Why do people think that sex is making love, and why do they have to judge you as a horrible person for liking Hot,Kinky, Compassionate, Rough Sex? And tell you that you have problems with yourself and should get help. Cause I don't always want to make love if you know what I mean? It would get kind of boring doing the same old song and dance.
2007-03-17 09:03:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You wanna know why people say stuff like that? Society. Socitey has made people to believe things that arent true and once a few believe the nonsense, everyone does. Theres nothing wrong with sex or rough sex. And i dont think you need to be in love to have sex. I think people are just rediculous and need to mind there own buisness. Dont listen to what others say, its perfesctly normal to not want to play out the same song untill it becomes unbearable.
2007-03-17 09:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by lost&confuzed 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I do not think everyone thinks you are a horrible person. I believe you would be a horrible person if you are having SEX and your partner is MAKING LOVE to you.
FREEDOM means you can do anything you want as long as your actions do not hurt anyone else.
By the way... you are pretty normal we all want different things (I am not only talking about sex)
2007-03-17 16:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by chilanga26lasvegas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are discriminating... I hate that too. If you like hot, kinky, compassionate, rough, sex, I say go for it! You are what you are, if those people are discriminating you then just tell them how you feel and don't be scared to yell, that way people will stop discriminating you.
2007-03-17 16:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't always feel like ''making love'' all the time either but i still think that sex weather it be hot and kinky or more emotional or whatever should only be shared with someone that you are in love with but thats only how i feel don't worry about what everyone else thinks you just go with how you feel to each his own right
2007-03-17 16:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't making love.
Sex is acctually having sexual relations with a friend, or someone you care about but don't love, while Making Love is sexual relations with someone you truly or feel you truly are in love with. Then of course ******* is sexual relations with someone you hardly know, or basically a one night stand.
As for why people judge you, because that's actually human nature. Everyone feels they have to judge everyone else. You do it, I do it, everyone does it. Thing is, most people just do it to a more extreem level than others.
2007-03-17 16:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by Siren 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings on the topic are completely normal. Sounds more like your lover needs some lessons in empathy 101.
2007-03-17 16:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by i♥sf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because usually people have sex with people that they're in love with...so they're making love. if you're not in love with the person you're having sex with, then it's just an action to make you feel good and nothing more.
2007-03-17 16:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some people probably think people are sluts, whores, etc. easily just because they either are jealous or because they dont know the real definition of sluts, whores, etc. and tend to judge people easily and think if you like sex you are officially a whore
2007-03-17 16:07:50 · answer #8 · answered by Lina x3 Pete Wentz is the sex! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I FEEL YOU GURL!!! I love hot sexy sex. Its amazing! I like making love to but me and my husband are kinky. SO i really understand you. People judge me and him all the time but you know what?? I dont care because they're just jealous because i have multiple orgasms almost EVERY night and they dont so do wat you do!!! Dont worry bout the haters!! :)
2007-03-17 16:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy*Black*Chick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These people are just to stuck up I agree sometimes you just want to get to the dirty stuff. Have fun and don't worry about these people.
2007-03-17 16:09:04 · answer #10 · answered by Priceless 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋