I met this guy and one night we did it in his car. He kept putting it in me and it hurt soooo bad. Is this normal if so sex is over rated. I couldn't get used to it so i just asked him to take it out of me and he never spoke to me again did i do something wrong?
2007-03-17 08:33:20 · 5 answers · asked by Bria C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For many women the first time can be a painful experience, and doing in the the car for the first time can make it even worse I can imagine. But as far as the way you handled it, you did the right thing. He was obviously only looking to get laid. And since you were willing to give it up, sadly the same night you met him, it appears that since he wasn't going to get what he was after he just bailed on you. It seems there was no real connection between the both of you other than to just get laid, but in any case the experience should be a pleasurable one, and for it being your first time he should have been patient and willing to work with you to make it so. Had you been doing this with someone that actually cared for you I'm certain you would have both enjoyed it. I'm not going to attempt to tell you how to live your life, but sex is a serious thing and you should at least try it with someone you have some sort of feelings for and have known for a while at least. Next time you both should take your time and find out what positions work best to make it enjoyable and a lot less painless. Good luck.
2007-03-17 08:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by mcbobly2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you didn't do anything wrong ,but he did, he took advantage of a vulnerable young girl.He pushed you into a situation you weren't ready for, you must learn to be more careful, this has spoiled things for you, learn from this mistake and try with somebody more trustworthy next time. You were a virgin and the Hymen is very sensitive He hurt you physically through his lack of sensitivity and care.That's tantamount to rape.
2007-03-17 08:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was ur first time, of course it's gonna hurt. ur hymen got broken, that happens to women who lose their virginity. it would hurt even more if ur small and he's hung like a horse. if that isn't the case then u should listen to LoveLine, it could be an infection,(KROQ/106.7) google it to find the location and right station. ask 4 Dr. Drew.
2007-03-17 08:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Dann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if it was your first time or if you did it before if u did it before and it still hurt than thats not normal but if you was a virgin its totally normal bacause its walls and layers of skin he has to bust to and it indeed will hurt next time you do it it should'nt hurt.
2007-03-17 08:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is totally normal........so no need 2 worry!
That guy should not onlu think about his horny self!
I MEAN... DONT GUYS KNOW THAT IT HURTS US 2 ?!!!
2007-03-17 08:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by marta-marta@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋