I've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends. She's never dated anyone, she is of legal age, and she's not shy at all. I can't tell if she's just be friendly or if it's her lack of relationship xp. She has a lot of admirers but blows them off.
She cancels plans and asks me to hang out with her. When i visit her workplace and am about to leave, she makes a sad face. She asked for a piggy back ride the other day and i carried her to the otherside of the street. When she came over, i gave her a shoulder massage while she was checking her email.
She said that the reason she likes me is because she can talk and bother me i will probably never fall for her. Then she said she was unsure about that and that her charm might rub off on me.
Everyone thinks we're a couple because we hang out a lot and when asked if we are, she always says i'm too good for her.
2007-03-17 09:06:27 · 13 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has on the other hand invited me to dinner and a movie. She has also rated me a 9 from a scale of 1-10 in hotness. In addition when i jokingly mentioned i would stretch my arms in theatres to make a move, she insisted she wanted to see it. When we went with a group of people on a seperate occasion, she insisted i sit next to her and that if i continued sitting in front of her i would block her view. We walk close together a lot and play weird games. She even took my phone, decorated, and put pix of herself making weird faces and kissing the screen. She played the piano while i was napping and then jumped on me after.
2007-03-17 09:06:36 · update #1
sounds like she is the one making all the moves, that's a guys job. make some moves for yourself, but know that you could ruin the whole thing, and you can't fix it once it's done. it will never be the same again. you might just be better off letting it evolve or fizzle, many friendships are ruined this way and yes I have ruined a few myself. and regretted it. I have never been one to make friends wtih females unless I was expecting a certain outcome, but I have been in your situation more than a few times. and when I did try to turn it around, it usually ruined a fun thing. your friend has shown she isn't ready to give more of herself away, leave it at that , she has good reason probably.
2007-03-17 09:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE HAS TO LIKE YOU. AND A LOT FOR THAT MATTER! Goodness, it sounds like she wants you, and bad! Show her that you like her to, that's if you really do though. Show her that you guys can have good times, but then romantic times as well. It's always good to be a good listener because that's what girls love, I would know! Lol. Anyways, tell her how you feel and I know it may be hard, but it's better than being hard to get. It's fun, but after a while, it's gets too boring for girls, so show her a fun time! Good luck!
2007-03-17 16:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to kno whether a girl likes you or not there is a simple way to find out. Walk up to here & tell her the dirstiest thing you can think of. If she doesnt slap you right away or file a restraining order then she interested in you.
2007-03-17 16:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by da_macdaddy91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she really likes you. She may have some insecurities too, not knowing if you like her the same way.
Sometimes a girl thinks "wow, he's soo gorgeous, what in the world does he see in me?" Which is why she thinks that you're too good for her. She definetly likes you.
2007-03-17 16:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to tell.
some stuff sounds like she is just a very good friend. and loved you but only as a friend. some girls love to just be close (some would say romnticly) to their friends bu mean nothing by it.
some other stuff sounds like she likes... loves you.
its hard to tell. you should ask her out (if you like her)
or you should ask her if she likes you. be straight up whateve ryour chioce.
2007-03-17 16:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hhhhmmmmmm yes I feel quite tired reading through that story.
2007-03-17 16:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definetley think she likes you. All the signs lead to it. I think you need to just follow your heart. Do what you think is right. But let me just say, she sounds like a blessing that was given to YOU. Redeem your blessing.
2007-03-17 16:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by lost&confuzed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that women is trying to tell u someting , that she likes u. cant u figure it out already?
2007-03-17 16:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES~! She likes you~!
2007-03-17 16:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by SuzzyLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she dont like u she loves u!
2007-03-17 16:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋