Were 'best friends'. I see him everyday at school, and were always callling each other. When I started liking him I told him, but he said he didnt feel the same, because he is still in love with his ex girlfriend. Well, I told him things wouldn't be different. I always get over guys by completely losing contact, or hating them. haha! So I dont know how I can get over him, if I have to see him everyday?HELP!
2007-03-17 08:37:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just stop thinking of him romantically and ingrain into your head that you're like brother and sister. That will help turn you off quickly.
2007-03-17 08:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a whole bunch of other guys. So find some i'm not saying that you need to go out with someone to get over him but meet other guys there might be one you'll like better. By staying friends a chance to build a relationship is there so don't try to have the realtionship let things grow on there own if it's going to happen.
2007-03-17 15:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by crazy4orlando2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were over 21, I'd suggest the No Fail Ex Cure:
drink 5 shots of tequila all in a row. Then eat a raw egg. Then drink another 5 shots of tequila. Each time you puke, imagine that the vomit is your feelings for him.
Then pass out. By mid-afternoon the next day, you'll be so busy trying to get rid of your headache, you wont have time to think of that crybaby jerkface poop head man.
But you're not over 21, so...forget it.
2007-03-17 15:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are best friends then you shouldn't just leave him hanging, don't let this one thing ruin your relationship with him. Maybe his feelings for you will change over time and being friends is the best way to help it happen. If he still loves this other girl there is no way you can come between them without puting yourself in a bad situation. Good Luck!
2007-03-17 15:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be exactly the same, but near the end we completely ignored each other and eventually I got over him, and lucky for me he moved. But everyone's different so you'll have to find out what works for you. And if yu try hating someone yu still love it's harder to get over them. if yu guys keep hanging out though he might start to like yu.
2007-03-17 15:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by croutonn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he and you are best friends, you will need time but you will get over it. You told him you would, and you should, in order to save the relationship. It's called a part of growing up, it's bittersweet but that's just the way it is. Not everyone we like is going to like us back, and we just have to get over it. Time heals wounds and egos.
2007-03-17 15:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if by experience you know that the only way you'll get over him is by not seeing him then try your BEST at avoiding him. Don't talk, speak, or even look at him. Of course, you'll see him, but act like you don't!
2007-03-17 15:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ki-Ki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should act exactly the same as you were before. Maybe this feeling you have is not real, try to ignore it and tell him if you can get things back to normal again. .
2007-03-17 15:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to act like nothin happend. Just get everything back to normal. i know it will hurt but u dont want to ruin a friendship do u? dont obses over him. and dont ignore him, just be his true friend. Now that he knows you have nothing to hide. Like I said before just be is true friend and everything will be fine! i wish you luck!
2007-03-17 15:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over him, because if he likes another girl then he will always be thinking of her and not you
2007-03-17 15:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by sagin123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋