How do u tell a lad that you fancy him?

Question

ok so i am a gay lad, so is the lad i fancy and we talk but not that much, he is ace and i love him to bits but i am not his type, in as much as he is outgoing and i am shy, i need to tell him and make him aware of how strong i feel but dont know how and am scared i will upset him and lose him completly if he knows how i feel about him!! please help! and no silly timewasting answers please

Answer 1

Go up to him and just ask him if he wants to hang out, go watch a movie as friends, ask for help on a subject you taking or something. After you guys finish, tell him what a wondereful time you had and that you should do it more often. That will give him more chances to ask you out. Or you can just talk with him and then open up the conversation of boyfriends and girlfriends and tell him that you would love to have a boyfriend like him.
Good Luck

Answer 2

hey sweety, u only live life once, u dont really know what ll happen unless u ask him. be a lil more confident in urself, who knows, he might like u as well. u guys are already friends, so it ll be a lil easier for u to tell him how u feel about him. try to go out with him, juts the 2 of u, try to do something not very romantic, but that gives him the sense u r into him. and then tell him u would like to be with him. i hope he s into u as well, but if he s not, tell him that regardless u r still his friend and even tho u would like to be more than that, that u respect his decision, and u wouldnt want to lose his friendship. but later on try to conquer him slowly, he might eventually fall for u. be persistent, be urself, DONT STALK, and good luck my friend. are u from UK?

Answer 3

Well, it's simple, don't beat around the bush, just tell him how you feel. Let go of your shyness; tell him that you fancy him, but it's alright if he doesn't wanna go out with you as you both can still be mates. Even if you don't have same points of view on things that doesn't matter, FRIENDSHIP DOES NOT DEPEND ON THIS, IT'S ALL ABOUT GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER..

Answer 4

JUST TELL HIM...whats the worst you'd expect??? he may not feel the sAME way?? but tleast u dont have to wonder anymore and hey u never know u could get a positive response too....and if u dont.............. u know u tried and it didnt work out............... and u can move on !!

Answer 5

I'm hoping he's gay too or your gonna have some major problems. Good luck though I hope he's feeling the same.

Answer 6

Tell him that you'd like to spend more time with him and see how he reacts. If it is positive, feed on that and you can be bolder and tell him how strongly you feel.Good luck....it takes guts to go for love but it is worth it.

Answer 7

By simply stating that you like him more than a friend. And let him make the first move.

Answer 8

tell him face 2 face and let him know u feel strongly.don't hold back as u will regret it if u don't just let evrything out.tell him uwant to stay frends if he doesn't feel the same way.
let him know that he is important to ur life as well,good luck=)

Answer 9

sounds like the degrassi episode "its raining men". marco finally revealed his inner most feelings about dylan. at first marco was concerned because he wasn't dylans type at all. so they say. they ended up going out.

...happily ever after, the end!

just be yourself. you should bite the bullet. tell your love how you really feel. you never kow...you could end up like dylan and marco.

Answer 10

nicely he will communicate with you alot except he's shy.call you on the phone,deliver flora.Invite you to "dangle out."seem at you alot and smile and in simple terms "ensue",to stumble upon you on the most eldritch circumstances.