Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

I am going to a birthday party 2day at 4 and I havn't goten her anything yet!! She is my best friend and she is turning 11, but thats not all. She is a total tomboy. No joke no make-up no bikinis no purfume, abercrombie. Nothing Girly!! I am really stuck on what to get her, becuz we are opposites!! I am a cheerleader and she is a soccer fanatic!! She LOVES soccer and would never give it up. Please help. Should I just get a giftcard or something?

2007-03-17 09:12:46 · 2 answers · asked by hannah montana 2 in Friends

they say you have nothing in common with them and you do and you tell them that and they dont listen what should you do??!! :(

2007-03-17 09:12:06 · 8 answers · asked by helpless 2 in Friends

This guy that i've been talkin' to wants to hook-up. He's 20 and non-military. He's asked me to be his girlfriend twice already and I turned him down because with me being in the Army it puts a strain on the relationship. I really, really like him but I don't know what to do because of my situation. I'm schedualed to leave 4 Germany in 3 months for 4 months and I don't want to get serious when I know that i'm leaving. So my question is...are my actions justifing my reasons...or should I take a risk and let him in even though I know what the consequences may be?!?!?

2007-03-17 09:12:06 · 8 answers · asked by sheeshee4christ 1 in Singles & Dating

I was talking on the phone with my best friend, who happens to be a guy. We got to talking about math class and he said, "Ain't it funny how every girl in our math class has someone that has a crush on them? I mean, Reshawn has a crush on Amber and Calvin has a crush on you and Kayla." I said, "I know Calvin likes me. He asked me out last year and I said no." (BTW we only have 3 girls and 20 guys in our math class.) Then he said, "I bet if I asked you out you'd say yes." (Since he knows I like him." "Shut up," I said. THEN he said, "Now I have a serious question...would you?" "Yeah," I said. AND THEN HE SAID, "Yeah...and don't hold your breath..." and I didn't hear what he said afterward. Did he ask me out or was he just playing a joke on me.

BTW: If he was just playing a joke on me, don't tell me to stop being friends with him and don't say he was being a jerk. I AM THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN CALL HIM A JERK! Lol! Did he really ask me out or was he just playing around?

2007-03-17 09:11:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 09:11:04 · 9 answers · asked by melbournewooferblue 4 in Marriage & Divorce

In a half hour my ex fiance (of a week ago who picked up with another girl) is coming to get some paperwork (if that is what he wants) from the apartment. I need to maintain dignity and go out with my pride. Wish me luck and say a prayer please! He broke my heart in pieces. And any advice would be good too!

2007-03-17 09:11:01 · 12 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

what are some signs he is secretly giving me, that I am not seeing, in the meanwhile of a divorce with his best friend.
thats right, the other guy happens to be my husbands best friend. how do i know if he is in to me? i am so confused HELP?

2007-03-17 09:09:22 · 3 answers · asked by crazy m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well do guys just want to fu** the girl they are with they dont just want to be together because they really l;ike them they just want to tap there a$$ or something like that why

2007-03-17 09:07:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've read other columns where a female says they're treated wrong and a lot of other females will tell her to slap the guy. whaaat? first off, how are so sure she even can? i'll bet most can't. i'd bet no woman could do that to me. that's bad advice.

2007-03-17 09:07:31 · 7 answers · asked by GlamRocked 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this person knows 3 languages and is really smart in that way . But does not have common sense at all. I mean some things amaze me that he does not know. Like I had to show him what high beams were and how to use them.

2007-03-17 09:07:03 · 5 answers · asked by jodeefla1979 3 in Friends

I've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends. She's never dated anyone, she is of legal age, and she's not shy at all. I can't tell if she's just be friendly or if it's her lack of relationship xp. She has a lot of admirers but blows them off.

She cancels plans and asks me to hang out with her. When i visit her workplace and am about to leave, she makes a sad face. She asked for a piggy back ride the other day and i carried her to the otherside of the street. When she came over, i gave her a shoulder massage while she was checking her email.

She said that the reason she likes me is because she can talk and bother me i will probably never fall for her. Then she said she was unsure about that and that her charm might rub off on me.

Everyone thinks we're a couple because we hang out a lot and when asked if we are, she always says i'm too good for her.

2007-03-17 09:06:27 · 13 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 09:05:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What Should I do. .. ??
My wife is working in a company as a supervisor and she has a bad Boss.

I said Bad Boss .. because . .
Once after a hard day at work ( for my wife ) I was at home after I finished my work .. Cooking dinner and preparing the table for both of us to eat dinner.
She arrived home as usual at 6:30 pm. She parked the car and walked in to the kitchen saying ( Honey I am Home ) all was good till ….
I saw her eyes. She was crying because of her Boss ..
Well her Boss is a very disrespectable personal .. He is always hitting on his lady employees..
But that day he ran his fingers threw her hair when he was saying ( good job .. you did a good job)
She knew that he is aiming for something , but the problem is she cant jeopardize her job because she will just lose it .. ( especially because we are both working out of our Home land).

Now the question is ..
I am So damn mad .. angry .. burning .. but I cant be the reason of losing her job.

2007-03-17 09:04:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know I should've never looked through his wallet. but I did.

And I was shocked to see a picture of his ex coworker. A female. I met her at a few of his company parties.

In the back it said with love to _____ and her name.

Its' bothering me! He is questioning what's up with me, but I cant tell him! I can't. He will instantly jump and say 'you dont trust me bla bla' and so on.

My thoughts were:
take the picture
Buy him a new wallet for anniversary and wait until he starts to change the wallet, and come unexpected and catch the picture then question him.
or?

I really don't know.

We were recently separated for 5 months. He swears that he didn't have anything with anyone and probably so because he called me all the time and we even had sex during our separation. I am thinking he wouldn't be calling me, if he was getting it somewhere else. Maybe its jut a friend that talked to him when we were separated? I don't want to

Please help me what should I do. This is really bothering me

2007-03-17 09:04:20 · 12 answers · asked by someone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or just something to say when ur conversation is in a lull

2007-03-17 09:04:00 · 3 answers · asked by Still Doll << 4 in Singles & Dating

My roommate just got dumped by his fiancee and wants me to pretend to be her at a big office party because I am thin and can pass as a girl. He's even picked out what he wants me to wear: a slinky little black dress & matching high heels. I wouldn't normally do it, but I have to admit that the idea is kinda exciting and he's offered to pay my share of the rent this month if I go through with it.

2007-03-17 09:03:50 · 6 answers · asked by Auburn 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do people think that sex is making love, and why do they have to judge you as a horrible person for liking Hot,Kinky, Compassionate, Rough Sex? And tell you that you have problems with yourself and should get help. Cause I don't always want to make love if you know what I mean? It would get kind of boring doing the same old song and dance.

2007-03-17 09:03:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

every morning in school we have about 15 mins before we have to get to class so we walk around in the morning in the halls..well anyways..he broke up with me and i found out it was bc i was to clingy and stuff so i wrote him a note telling him i was truly srry for actin that way and i explained to him why i acted the way i did..(bc sum girl was jealous of him and I together so she kept tellin me he was cheatin on me) and i told him i was complete idiot not to belive him or my closest friends and i said i was srry & if he was ta give me another chance that i wouldnt be like dat again..n i promised dat. but he stares at me even b4 i wrote that note to him. like he will look at me when my friend sam walks next to me and he (sam) is a good friend of mine. and the other day i was dressed up all pretty bc i had to go to a funral and he was starrin at me. and thats night he i saw him at walmart and it looked like he was goin to say sumtin but didnt i think it was bc my dad was rite there. why

2007-03-17 09:02:52 · 9 answers · asked by Becca B 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend single father, kids has attachment problem and needs nurturing. The father has a gf who is so immature and sometimes treat him bad(not violent). The gf dad's got cancer and in the hospital, my friend was there to support , which is very nice. The gf has a lot of support from the family(they are big family) in town. My friend only have the kids in town. The gf dad's has to go to especial hospital and my friend was thier to support but the kids needs him too since doesn't have any family to hang out with only with a sitter. Is it necessary to leave your kids that way, that you only see most on the weekends or to be with the gf who has a lot of support from the huge family? Do you think they(gf family) will understand you have responsibility as guardian and a parent since the kids needs you?

2007-03-17 09:02:17 · 2 answers · asked by sure_whatever_29 3 in Friends

theres these two freaking annoying girls in my drama class always telling people what their doing wrong when they suck already.. i need some cruel ideas to get them back for how rude they always are to people me and my friend are going to invite them to the mall but what shall we do once we get there?

2007-03-17 09:02:09 · 10 answers · asked by LoveLyLonEr 2 in Friends

i think its time that i broke up with my gf because i never get to see her or talk to her. she moved about 35 miles away from me and the only way i talk to her now is on myspace but she hardly ever writes back and i dont think that she has the same feelings for me anymore that i have for her. i really dont wanna do this to her but what am i supposed to do? what should i say to her that wont sound mean or horrible???

2007-03-17 09:01:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just asking.nothing serious just asking.um i am quiet ,love reading books,comics,horror,playing video games.not much of a talker too shy like hinata.love watching anime NARUTO. um and really tough.even if i am quiet people at school think i am evil.like the omen stupid rumor because quiet.smart.but not very good in math):.i have black eyes,black hair and brown .my age is actually 13.just asking no rude comments please just asking.no grammer comments.

2007-03-17 09:00:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for a year and 2 months. Im just not in love with him, I am 14, and he is 16. He is toooooo clingy. Also we go to the same school, and it hard to see him. So really how do I break up with someone who goes to my school?

P.S.
How do you get him to still be your friend after the break up?

2007-03-17 09:00:47 · 10 answers · asked by caligurrl3634 2 in Singles & Dating

I guess I feel alone, my mum died 6 yrs ago and not a birthday, Anniversary or a Mother's day goes by without feeling sad but focused on what it means because now I'm a Mum myself. I still feel like my heart has been ripped out, has anybody out there experienced the same? or can anyone relate to what its like to be without your mum?- best friend? I guess I just need to hear that my feelings are perfectly normal even after all this time... Thanx in advance x

2007-03-17 09:00:36 · 25 answers · asked by Scatty 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-17 09:00:03 · 10 answers · asked by Smiley 1 in Friends

2007-03-17 08:59:35 · 28 answers · asked by latina42 1 in Marriage & Divorce

where would you go?

2007-03-17 08:59:32 · 7 answers · asked by hotlittleblondechick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Simply write the name of the person, your relationship with him/her & express your love in not more than 10-12 words. Make your love immortal right here!!

2007-03-17 08:58:34 · 8 answers · asked by easyrecognition 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband has a 13yr old that lives with us, and all he can say is that he doesnt want to go thru it again. And that he has the right to change his mind. But its not fair to tell me for the last 2years he wants children with me and then tell me no children. I have been thru medical procedures to get ready to have a child and now being faced with not being able to.

2007-03-17 08:58:00 · 9 answers · asked by Kerri S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husban and i have been together for over a year-in the begging thing were fine-but he still treats my kids like dogs.hes great to me-but when it comes to them, well,he doesnt spend time with them unless hes yelling or getting on to them and its constantly a tug of war 4 me. we fight about it all the time.but of course i almost always take their side.they are young and need a man to look up b/c their father aint worth a s**t.

2007-03-17 08:57:11 · 11 answers · asked by milissa h 2 in Other - Family & Relationships