05:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont really know whats going on maybe you should confront her about it. Its also a bit silly to be friends with someone you both dont really like. Maybe your friend actually wants to be friends with both of you but it is awkward when you both are together. Do you feel like you are competing with this other friend Alana?
2007-03-17 15:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by oishii28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one; If your friend is saying :I told you so" maybe because your not taking her advice or maybe you go to her to much with your problems instead of helping her out with her.s instead of being jelous get to know her friend a little more.
2007-03-17 15:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by :] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her what her problem is & if she doesn't teel you don't talk to her & leave her alone
2007-03-17 15:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by Akb<3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you ask for advice, you should consider it seriously, or dont ask at all.
2007-03-25 11:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋