The last time I fell for a friend I ended up getting hurt very very badly by him. As much as I've tried to avoid it, I've fallen for another friend, I'm terrified to pursue. The thing is this time it's different, because the feelings are mutual. I'm still afraid of getting burned though. Does anyone have any advice on how I should get over this fear and weather I should pursue or avoid it at the cost of possibly loosing a friendship?
It's not that I'm afraid of him, I adore him, it's just that I'm afraid of what might happen if things go sour.
2007-03-17 08:35:02 · 5 answers · asked by Seeing you I loose myself 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh and currently he doesn't know these feelings are mutual, he's just told me about his feelings. I have yet to let him know I feel the same way due to this fear.
2007-03-17 08:40:05 · update #1
It could go sour even if he wasn't your friend before your relationship. I think the best way to get over your fear is to give this a chance.
2007-03-17 08:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by soccacrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no real way to get over the fear you just have to take a chance.
2007-03-17 17:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell this guy that you like now that you want to be friends with him and take the relationship very slow to the next step.
2007-03-17 15:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could give it a try
but after i got out of a badly ended relationship, relationships sickened me
i started to like one of my friends, but didnt want to date her, so i forced myself by sheer will to stop
and if a girl did like me, and even if i know, i wouldnt act on it
2007-03-17 15:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better to know then not know .. i suggest u give it a try.. good luck
2007-03-17 15:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋