2007-03-17 08:59:35 · 28 answers · asked by latina42 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
got the girl pregnant while he's while he's in iraq suppose to be fighting a war
2007-03-17 09:14:39 · update #1
Yeah I'd forgive and forget....forget about keeping this cheater around.
2007-03-17 09:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 22:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa,... you have NO idea of the stress war places on people...and people do things under stress they don't normally do. There is NO blanket statement to be made here. You need to work this out, one way or another, with your husband. And if you stay, do NOT try to punish him for the rest of his life...it will not work. Give the guy a break, get the story, the whole story, before you go off on a tangent. Good luck
2007-03-17 09:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no i wouldn't stay with someone like that. If he loved you even an ounce he would never had done it in the first place. It don't matter if you have kids or not with him.....don't keep him around. He's a loser and doesn't deserve a good woman or a family for that matter. Kick him....you can do better. Instead of fighting for his country it seems like all he was worried about was gettin a piece of ***!!!! No salute for that soldier!!! Thats giving us americans a bad rep!!!! He should also be banned from the service!!!!! Not good at all.
2007-03-17 13:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by tigerbrat21531 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me when i was pregnant with my first child and it was with my best friend who was also married. i did not find out about it until four years later. i was more hurt than mad but i did forgive him and her, and we are still friends, just not as close as we use to be. but i knew that if i wanted to keep my family together that i would have to forgive and get over the hurt.
2007-03-17 10:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by amy c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question. First I'd have to deal with the betrayal of my husband, who made a vow to be true to me and be with no one else for the rest of our lives together.
Then I'd have to deal with the other woman because this woman would be in our lives for the rest of our time together, because of the child, who is innocent.
Depends on other factors in the situation.
2007-03-17 09:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goggle the vernal deseases, STD's out there; consider this girl has done this before. Get tested and tell your husband to hit the road. You do not want to have HIV, Aids or any other desease....
2007-03-17 09:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by doctor.ashley.proctologist 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
These question is going to be a great morale booster
for the spouses that have partners serving overseas.
Your question might be genuine but then again maybe it should have not been posted on here.
2007-03-17 09:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by melbournewooferblue 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, God tells us to always forgive, so I would forgive him. However, I would then serve divorce papers on his nasty ***! You can forgive somebody but not be in a relationship with them.
2007-03-17 09:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be angry, but over time I could forgive him. There is no use in holding a grudge over it, but he would still have to suffer the consequences of his actions.
2007-03-17 09:04:45 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Ms. Allison♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋